I’m Done With Dating, It’s Over for Me

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I’m done trying to date women. This shit is not for people like me. I’m not good looking enough to carry my fucked up personality. I’m not charming. I’m not loud. I’m not funny. I’m not one of those extroverted dopamine-filled normies who can carry a convo effortlessly and make girls giggle by existing.

I’m non-NT as fuck. I have nothing going for me socially. No social instincts, no smoothness, no charisma. And I’m not attractive enough to compensate. So what the fuck am I even doing trying to date? The whole thing is rigged. You either have looks or personality. I’ve got neither.

I went on a date yesterday with a girl I met on Instagram. Thought maybe this time would be different. Over text I seem interesting, calm, cool. In person I’m a nervous wreck. She saw right through it. I wasn’t some confident, mysterious guy. I was just an awkward, quiet dude trying to act normal. And she checked out. Probably already texting someone else before the date even ended.

I’m too boring. I’m too insecure. I’m too fucking weird. Girls want fun, excitement, stimulation. I can barely make eye contact without overthinking everything. I can’t entertain, I can’t seduce, I can’t even exist properly in social situations.

Fuck this. I’m done chasing something that doesn’t exist for people like me. From now on I’m focusing on studying, getting a good job in finance, and maybe one day I’ll be some chick’s personal ATM. That’s all I’ll ever be. Never loved. Just used.

I will never experience real intimacy or love. That shit is for the genetically gifted and the neurologically normal. Not broken freaks like me.
 
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over for u buddy
 
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Still ahead of most people here for going on dates tbh
 
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What do u have to lose, just hop on MAOIs, try shrooms...
 
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Not over
Just beginning
 
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Then accept your role. Moneymaxx and fuck hoes that are after your bread

90% of guys are in the same position as you. Even those in relationships hardly have it any better. Every women I know cheats, wether emotionally or physically. Even the quiet nerdy stem majors that wear turtlenecks are promiscuous
 
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so it just never gets better huh
 
I'm gonna be honest what you said in the first paragraph perfectly describes me I just don't care enough to tryhard and betabuxx these whores and I don't have the redeeming personality or looks to compensate the fact my personality is fucked up
 
From now on I’m focusing on studying, getting a good job in finance, and maybe one day I’ll be some chick’s personal ATM. That’s all I’ll ever be. Never loved. Just used.
I felt this on a spiritual level.
 
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My brain chemistry is fucked.
 
mogs me that you went on a date
 
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I’m done trying to date women. This shit is not for people like me. I’m not good looking enough to carry my fucked up personality. I’m not charming. I’m not loud. I’m not funny. I’m not one of those extroverted dopamine-filled normies who can carry a convo effortlessly and make girls giggle by existing.

I’m non-NT as fuck. I have nothing going for me socially. No social instincts, no smoothness, no charisma. And I’m not attractive enough to compensate. So what the fuck am I even doing trying to date? The whole thing is rigged. You either have looks or personality. I’ve got neither.

I went on a date yesterday with a girl I met on Instagram. Thought maybe this time would be different. Over text I seem interesting, calm, cool. In person I’m a nervous wreck. She saw right through it. I wasn’t some confident, mysterious guy. I was just an awkward, quiet dude trying to act normal. And she checked out. Probably already texting someone else before the date even ended.

I’m too boring. I’m too insecure. I’m too fucking weird. Girls want fun, excitement, stimulation. I can barely make eye contact without overthinking everything. I can’t entertain, I can’t seduce, I can’t even exist properly in social situations.

Fuck this. I’m done chasing something that doesn’t exist for people like me. From now on I’m focusing on studying, getting a good job in finance, and maybe one day I’ll be some chick’s personal ATM. That’s all I’ll ever be. Never loved. Just used.

I will never experience real intimacy or love. That shit is for the genetically gifted and the neurologically normal. Not broken freaks like me.
Happens to me bud
 

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