im antisocial and need help

[szymislayer]

im so fkn weird literally when i have a contact with a girl i like i always wanna back out no matter what, i also cant talk with a female 1v1 cuz im awkard . im starting to feel that im becoming an incel since i started to hate girls around me ,like im always annoyed by the smallest things they do wrong. please give me some advice

 

[klyro]

find a woman 5-10 years older and befriend her
and have her help you rid of your aniexty

 

[cyrixxy]

practice

im so fkn weird literally when i have a contact with a girl i like i always wanna back out no matter what, i also cant talk with a female 1v1 cuz im awkard . im starting to feel that im becoming an incel since i started to hate girls around me ,like im always annoyed by the smallest things they do wrong. please give me some advice

 

[PSLgodBlackPerson]

• im so fkn weird literally when i have a contact with a girl i like i always wanna back out no matter what, i also cant talk with a female 1v1 cuz im awkard . im starting to feel that im becoming an incel since i started to hate girls around me ,like im always annoyed by the smallest things they do wrong. please give me some advice

• Start talking with girls in a mostly male friend group
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  Girls mostly try to talk to you first if they like you
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  Try to start small talk (little things maybe joke around females) and if ur not experiencing much social failure but still feel awkward its not something innately wrong with u, thats the process of getting use to it
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  Exposure therapy tbh but yk time and place when to talk to girls not just like out of no where it would be extremely awkard unless your aspie and don't know when then its a bit more complicated.

• I use to view females as male so I can more easily talk to them and only see them as friends. Through this method specifically and the others combined talking to them was easy and at one point I wanted to talk to females more than males

 

[PharmaPhaggot]

There isnt much you can do, maybe a maob to stop impulsivity but empathy isnt really possible to change reliably and sustainably, maybe try some phsychadelics like lsd or dmt or shrooms but its not a guarantee