Im in the second sem of uni

[filthycurrycel]

How do i make friends? I don't wanna go through the entirety of uni with no friends.
Fuuck, i need help
It's halfway through the second semester and no friends again.
I think it's cause i didn't go to any labs classes or tuts
Can i make friends in the third sem or no? i did fuck up with my class selection but thats whatever, to be stressed about another time

 

[BeanCelll]

How do i make friends? I don't wanna go through the entirety of uni with no friends.
Fuuck, i need help
It's halfway through the second semester and no friends again.
I think it's cause i didn't go to any labs classes or tuts
Can i make friends in the third sem or no? i did fuck up with my class selection but thats whatever, to be stressed about another time

They come to you or you go to them — in this case the latter is probably your only hope.

If you commute I wouldn't even really bother though.

 

[JewishNationalist]

unless you are autistic, finding friends should not be an issue

 

[LA_vxmpk1NG]

I'm gooning to the anime foids in ur pfp

 

[filthycurrycel]

They come to you or you go to them — in this case the latter is probably your only hope.

If you commute I wouldn't even really bother though.

I'm a commuter
What do i do then though? I've already joined like a club and gone to two events but zilch, did have fun there.
Thinking of taking a more active approach next sem, and going to everything.
Worst case scenario what do i do?

 

[filthycurrycel]

unless you are autistic, finding friends should not be an issue

I think i am? I don't know, i've never had friends

 

[BeanCelll]

I've already joined like a club and gone to two events but zilch, did have fun there

as in like literally fucking nothing?

Noone even asked for a name or anything?

Thinking of taking a more active approach next sem, and going to everything.
Worst case scenario what do i do?

You're gonna have to do just that and take a lot more initiative,especially crucial you learn how to hold a conversation.

 

[filthycurrycel]

as in like literally fucking nothing?

Noone even asked for a name or anything?


You're gonna have to do just that and take a lot more initiative,especially crucial you learn how to hold a conversation.

No they did ask for names and stuff, talked to them and got their instagrams. It was fun but i got nothing after that.

You're gonna have to do just that and take a lot more initiative,especially crucial you learn how to hold a conversation.

Yeah i will, what else should i do? i'm scared. I'm hoping next sem goes way better. I'm gonna attend literally everything, including the lectures open week whatever
I hope it isn't like this again. For now i think i'll just try getting better grades this sem and talking to a few people

 

[BeanCelll]

No they did ask for names and stuff, talked to them and got their instagrams. It was fun but i got nothing after that.

That's a good enough sign that you're not untolerable, not enough for them to pursue you on their own though.

what else should i do?

Listen intently before you blurt something out no matter how much you wanna speak, tbh even if you just joined a study club I think the problem would begin to fix itself.

 

[filthycurrycel]

That's a good enough sign that you're not untolerable, not enough for them to pursue you on their own though.


Listen intently before you blurt something out no matter how much you wanna speak, tbh even if you just joined a study club I think the problem would begin to fix itself.

Yeah, going to try this tbh.
Hope i do make friends

 

[shedontluv-U]

I wanted to go to university so fucking bad ,but but I realized how boring and shitty the subject and path I had chosen was.

holy fucking boring even ppl here agree

"most ez program"

and most boring too Just Fucking Lol

 

[filthycurrycel]

I wanted to go to university so fucking bad ,but but I realized how boring and shitty the subject and path I had chosen was.

holy fucking boring even ppl here agree

"most ez program"

and most boring too Just Fucking Lol

Yeah but you should've gone, still can.

 

[thickbitch]

And you're still a permavirgin loser your life is basically over atp lmao

 

[filthycurrycel]

And you're still a permavirgin loser your life is basically over atp lmao

im just 18!!!
i really wanna change brah what do i do