Im a mentalcel with no dating experience. Where do I start?

[Deleted member 12234]

Ive been approached by women several times in my lifetime and now that i'm reaching my mid 20s, I figured it's best to finally put myself out there. However, I literally don't know how to interact with women lol. I feel so fcked. I've struggled w anxiety and autism my entire life, despite being somewhat attractive. Women thought I was just "shy" growing up. Any guys who were in similar situations as me that can give genuine advice? I feel it's pointless to looksmax without personalitymaxxing.

 

[Deleted member 5746]

Tried taking a shit? I know gut bacteria causes autism u just gotta shit it out and ur gold to go bro

 

[Deleted member 10524]

run numbers game

 

[Deleted member 6403]

 

[Weed]

Dnr

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Ive been approached by women several times in my lifetime and now that i'm reaching my mid 20s, I figured it's best to finally put myself out there. However, I literally don't know how to interact with women lol. I feel so fcked. I've struggled w anxiety and autism my entire life, despite being somewhat attractive. Women thought I was just "shy" growing up. Any guys who were in similar situations as me that can give genuine advice? I feel it's pointless to looksmax without personalitymaxxing.

mentalcel is cope. its all about looks. you are most likely unattractive

 

[Deleted member 756]

mentalcel is cope. its all about looks. you are most likely unattractive

indeed

 

[Deleted member 10172]

indeed

glad we both agree on another thing

 

[Deleted member 10551]

mentalcel is cope. its all about looks. you are most likely unattractive

I disagree to a certain extent. Yes, you need to pass a certain threshold of looks, but your personality does matter in the long term.

 

[Deleted member 756]

glad we both agree on another thing

only looks matter
things like personality, money and status are pure cope

 

[Deleted member 10172]

I disagree to a certain extent. Yes, you need to pass a certain threshold of looks, but your personality does matter in the long term.

cope

 

[Deleted member 10551]

cope

If you have a submissive or nervous personality, people will walk all over you.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

only looks matter
things like personality, money and status are pure cope

yep. if you're an incel you either looksmax[surgeries, gymcelling], coping[escorts, porn, vidya], or roping

 

[Deleted member 10172]

If you have a submissive or nervous personality, people will walk all over you.

cope, yet again that "people will walk all over you" is based on looks too.

 

[Deleted member 10652]

If you have a submissive or nervous personality, people will walk all over you.

 

[Deleted member 10551]

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Yes, I would hope if you had most of those bones, you would feel confident in yourself. Obviously, people will be attracted to you, but that does not always fix a fucked brain.

 

[Deleted member 756]

yep. if you're an incel you either looksmax[surgeries, gymcelling], coping[escorts, porn, vidya], or roping

what about slaying ugly women?

 

[Deleted member 12234]

I disagree to a certain extent. Yes, you need to pass a certain threshold of looks, but your personality does matter in the long term.

exactly lol. I've been approached numerous times by women and never reciprocated bc of my anxiety. Only ppl who suffer from anxiety and autism can understand what im going through.

 

[Hozay]

mentalcel is cope. its all about looks. you are most likely unattractivindeed

He literally just said that he's been approached by woman and you're calling him unattractive lol.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

He literally just said that he's been approached by woman and you're calling him unattractive lol.

I didn’t even read the thread because I don’t care

 

[Deleted member 12234]

yep. if you're an incel you either looksmax[surgeries, gymcelling], coping[escorts, porn, vidya], or roping

like i said in my post, i've been approached several times but never could reciprocate because of my anxiety and autism. Looks help u attract women but personality helps u keep them.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

He literally just said that he's been approached by woman and you're calling him unattractive lol.

U haven’t been posting heed and succeed videos

 

[Hozay]

I didn’t even read the thread because I don’t care

lol, nvm

 

[Growth Plate]

just swallow nt saliva bro

 

[Deleted member 11388]

Ive been approached by women several times in my lifetime and now that i'm reaching my mid 20s, I figured it's best to finally put myself out there. However, I literally don't know how to interact with women lol. I feel so fcked. I've struggled w anxiety and autism my entire life, despite being somewhat attractive. Women thought I was just "shy" growing up. Any guys who were in similar situations as me that can give genuine advice? I feel it's pointless to looksmax without personalitymaxxing.

Go tinder and get a lot of dates with girls that you mog so you practice talking with them.
Also go to a club and approach some girls
you have to go out of your comfort zone

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

indeed

Come on bro, I’m mentalcel

 

[Deleted member 275]

Mentalcel?

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Go tinder and get a lot of dates with girls that you mog so you practice talking with them.
Also go to a club and approach some girls
you have to go out of your comfort zone

Yah true. I'm actually going to try the tinder date thing just to get more comfy with dating.

 

[Deleted member 3997]

like i said in my post, i've been approached several times but never could reciprocate because of my anxiety and autism. Looks help u attract women but personality helps u keep them.

Don't worry. I'll rate you and confirm whether you're a mentalcel.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Don't worry. I'll rate you and confirm whether you're a mentalcel.

I posted pics but not of my full face.. But I personally dont need anyone's rating. The attention from women alone is my rating. My problem isn't my looks (although, i'm incrementally trying to improve some areas - like gymmaxxing and my hair/facial hair). It's my mental "problems" (anxiety and autism).

 

[Deleted member 3997]

I can't see your pics.

I posted pics but not of my full face.. But I personally dont need anyone's rating. The attention from women alone is my rating. My problem isn't my looks (although, i'm incrementally trying to improve some areas - like gymmaxxing and my hair/facial hair). It's my mental "problems" (anxiety and autism).

 

[Deleted member 4797]

The Black Phillip Show is for you, start on episode 10

 

[Deleted member 3997]

I posted pics but not of my full face.. But I personally dont need anyone's rating. The attention from women alone is my rating. My problem isn't my looks (although, i'm incrementally trying to improve some areas - like gymmaxxing and my hair/facial hair). It's my mental "problems" (anxiety and autism).

I'll still be able to gauge the sitiuation better if I saw your face.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

The Black Phillip Show is for you, start on episode 10

I appreciate it. Ill check it out.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

I'll still be able to gauge the sitiuation better if I saw your face.

why?