Im realizing im at a stage in life where i actually need to take my future serious

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Any tips to become a more locked in person:feelsbadman:
 
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dopamine detox and self hate gets me to do anything i'm giga competitive so when I remove distractions I mog
 
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Take as much time off the internet as possible. Find hobbies IRL instead.

Internet is effortless which means you can spend hours on it without being tired, IRL hobbies are the exact opposite.
 
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I think tapping more into trying to visualise things. Visualise what you want rn or the direction u want to follow and visualise how your gonna get there

From there u take 1 small step at a time and eventually your at the top of the stair case
 
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It was pretty much good advice
isolated example with no proof behind it dopamine detox can get u depressed which in most cases will make u ldar instead of motivating u like he said
 
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Take as much time off the internet as possible. Find hobbies IRL instead.

Internet is effortless which means you can spend hours on it without being tired, IRL hobbies are the exact opposite.
what do you mean my dick and wrists are aching:feelskek: my back aswell
 
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Take as much time off the internet as possible. Find hobbies IRL instead.

Internet is effortless which means you can spend hours on it without being tired, IRL hobbies are the exact opposite.
hobbies are actually goated i just need to find some:Comfy:
 
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I think tapping more into trying to visualise things. Visualise what you want rn or the direction u want to follow and visualise how your gonna get there

From there u take 1 small step at a time and eventually your at the top of the stair case
thanks a lot this actually helped me
 
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hobbies are actually goated i just need to find some:Comfy:
hobbies and passions are usally boring at the start, find something where you have a faint intest in and when you make progress you get dopamine,

cure your anhedonia
 
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hobbies and passions are usally boring at the start, find something where you have a faint intest in and when you make progress you get dopamine,

cure your anhedonia
Ill try:feelsokman:
thanks
 
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hobbies are actually goated i just need to find some:Comfy:
I do drumming and play guitar.. but they're expensive hobbies.. Something easy and affordable would be skateboarding or gym.
 
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hobbies are actually goated i just need to find some:Comfy:
Hobbies arent goated for me i hate them
I only do competitive hobbies but even in that you cant escape your genetics
Talentpill is the worst
 
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Hobbies arent goated for me i hate them
I only do competitive hobbies but even in that you cant escape your genetics
Talentpill is the worst
i suck at everything i stg but talentpill isnt one of the worst. Still bad tho
 
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Any tips to become a more locked in person:feelsbadman:
nothing is gonna change until you actually start getting shit done. dont think about it just do it, no one is gonna do it for you. cliche but life really does change when you get up off your ass and start doing instead of thinking what to do
 
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nothing is gonna change until you actually start getting shit done. dont think about it just do it, no one is gonna do it for you. cliche but life really does change when you get up off your ass and start doing instead of thinking what to do
i spend months thinking about things i want to do and end up never doing them jfl
i have to lock in mane
 
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Hobbies arent goated for me i hate them
I only do competitive hobbies but even in that you cant escape your genetics
Talentpill is the worst
i hate the feeling of not being perfect at something new. most of the time i let it go, sometimes i dont and actually invest my time into it until im perfect at it:bigbrain:
 
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i spend months thinking about things i want to do and end up never doing them jfl
i have to lock in mane
Don’t let me down man, I’m keeping my faith in you that 2026 will be a locked in year 😤 good luck
 
Don’t let me down man, I’m keeping my faith in you that 2026 will be a locked in year 😤 good luck
thanks a lot:feelsautistic:
btw check my newest thread if you want, could use some advice
 

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