if you're not jbf just make her a bird

[TerminatorGenisys9]

As simple as it gets. If you're not the first love the only way you can overcome that first love is by making her a bird. You need to drive her crazy and have everyone in her life be against you to the point where she is crazy for still being with you and once you have that, then you can finally know she does love you. As sick as it sounds I think it was the only way for me to be able to be in love.