I’m not afraid of rejection I’m afraid of other people knowing I got rejected

[jc0]

I’m not afraid of rejection itself. A girl can say no and I won’t care if I know that she won’t tell anyone else. I’m afraid of people we both know or mutuals knowing I liked her and i got rejected. Or just knowing I liked her because it makes me feel too vulnerable.

 

[Vllyxo]

just ask girls outside ur city or school

 

[jc0]

just ask girls outside ur city or school

I don’t really give a shit about them I’m just entertaining a convo with no real feeling or connection. I also have faceless ig so they won’t add me.

There’s a girl who use to live in my city in hs but we both moved away for college I want to talk to but we have too many mutuals from hs and she seems to have a nice personality which matches mine but I’m afraid of what my public opinion will be so I don’t initiate.

 

[ProBono]

you should be, most of your life quality is determined by the perception of a very small circle of people until you become a functioning adult, at which point that circle closes in further or you take the stone cold mgtow path and ghost everyone

 

[sørenyuko]

that's just an inevitable part of it, sorry