I’ll be alright

[Zenis]

Hopefully this feeling in my chest of pure dread and hopelessness goes soon, it needs to

 

[italianltn]

The longer you don't address the root cause the longer the feeling will stay.

 

[lowdimotrucel]

do herointrust me

 

[qwertyqwerty]

what are you worried about

 

[Zenis]

The longer you don't address the root cause the longer the feeling will stay.

I can’t at the moment do anything about the root cause

 

[Zenis]

what are you worried about

Nothing in particular I just have a feeling of dread 24/7, just pure and utter hopelessness and draws

 

[italianltn]

I can’t at the moment do anything about the root cause

Why not?

 

[Zenis]

Why not?

Where am I gonna find a genuine human connection to a female I like?

 

[italianltn]

Where am I gonna find a genuine human connection to a female I like?

Hmm, difficult question.

Matters alot about you as a person.

Have you been with women before?

 

[emogymmaxx]

then opioids walk in

 

[Zenis]

Hmm, difficult question.

Matters alot about you as a person.

Have you been with women before?

I haven’t even left the house in a year really, and I haven’t talked to a women romantically in even longer

 

[Zenis]

Hmm, difficult question.

Matters alot about you as a person.

Have you been with women before?

The women needs to be my type too, I feel absolutely nothing for the majority of women I see

 

[italianltn]

I haven’t even left the house in a year really, and I haven’t talked to a women romantically in even longer

The women needs to be my type too, I feel absolutely nothing for the majority of women I see

Heavily relate to you on both these statements.

At times I also get "flushes" of "despair"/low-motivation.

Although I try to speak to girls as often as possible, I relate to you on the fact that unless I truly like them I feel nothing.

The takeaway is that you have spoken to women romantically but clearly you're going through a rough area.

My advice to you is slightly bluepilled, however realistically speaking no one finds happiness from rotting, being a doomer and living a miserable life.

Try to do more things in life, don't try force romantic relationships as it won't work and lead to more stress. Try find any excuse to leave the house, try find anything to keep your mind occupied.

I know this sounds like typical normie bullshit but realistically speaking nothing changes if nothing changes, if you stay inside all day feeling dread, staying inside all day will only cause you to...feel more dread.

 

[Zenis]

Heavily relate to you on both these statements.

At times I also get "flushes" of "despair"/low-motivation.

Does it usually happen during moments of long drawn loneliness?

Although I try to speak to girls as often as possible, I relate to you on the fact that unless I truly like them I feel nothing.

I’ve only felt something for like 1 girl in my life that I actually knew and that was the one I talked romantically to, I had slight crushes here and there but nothing too big

The takeaway is that you have spoken to women romantically but clearly you're going through a rough area.

My advice to you is slightly bluepilled, however realistically speaking no one finds happiness from rotting, being a doomer and living a miserable life.

I agree with this, the advice to “oh bro learn to be lonely” is terrible for the 99% of people because I seriously don’t think it’s feasible for a happy life, the longer your alone the more dread you feel

Try to do more things in life, don't try force romantic relationships as it won't work and lead to more stress. Try find any excuse to leave the house, try find anything to keep your mind occupied.

Yeah I’m tired of looking at photos of girls like gio Scotti and getting depressed tbh, I gotta keep myself busy.

I know this sounds like typical normie bullshit but realistically speaking nothing changes if nothing changes, if you stay inside all day feeling dread, staying inside all day will only cause you to...feel more dread.

 

[italianltn]

Does it usually happen during moments of long drawn loneliness?

Yeah most the time it does. I find when the brain doesn't have anything to do it often starts attacking its self. It's almost like it's so bored of doing nothing it resorts to acting against itself.

I’ve only felt something for like 1 girl in my life that I actually knew and that was the one I talked romantically to, I had slight crushes here and there but nothing too big

Again a positive takeaway, again not to be a bluepilled cuck again but if it's happened once, it's very very likely to happen again. But as I said, trying to force your way into romance never works, unless you want a quick slay/ONS. But I often find it hard to have meaningless relationships as I quite literally feel nothing towards the girls, unless I'm heavily under the influence

I agree with this, the advice to “oh bro learn to be lonely” is terrible for the 99% of people because I seriously don’t think it’s feasible for a happy life, the longer your alone the more dread you feel

Precisely, if somethings bringing you so much dread and despair, why on earth would you possibly want it to continue?

 

[Zenis]

Yeah most the time it does. I find when the brain doesn't have anything to do it often starts attacking its self. It's almost like it's so bored of doing nothing it resorts to acting against itself.

Again a positive takeaway, again not to be a bluepilled cuck again but if it's happened once, it's very very likely to happen again. But as I said, trying to force your way into romance never works, unless you want a quick slay/ONS. But I often find it hard to have meaningless relationships as I quite literally feel nothing towards the girls, unless I'm heavily under the influence

Precisely, if somethings bringing you so much dread and despair, why on earth would you possibly want it to continue?

Do you live in italty?

 

[italianltn]

Do you live in italty?

Used to, moved to the UK a little bit ago.

 

[Zenis]

Used to, moved to the UK a little bit ago.

Is gio scottis look common there?

 

[italianltn]

Is gio scottis look common there?

Most women tend to have more "baby" faces, but to be honest I haven't seen any gio look alikes.

 

[Zenis]

Most women tend to have more "baby" faces, but to be honest I haven't seen any gio look alikes.

How common are women with black hair and green eyes in Italy though

 

[italianltn]

How common are women with black hair and green eyes in Italy though

Ah, black hair is extremely common, with green eyes being I'd say amongst the majority. In northern italy especially the majority of girls will be dark hair with brown/green eyes. Highly suggest you visit.

 

[Zenis]

Ah, black hair is extremely common, with green eyes being I'd say amongst the majority. In northern italy especially the majority of girls will be dark hair with brown/green eyes. Highly suggest you visit.

Defenitly will after I’m done with college