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CupOfCoffee
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I know I've had a pretty shitty childhood, adolescence and young adulthood, and it's mostly my parents' fault for being over-the-top overprotective and worried about everything (and raising me on soft foods, letting me mouth breathe etc). Looking back though, the few times in my life that I slightly got out of the misery was when I let go of the bitterness and rumination, when I just lived in the present, worked hard, focused on my goals, and tried to connect with others without being defensive and anxious. All I have now is the present and the potential to have a better future, the only efficient mode of being is to just fucking live and try things. I'm going to take over my Dad's business in 5-8 years, expand it, and live a decent life with a family of my own. Listen to me boyos, do what you gotta do, you're wasting your life by just repeating "It's over" all day. If there's no hope then just LDAR in peace, it is what it is, roll a joint and lay back.