I’m a 32 year old male and my wife is 30F. After 5 years of marriage I felt like she had given me all she had to offer

[Prettyboy]

Now, please don’t judge me for saying that. She just had a very low sex drive and I have a higher one. I figured opening the relationship would help out marriage and help me get my needs met. She originally said no, but after I explained to her the benefits she said yes after a few days of asking. We seemed both excited at the possibility of a threesome.

Now where the problem lies is that my wife is bisexual, and yet the only people she’s been sleeping have been men. When asked about this, she said she only sleeps with people she clicks with, and they just happen to be men. When I told her my feelings about this she said it’s only fair because I’m sleeping with other women. While true, it makes me wonder if she’s truly bisexual.

When I asked for her to also sleep with women or I’d want to close the marriage again she rolled her eyes and said no. One of the guys I fear is trying to seriously date her. He brings her flowers and food, pays for her nails and never even acknowledges me when he’s over. I feel like she’s dismissing my feelings and I’m getting frustrated. I want to close our marriage again. How to approach this?

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Link?

 

[Yliaster]

hilarious how he's acting as though he has the power in the relationship

 

[ropemax]

Link?

This is his life story

 

[Deleted member 18522]

hilarious how he's acting as though he has the power in the relationship

he probably does if she doesnt have a job

 

[Yliaster]

 

[thereallegend]

I'm thinking this husband is white too. Anyways, giving up your long term commitment always leads to less sex over time even if you're Chad. Opening up the relationship is a win for the woman. You can compete with a woman's sexual access even if you're Chad.

This is why hookups/FWBs are the way to go.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

I am feeling suicidal just reading this shit prolly fake tho

 

[Suimaxxer]

The cuckolding is INSANE

 

[Deleted member 17872]

She originally said no, but after I explained to her the benefits she said yes after a few days of asking.

The lengths to which the modern man will go to cuck himself @ReadBooksEveryday

 

[Yliaster]

I'm thinking this husband is white too. Anyways, giving up your long term commitment always leads to less sex over time even if you're Chad. Opening up the relationship is a win for the woman. You can compete with a woman's sexual access even if you're Chad.

This is why hookups/FWBs are the way to go.

current state of relationships in the west





@Amnesia why don't you get married broooo have some kidss brahhh

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

The lengths to which the modern man will go to cuck himself @ReadBooksEveryday

And then blame the Jews for his misfortune

 

[Deleted member 17872]

And then blame the Jews for his misfortune

@Biggdink in a nutshell

 

[Deleted member 21044]

What is this shit. Disgusting.

 

[Prettyboy]

Link?

This is his life story

We have been going on our actual dates with people for two weeks now. We have since gone on two dates. Myself with the same person that is going very well and have hookup’d both times and my husband with two people that didn’t he didn’t have a spark with.

When I came back from my second date he was very much in his feels and upset that I had sex with someone and he feels like he’s having a hard time. I tried reassuring him it’s still early and needs to give it time, but he was just so upset. He very much regrets that we didn’t plan dates that we both were going to hook up on the same night, so “it felt even”. He’s been closed off to me and said he feels awkward with me now.

Because of this, he wants me to take a pause on hooking up with other people until he’s had sex with someone else. He is still fine for me to date others still and kiss, but that’s it. At first I understood, but now feeling that’s unfair to myself. I don’t think it’s expected that we should go at the same pace with other people. It’s just not that easy. If we both agree with the fundamentals of this lifestyle, it shouldn’t matter we’re on separate pages with other people.