I'm dating a Tinder girl, any tips?

[Sal123]

in 1 hour I will meet a girl known Tinder for the first time in my life: she is a German tourist...
Any tips or advice?
I will wear boots with 3 sections shoe lifts and blue contacts

loss what ethnicity r u, if u ever wear contacts i suggest solotica they look VERY realistic especially the blue.

 

[EthnicelAscension]

My guess is he got ghosted or cancelled on last minute.

 

[born2shitforced2wipe]

wear a gopro

 

[Hades]

It was probably a serial killer

 

[Vitruvian]

RIP

 

[Depressed Twink]

wear a gopro

Idk why I find this comment so funny ngl jfl

 

[eduardkoopman]

RIP

 

[Deleted member 685]

Don't act retarded

 

[Bluepill]

Learn how to get what you want out of life. Lifestyle, success, power, confidence, and money.

 

[Time Travel]

I met up with a girl via tinder in Japan. One of the cringest experiences in my life. Generic trash like us isn't supposed to talk to women. Only chad is allowed to look at women.

 

[RAITEIII]

Update lol

 

[Deleted member 3902]

Over for him
@Lorsss

 

[Deleted member 685]

Update lol

He never went and jerked off to tentacle porn home instead

 

[medialcanthuscel]

I met up with a girl via tinder in Japan. One of the cringest experiences in my life. Generic trash like us isn't supposed to talk to women. Only chad is allowed to look at women.

Can you recount the date? And yes, if you have a long midface it's over even in Japan

 

[Lorsss]

Can you recount the date? And yes, if you have a long midface it's over even in Japan

what surgeries will you do in future?

 

[Barbarossa_]

what surgeries will you do in future?

Over for modcels! Lol
What happened bro?

 

[Time Travel]

Can you recount the date? And yes, if you have a long midface it's over even in Japan

Basically I met up with her, we went to see a temple.
Then we went to a restaurant and later to tokyo sky tree where we had a tee and talked.
Also the girl was 29 and I was 20 at the time.
She wasn't attractive but also not ugly.
I just noticed how I am not able to properly talk to women due to autism and high inhibition.

 

[medialcanthuscel]

what surgeries will you do in future?

Te l'ho già detto, sottorbitali rino brownridge
[QUOTE="Time Travel, post: 1319758, m
I just noticed how I am not able to properly talk to women due to autism and high inhibition.
[/QUOTE]
Oh, another cope with muh personality

 

[eduardkoopman]

I just noticed how I am not able to properly talk to women due to autism and high inhibition.

Why you so focused on looks. When with autism, you should enroll as much time as possible into social-learning-practise-classes. Training soical skills, alot, over and over again.

Social Skills Interventions: Getting to The Core of Autism

Social skills training is aimed at addressing the challenges that result, and often plays a central role in treatment plans. But what does "social skills training" mean? What is it intended to achieve? And what research has been done so far to demonstrate whether it works?

iancommunity.org

 

[Time Travel]

Why you so focused on looks. When with autism, you should enroll as much time as possible into social-learning-practise-classes. Training soical skills, alot, over and over again.

Social Skills Interventions: Getting to The Core of Autism

Social skills training is aimed at addressing the challenges that result, and often plays a central role in treatment plans. But what does "social skills training" mean? What is it intended to achieve? And what research has been done so far to demonstrate whether it works?

iancommunity.org

the better you look, the more you can get away with being autistic

 

[eduardkoopman]

the better you look, the more you can get away with being autistic

Yes. That's true. And I get that.
At the same time; training to up the social skills is also a very good time investment

 

[Time Travel]

Yes. That's true. And I get that.
At the same time; training to up the social skills is also a very good time investment

Yes. That's true. And I get that.
At the same time; training to up the social skills is also a very good time investment

I've tried, they can't be changed

 

[eduardkoopman]

I've tried, they can't be changed

In what way have you tried training social skills, if I may ask?? What is under guidance of a professional, or you just tried to practise soical skills on your own?
(asking because I know a guy that I think and he also thinks himself is in the autist-spectrum; maybe I thought he could train himself to become better at it

 

[Time Travel]

In what way have you tried training social skills, if I may ask?? What is under guidance of a professional, or you just tried to practise soical skills on your own?
(asking because I know a guy that I think and he also thinks himself is in the autist-spectrum; maybe I thought he could train himself to become better at it

I thought I could try to be more low inhib but it doesn't work and seems fake when i do it.

 

[Deleted member 616]

Gl. But be careful about her only using you for free dinner and validation

 

[eduardkoopman]

I thought I could try to be more low inhib but it doesn't work and seems fake when i do it.

Imo. I read promissing things on autistic people (even adults); gett great benifit from practising social skills with prfoessional people. Acting out scenario's and stuff.
fully offered guided soical trainings. Stuff like this: https://www.autismspeaks.org/news/social-skills-classes-produce-lasting-benefits-adults-autism
That way some could improve0social skills lastingly. At least study says.

 

[Time Travel]

Imo. I read promissing things on autistic people (even adults); gett great benifit from practising social skills with prfoessional people. Acting out scenario's and stuff.
fully offered guided soical trainings. Stuff like this: https://www.autismspeaks.org/news/social-skills-classes-produce-lasting-benefits-adults-autism
That way some could improve0social skills lastingly. At least study says.

I know how I have to act in public, it's just that I can't do it.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I know how I have to act in public, it's just that I can't do it.

Do you think with porfessionals help (like that training course in the study I linked, with acting and stuff), you could make the transition from "knowing how but can't do" into "knowing and can act out/do/fake"?

 

[Time Travel]

Do you think with porfessionals help (like that training course in the study I linked, with acting and stuff), you could make the transition from "knowing how but can't do" into "knowing and can act out/do/fake"?

no. Role play will always be different.

 

[justanothergymcell]

How embarrassing that he is responding actively in this thread but still dodges everyone's pressing question about what went down. I guarantee my prediction was spot on, but who knows if OP will never update us.

 

[Bluepill]

How embarrassing that he is responding actively in this thread but still dodges everyone's pressing question about what went down. I guarantee my prediction was spot on, but who knows if OP will never update us.

50-50. I feel like he doesn't want to brag or is unsure of how the date went

 

[BigChinHispanic]

So you're gonna tell us how did it go or not bitch

 

[prgfromnl]

@Lorsss update us boyo

 

[Deleted member 3583]

So you're gonna tell us how did it go or not bitch

She asked him if she could peg him and he couldn't say no apparently. Confirm this pls @Lorsss

 

[cardiologist]

Try to find something u have in common, shell open up a lot more and be more engaged

Most non-autistic answer I've seen on this forum in a while ngl