I’m gonna cold approach a woman today

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I’ve already left the house. I’m gonna start off slow and say 1 word to a foid I don’t know.
 
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Hope you are above 5 psl bhai i don't want you to have a rape charge court case .
 
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Hope you are above 5 psl bhai i don't want you to have a rape charge court case .
I’m not even 5 psl in my wildest dreams but I’ll see how it goes
 
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Got some iois but only from roasties and underage girls. Still too scared to approach
 
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I approached a cute goth and she rejected me but what a rush, holy shit. I love this
 
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Boom, racked up 2 rejections. They were very nice to the subhuman approaching them tho
 
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Okay so tally count for today is 2 rejections. But also I did get some validation from foids, lifefuel. A couple of roasties eyefucked me and a cute asian also kept staring at me and fixing her hair while holding hands with her cuck boyfriend.

I’m proud of taking action and I’ll do it again when I have a day off.
 
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Got a 3rd rejection while waiting for my train home. This is just sad now.

Mirin low inhib. I’m gonna get it as low as it can possibly go so that when I see a foid giving me IOIs, I won’t be scared to approach.

The third one said no and laughed at me but she also kept smiling and asking me questions about myself.
 
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I don’t do that, I’m sigma I need others to speak to me and beg me for attention
 
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@SecularIslamist I told you I would nigga. Come with me next time
 
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This is now my cold approach diary.

Today, on the way to work, a cute blonde gave me IOI (stared at me a couple of times and fixed her hair, stood near me, held eye contact then looked down).

Like a coward cuck, I did not approach. My inhib still needs to go lower, which is weird, cause yesterday I was feeling 0 anxiety after my 3rd rejection.
 
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How do you approach them?
 
How do you approach them?
I smile, walk up to them slowly without sudden movements, and just try to talk about whatever is around us. If they talk to me for a bit (usually service personnel in shops) about non-customer stuff, I ask them out. All of them have said no so far JFL
 
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Updates ??
 
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Updates ??
3 rejections from yesterday. Then got an IOI today on the way to work but pussied out.

But all the foids that rejected me did it while smiling and didn’t seem creeped out, idk. I’m gonna make this a regular thing and post updates here.
 
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You getting 'iois' and then rejected when approaching. You know those 'iois' are in your head, right?
 
You getting 'iois' and then rejected when approaching. You know those 'iois' are in your head, right?
Read again schizo. The iois were from girls i didn’t approach
 
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love this. tag me when you do it again
 
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Wish I was low inhib enough to cold approach. What specifically do you talk about when you approach them? I get hung up on sustaining a convo to the point I can ask them out. Also do you live in EU?
 
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Wish I was low inhib enough to cold approach. What specifically do you talk about when you approach them? I get hung up on sustaining a convo to the point I can ask them out. Also do you live in EU?
This was my first time and I talked to cute sales staff at empty stores cause they looked bored (sounds retarded but I’ve pulled girls when I worked as sales staff) JFL. I’d talk about the band on their shirt, where they’re from, what they think about the area JFL. And at the end I’d always ask them out no matter what to desensitise myself to the fear. By the time I did the third one I didn’t care.

Next time I go out I’ll talk to a tourist or something, not staff, especially if they hold eye contact. I try to use the rejections as an inhib lowering experience. It actually was quite fun by the end.

And I’m in the dreaded UK.
 
Got some iois but only from roasties and underage girls. Still too scared to approach
Yeah I also only approach girls who game me IOIs

I'm still here
 
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Yeah I also only approach girls who game me IOIs

I'm still here
Yeah ioi approaches are the optimal way of course but I want to be able to cold approach foids that haven’t given me anything too.
 
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approaching as a sub-5 will be rough, but it's all you can do. Better than what the average poster is doing.
 
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approaching as a sub-5 will be rough, but it's all you can do. Better than what the average poster is doing.
Who told you I’m sub 5? I’m a 6ft+ mtn
 
Yeah ioi approaches are the optimal way of course but I want to be able to cold approach foids that haven’t given me anything too.
I meant IOIs don't mean much

I get rejected despite getting them
 
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Ohh sub 5 psl. Yes such is the way of things
@New Poster
 
U deserve respect for being brave and not larping. Kudos to u
 
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How do you approach them?
Ironically the times it has worked out I would usually kind of stare/smile first and say something cringe like how are you, and they’d slip me the number. This was when I worked as a waiter when I was younger and that’s why I think I’m gl enough to cold approach. I’m very autistic tho so I’m working on me leading the approach and convo more.
 
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Ironically the times it has worked out I would usually kind of stare/smile first and say something cringe like how are you, and they’d slip me the number. This was when I worked as a waiter when I was younger and that’s why I think I’m gl enough to cold approach. I’m very autistic tho so I’m working on me leading the approach and convo more.
Yeah you're definitely gl if that worked

When I approach, I'm confident, make the first move, some small talk and a joke and still get rejected
 
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Yeah you're definitely gl if that worked

When I approach, I'm confident, make the first move, some small talk and a joke and still get rejected
I’m not even gl, my most common rating here was mtn, usually ltn-htn range. Unironically just be her type theory.
 
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I’m not even gl, my most common rating here was mtn, usually ltn-htn range. Unironically just be her type theory.
Fuck, then I don't know what's wrong with me

Maybe it will be better after surgeries
 
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