I'm gonna be honest .. I've never attempted a single cold approach in my life

[swaggyp1]

as in jogging up to women off the side of the street or in the mall, and trying to pick them up?

I haven't ever done it

 

[Looshmaxxed]

I only did it drunk

 

[ClayBeingGray]

i dont even try to get near them

 

[True Spaniard]

as in jogging up to women off the side of the street or in the mall, and trying to pick them up?

I haven't ever done it

Is this something we should be surprised about? Reality of 50%+ of the userbase probably

 

[swaggyp1]

every date that I've ever been on has come through dating apps, social media, or family introduction

 

[swaggyp1]

Is this something we should be surprised about? Reality of 50%+ of the userbase probably

honestly, it always felt risky

like it felt like harassment, and I'd get the campus police called on me if I ever tried that on a university campus

 

[n1ks09]

as in jogging up to women off the side of the street or in the mall, and trying to pick them up?
I haven't ever done it

same
I somehow got cold approached by women once or twice but they were mid

 

[swaggyp1]

same
I somehow got cold approached by women once or twice but they were mid

I’ve gotten cold approached actually that same number of times

 

[Peubert]

cold approaching is a humiliation ritual

just date within ur social circles brah

 

[etulceil]

Aren't you the guy that said you work out cuz you're scared you might get raped?

 

[swaggyp1]

Aren't you the guy that said you work out cuz you're scared you might get raped?

Yup

And I also started BJJ too

 

[etulceil]

as in jogging up to women off the side of the street or in the mall, and trying to pick them up?

I haven't ever done it

I wanna cold approach one girl so baddd she lives nearby and I would see her on the bus sometimes when I was still in school she's so pretty with or without makeup literally makes my day better
Now the only time I see her is at the grocery shop sometimes.
But I'm scared what if she rejects me

Yup

And I also started BJJ too

What's BJJ? If you don't mind me asking

 

[swaggyp1]

I wanna cold approach one girl so baddd she lives nearby and I would see her on the bus sometimes when I was still in school she's so pretty with or without makeup literally makes my day better
Now the only time I see her is at the grocery shop sometimes.
But I'm scared what if she rejects me

What's BJJ? If you don't mind me asking

You ever watched UFC?

It’s the part where they’re on the ground hugging

 

[etulceil]

You ever watched UFC?

It’s the part where they’re on the ground hugging

Wrestling?
Bruh looked it up
You meant Jujitsu

 

[swaggyp1]

I wanna cold approach one girl so baddd she lives nearby and I would see her on the bus sometimes when I was still in school she's so pretty with or without makeup literally makes my day better
Now the only time I see her is at the grocery shop sometimes.
But I'm scared what if she rejects me

What's BJJ? If you don't mind me asking

Honestly just go for it, but do it in a way where you couldn’t ever be interpreted as a harasser

And that person isn’t that special

There’s many just like her

 

[swaggyp1]

Wrestling?
Bruh looked it up
You meant Jujitsu

Yeah

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

 

[etulceil]

Honestly just go for it, but do it in a way where you couldn’t ever be interpreted as a harasser

And that person isn’t that special

There’s many just like her

Idk it's rare that I like someone
I've known many beautiful girls but I've never had a crush on them
I feel drawn to her.
Yk what why bother I'll just get rejected anyways or ruin it with my NDness

 

[swaggyp1]

Idk it's rare that I like someone
I've known many beautiful girls but I've never had a crush on them
I feel drawn to her.
Yk what why bother I'll just get rejected anyways or ruin it with my NDness

You’ll probably get rejected but it’s worth it to just go for it, so you don’t live a life of regret

The real way to get a girlfriend is to looksmax to a high level, cast a wide net via apps and social media, and choose the women who choose you

We raised a whole generation to think that you get women by talking to them and asking them out once you’ve built rapport

 

[etulceil]

You’ll probably get rejected but it’s worth it to just go for it, so you don’t live a life of regret

The real way to get a girlfriend is to looksmax to a high level, cast a wide net via apps and social media, and choose the women who choose you

We raised a whole generation to think that you get women by talking to them and asking them out once you’ve built rapport

I'll just live my celibate life