I’m having better connections with women by disconnecting with them, lemme explain

Dr. Mog

Dr. Mog

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I used be the available “nice guy” to women, not all of them, just the very few 2-3 ones who admire me and I’m literally their first guy they’d contact if they had something going on.
Call me for nightout parties at 8:30 and I’m over there at 8:29 below their apartment ready to pick and drive them in my car.

A saw a slight decline in respect recently. One of them even danced in the club with more chemistry lip syncing songs with a dude that is not me. This fuelled the Blackpill within me as I always prioritised her over other women and I considered that eye contacting chemistry dance with that stupid manlet HTN to be foooking brootal. Cause when I tried to do the same, it just didn’t hit. She just danced for the sake of it. This repelled me.

Because all of a sudden I realised I was too sweet for them, this makes you “boring”, this makes you look like free WiFi - something that is always available. I said a weak goodbye and took my car home in speeds my car’s speedometer needle hasn’t been before, angry and blackpilled driving to my home.

Betties are smart, they suspect you easily. Next week I receive an invite from her bestfriend (planted by her ofc) to a club knowing damn well she’s gonna be there too. “I’ll let you know soon” was my response rather than the usual “yeah sure! When are going to meet?”. Declined the invite later politely.

Went home on the weekend instead and spent time with my family. Yk why? Fuck you. It was good while you were there but I don’t “need you” to hang around with me.

No more calling her for lunch, going out of my way to greet her, patting her head or playing with her hair.

This mentality of mine transitioned in such a way that she now realises “I don’t have @Dr. Mog ready for me anymore”. I have seen the look in her eyes realising this. Look of “damn, I missed it”. And yk how it is, once I leave, I leave. She sees me hanging around with her bestfriend, laughing, sharing food and stuff but not her anymore. Emotional attachment means a big deal for women (as bluepill as this sounds). She now seeing that I’m more attached to someone else is brutal for her and I can see it clearly.
She’ll move on too, maybe some time later.

These women aren’t some random fish in the sea. These are an easy HTB + HQNP ones that I’m talking about, I wouldn’t be retarded enough to make this venting of a thread otherwise.

Fellas, be there for the ones that only have eyes on you. Be there for the ones that need only you. For the ones who take you for granted or consider you an option, repeat the same on them and de-attach slowly; all for your own better good.
 
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How you look bro need more context
 
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Also being a emotional sponge for them is absolutely your fault, i never legit was in friendzone in my life. Idk just talk with random girl irl for 5-10 minutes easiest shit then if you see a bit IOI-s then you just take contacts and ask for a date you shouldn't fucking talk with them. Same with tinder or other shit you not talk you just act, "Hello, i would glad to invite you on a date to PLACENAME at 19:00 TOMMOROW."
 
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I used be the available “nice guy” to women, not all of them, just the very few 2-3 ones who admire me and I’m literally their first guy they’d contact if they had something going on.
Call me for nightout parties at 8:30 and I’m over there at 8:29 below their apartment ready to pick and drive them in my car.

A saw a slight decline in respect recently. One of them even danced in the club with more chemistry lip syncing songs with a dude that is not me. This fuelled the Blackpill within me as I always prioritised her over other women and I considered that eye contacting chemistry dance with that stupid manlet HTN to be foooking brootal. Cause when I tried to do the same, it just didn’t hit. She just danced for the sake of it. This repelled me.

Because all of a sudden I realised I was too sweet for them, this makes you “boring”, this makes you look like free WiFi - something that is always available. I said a weak goodbye and took my car home in speeds my car’s speedometer needle hasn’t been before, angry and blackpilled driving to my home.

Betties are smart, they suspect you easily. Next week I receive an invite from her bestfriend (planted by her ofc) to a club knowing damn well she’s gonna be there too. “I’ll let you know soon” was my response rather than the usual “yeah sure! When are going to meet?”. Declined the invite later politely.

Went home on the weekend instead and spent time with my family. Yk why? Fuck you. It was good while you were there but I don’t “need you” to hang around with me.

No more calling her for lunch, going out of my way to greet her, patting her head or playing with her hair.

This mentality of mine transitioned in such a way that she now realises “I don’t have @Dr. Mog ready for me anymore”. I have seen the look in her eyes realising this. Look of “damn, I missed it”. And yk how it is, once I leave, I leave. She sees me hanging around with her bestfriend, laughing, sharing food and stuff but not her anymore. Emotional attachment means a big deal for women (as bluepill as this sounds). She now seeing that I’m more attached to someone else is brutal for her and I can see it clearly.
She’ll move on too, maybe some time later.

These women aren’t some random fish in the sea. These are an easy HTB + HQNP ones that I’m talking about, I wouldn’t be retarded enough to make this venting of a thread otherwise.

Fellas, be there for the ones that only have eyes on you. Be there for the ones that need only you. For the ones who take you for granted or consider you an option, repeat the same on them and de-attach slowly; all for your own better good.
faboulous, i saved this thread, im gonna need it when times are gonna be rough
 
Also being a emotional sponge for them is absolutely your fault, i never legit was in friendzone in my life. Idk just talk with random girl irl for 5-10 minutes easiest shit then if you see a bit IOI-s then you just take contacts and ask for a date you shouldn't fucking talk with them. Same with tinder or other shit you not talk you just act, "Hello, i would glad to invite you on a date to PLACENAME at 19:00 TOMMOROW."
yueah bro but sometimes you just want some sort of soul mate, we dont need only sex
 
Dind't read but that's common sense. If girl wants your dick, distancing yourself is better option than messaging her 20 times a day, even if you are only replying if you are not escalating,
 
How you look bro need more context
I have a strict policy against revealing pictures.

But I’m humble enough to tell you I do get a bit more female validation for my looksmatch. Honestly I’m a mid to high tier MTN depending on the location.

Might reach HTN status (hopefully) within the end of the year where I cut down 10kgs/22lbs of weight and 4-5 inches off my waist. My dental alignment and whitening procedures would end by that time too.
 
keep it up
 

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