I'm a slave to my urges, how do I free myself?

[fauxfox]

Despite being cognizant of it's downsides I'm addicted to immediate stimulus like junk food, porn+masturbation, video games. I can't handle not receiving constant stimulation and I often fuck up long term-possibilities by only caring about short term pleasure and I hate it. I feel like such a fucking loser and I'm fat, my parents treat me like a retarded child and I feel like others pity me and I hate it.

How do I become a free man? Buddha was fucking right man the ideal state is to escape your worldly desires. How can I achieve this (or as close to it as possible)?

 

[n0rthface]

Double barrel shotgun

 

[height]

violence

 

[fauxfox]

Double barrel shotgun

Why would I do that? Only retards kill themselves.

 

[fauxfox]

violence

I don't want to go to jail.

 

[height]

I don't want to go to jail.

 

[fauxfox]

Maybe I should ask reddit or some shit

 

[Daqirius]

Kill yourself

 

[stevielake]

Have you looked into meds that lower your libido? I’d start there.

 

[DragonBallZCel]

Go to Somalia and marry a big fuuto halimo

 

[NFA PB]

gym and ocassional tinder hookups are my cope

seeing progress in the mirror makes me keep going with no eating junk food and having healthy habits

tinder hookups with no porn/fap because i don't wanna lose my libido and being flacid within 2 seconds of being inside

 

[datboijj]

my only hope is going gluten free

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Video games are fine and it's also a good hobby.

Just quit porn n masturbation though

 

[fauxfox]

Go to Somalia and marry a big fuuto halimo

Nah I don't wanna chain myself down so early. My hoyo keeps telling me to marry at like 25 or some shit and I always say no. Plus ngl man I need a nonreligious/secular woman who's also attractive and most Somali girls don't fit the bill

 

[Deprived]

Honestly I’ve been struggling with this for a few years. The only thing that has helped me improve is starting slowly and gradually incorporating changes to your lifestyle. Most of your actions are mostly based on habits not willpower.

Also Buddha didn’t have the cancerous hyperstimulation we have today. I doubt Buddhism would be around today if everyone had smart phones back then

 

[Deleted member 19174]

Damn nigga, you’re still fat? Over for you.

 

[Magical Apple]

Despite being cognizant of it's downsides I'm addicted to immediate stimulus like junk food, porn+masturbation, video games. I can't handle not receiving constant stimulation and I often fuck up long term-possibilities by only caring about short term pleasure and I hate it. I feel like such a fucking loser and I'm fat, my parents treat me like a retarded child and I feel like others pity me and I hate it.

How do I become a free man? Buddha was fucking right man the ideal state is to escape your worldly desires. How can I achieve this (or as close to it as possible)?

To be ignorant and to be deceived are two different things. To be ignorant is to be a slave of the world. To be deceived is to be the slave of another man. The question will always be: Why, when all men are ignorant, and therefore already slaves, does this latter slavery sting us so?

 

[gtuktm]

im so sad i have no desire to masturbate ive cries like 15 times today and counting when i look in the mirror i cry

 

[House Lannister]

I’ve been in the exact same situation as you and in order to combat it what you need to so is stop fapping and lift weights/go gym this worked for me and it’s mainly about not fapping

 

[Deleted member 21712]

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my only hope is going gluten free

there's your answer. 99% of this forum would be slaying if they just did this

 

[Deleted member 4362]

You can’t

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

my only hope is going gluten free