I’m an incel and I’m scared of girls

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So, I was hoping to post in this subreddit since I know that you are the best people I can ask this question. I (24M) never had a girlfriend. So I’m an incel (in the sense of involuntary celibate). The thing is, even tho I seriously dislike the opinions of the bad incels, I’m seriously scared of girls. When my friends bring their girlfriends out with us I always come up with some excuses to stay home because I’m scared to talk to them. When a girl speaks to me I feel my legs shaking and my voice doesn’t come out easily so I just stutter in a ridicolous way. I was the only guy in my highschool class, and the girls always made fun of me for being shy. So now when I meet a girl I’m always scared that she will judge me or make fun of me. I’m not even ugly, I’m kind of cute I guess, but mentally I suck. I’m so scared like a cat in front of a dog. I wish I’d be able to have some female friends, I’m not even asking for a relationship. I just wish I could speak to girls normally and treat them like I treat my male friends.

@Jason Voorhees @Lefty Rankin @Disabledcel @not__cel @greycel
 
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reply to this if youre an admitted homosexual and you want to be a femboy


You need to find a way to practice, even speed dating, are you in college?
 
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Hey, I share your struggle.
 
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So, I was hoping to post in this subreddit since I know that you are the best people I can ask this question. I (24M) never had a girlfriend. So I’m an incel (in the sense of involuntary celibate). The thing is, even tho I seriously dislike the opinions of the bad incels, I’m seriously scared of girls. When my friends bring their girlfriends out with us I always come up with some excuses to stay home because I’m scared to talk to them. When a girl speaks to me I feel my legs shaking and my voice doesn’t come out easily so I just stutter in a ridicolous way. I was the only guy in my highschool class, and the girls always made fun of me for being shy. So now when I meet a girl I’m always scared that she will judge me or make fun of me. I’m not even ugly, I’m kind of cute I guess, but mentally I suck. I’m so scared like a cat in front of a dog. I wish I’d be able to have some female friends, I’m not even asking for a relationship. I just wish I could speak to girls normally and treat them like I treat my male friends.

@Jason Voorhees @Lefty Rankin @Disabledcel @not__cel @greycel
brotha just use pregab
 
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"It’s fine if you struggle with talking to women, but It’s probably best to not identify as an incel. Being an incel is associated with a subculture of extremely misogynistic men."
-Halo-master3421
 
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Reddit is for morons
 
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DNR
 
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"It’s fine if you struggle with talking to women, but It’s probably best to not identify as an incel. Being an incel is associated with a subculture of extremely misogynistic men."
-Halo-master3421
You’ve reached enlightened cuckddit

Where the reddit users have started to reach a primal state
 
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So, I was hoping to post in this subreddit since I know that you are the best people I can ask this question. I (24M) never had a girlfriend. So I’m an incel (in the sense of involuntary celibate). The thing is, even tho I seriously dislike the opinions of the bad incels, I’m seriously scared of girls. When my friends bring their girlfriends out with us I always come up with some excuses to stay home because I’m scared to talk to them. When a girl speaks to me I feel my legs shaking and my voice doesn’t come out easily so I just stutter in a ridicolous way. I was the only guy in my highschool class, and the girls always made fun of me for being shy. So now when I meet a girl I’m always scared that she will judge me or make fun of me. I’m not even ugly, I’m kind of cute I guess, but mentally I suck. I’m so scared like a cat in front of a dog. I wish I’d be able to have some female friends, I’m not even asking for a relationship. I just wish I could speak to girls normally and treat them like I treat my male friends.

@Jason Voorhees @Lefty Rankin @Disabledcel @not__cel @greycel
I don't know what to tell you. I do know that you must gravitate towards discomfort to be ultimately comfortable though. Maybe you need to embarrass yourself on purpose and sit right there in it so you can realize it's not over. The world still turns and air still fills your lungs.
 
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