Im not autistic. I just have less practice and many different kinds of friend groups. Being social is also practice.

[one job away]

It occurred to me. I’m not bad at social situations by nature. I just don’t have the practice. I know how to deal with certain situations perfectly fine. The ones I encounter often.

I always thought about why can people answer questions so fast without evaluating it’s content? Communication with me was Never That smooth as i had to think about my answer first.

I think I figured it out. Just like everything, being social is practice. And each social circle has it’s different patterns. Friends for long time know their patterns and have a much more normal flow.

Some people have a lot of practice with X situation. People who traveled the world are probably better in speaking to strangers and so on.

 

[RAITEIII]

Sometimes I also feel the same. I can be so charismatic at times.

 

[Eren]

It occurred to me. I’m not bad at social situations by nature. I just don’t have the practice. I know how to deal with certain situations perfectly fine. The ones I encounter often.

I always thought about why can people answer questions so fast without evaluating it’s content? Communication with me was Never That smooth as i had to think about my answer first.

I think I figured it out. Just like everything, being social is practice. And each social circle has it’s different patterns. Friends for long time know their patterns and have a much more normal flow.

Some people have a lot of practice with X situation. People who traveled the world are probably better in speaking to strangers and so on.

exaclty. Figured this ages ago. Just find benevolent people whom you can learn and make up for the time lost. I had the chance to find these kind of people at 20. Went to my first bar, my first club etc. Now it's way easier to go out with other people and have fun at night. Don't be mad if you can't slay in this configuration, you are here to learn, don't worry too much about what you have to say and not to sayn you will instantly know when you will fuck up in front of everyone.
And don't forget to continue looksmaxxing, it will boost your social skills sooner or later as you will gather confidence

 

[Pakicel]

It occurred to me. I’m not bad at social situations by nature. I just don’t have the practice. I know how to deal with certain situations perfectly fine. The ones I encounter often.

I always thought about why can people answer questions so fast without evaluating it’s content? Communication with me was Never That smooth as i had to think about my answer first.

I think I figured it out. Just like everything, being social is practice. And each social circle has it’s different patterns. Friends for long time know their patterns and have a much more normal flow.

Some people have a lot of practice with X situation. People who traveled the world are probably better in speaking to strangers and so on.

Stop gaslighting sub 5's.