im afraid to talk with girls, pls help

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idk why but i dont know how to interact with girls, i have been talking with a girl (16 y.o, like me) for 3 months, in the last week, we hung out 3 times, i know that she is interested in me, today in a party she came where i was, i didn't tell her to come where i am, and my friends, who has a lot of energy was hyping the situation, one fiend said to the girl if i was fine and she said that yes, i was pretty fine, and she got near to me, then i did a walk with her for 30 minutes, i think that she wanted me to do something, but i dont have the inner force to try something, so when the walk finished i went home because it was already late.
pls help, im really afraid to talk to women, she is the fist girl with i hung out (i had the opportunity with 4 more but the were whores or i was afraid to hang out with them) and i have never kissed a girl in my life, and in school i only talk with boys because im not confident talking with girl

btw im sorry if my english is not very good, im from spain

chat gpt version if you didnt undestand mine:

I don’t know why, but I struggle to interact with girls. I’ve been talking to a girl (we’re both 16) for about 3 months, and during the last week we hung out three times. I know she’s interested in me. Today, at a party, she came over to where I was (I hadn’t asked her to), and my friends, who are really energetic, started hyping up the situation. One of them even asked her if I was okay, and she replied that yes, I was doing pretty well. Then she got closer to me.


After that, we went for a 30-minute walk together. I think she wanted me to make a move, but I didn’t have the courage to try anything. When the walk ended, I just went home because it was already late.


The truth is, I’m really afraid of talking to girls. She’s the first one I’ve ever hung out with(i had the opportunity with 4 more but the were whores or i was afraid to hang out with them), and I’ve never kissed a girl in my life. and in school i only talk with boys because im not confident talking with girl


what should i do? hang out with she until she makes the first move or when im confident enough to try the move(i will take some time)
 
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dont talk to girls they are just foids that will leave u for better looking guy, its better to be alone
 
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Asking for advice on a forum filled with antisocial, 0 social skilled inkwells

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dont talk to girls they are just foids that will leave u for better looking guy, its better to be alone
what about your mother or grandmother? i think that what you said could be true but not every girl is like that, you just have to be selective and observe properly, but that increases the chance to be alone
 
Idk either good luck twin
 
what about your mother or grandmother? i think that what you said could be true but not every girl is like that, you just have to be selective and observe properly, but that increases the chance to be alone
idk, best option is to be alone
 
Asking for advice on a forum filled with antisocial, 0 social skilled inkwells

Homer Simpson Thinking GIF
actually what i did that was 2-iq, but whatever maybe some decent person answer me properly
 
my version:

idk why but i dont know how to interact with girls, i have been talking with a girl (16 y.o, like me) for 3 months, in the last week, we hung out 3 times, i know that she is interested in me, today in a party she came where i was, i didn't tell her to come where i am, and my friends, who has a lot of energy was hyping the situation, one fiend said to the girl if i was fine and she said that yes, i was pretty fine, and she got near to me, then i did a walk with her for 30 minutes, i think that she wanted me to do something, but i dont have the inner force to try something, so when the walk finished i went home because it was already late.
pls help, im really afraid to talk to women, she is the fist girl with i hung out (i had the opportunity with 4 more but the were whores or i was afraid to hang out with them) and i have never kissed a girl in my life, and in school i only talk with boys because im not confident talking with girl

btw im sorry if my english is not very good, im from spain

chat gpt version if you didnt undestand mine:

I don’t know why, but I struggle to interact with girls. I’ve been talking to a girl (we’re both 16) for about 3 months, and during the last week we hung out three times. I know she’s interested in me. Today, at a party, she came over to where I was (I hadn’t asked her to), and my friends, who are really energetic, started hyping up the situation. One of them even asked her if I was okay, and she replied that yes, I was doing pretty well. Then she got closer to me.


After that, we went for a 30-minute walk together. I think she wanted me to make a move, but I didn’t have the courage to try anything. When the walk ended, I just went home because it was already late.


The truth is, I’m really afraid of talking to girls. She’s the first one I’ve ever hung out with(i had the opportunity with 4 more but the were whores or i was afraid to hang out with them), and I’ve never kissed a girl in my life. and in school i only talk with boys because im not confident talking with girl


what should i do? hang out with she until she makes the first move or when im confident enough to try the move(i will take some time)
make the first move, most girls expect you to do it
just initiate some sort of touch, it doesnt have to be a kiss. something like your arm wrapped around her shoulder or waist would be good
 
if you're above mtn you don't even have to worry jfl just talk
 

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