im really scared to have a gf

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i just got one

shes really hot and 2 yr older than me

i am blonde hair blue eyes 6"2 but autism hate myself

lost my virginity to her

im really scared im going to get hurt as my relationship before i literally thought was my soulmate and we dated for nearly 2 yrs

im so tempted to just leave now because im scared its not going to last and idk why
 
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on 500mg of tren idk if thats relevant
 
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i just got one

shes really hot and 2 yr older than me

i am blonde hair blue eyes 6"2 but autism hate myself

lost my virginity to her

im really scared im going to get hurt as my relationship before i literally thought was my soulmate and we dated for nearly 2 yrs

im so tempted to just leave now because im scared its not going to last and idk why

Self-sabotage af, if you're going to get hurt then there is no way to avoid that, it is just a thing of life
Every slayer will eventually get their heartbroken unless they are socio-coded

If you leave now, your fears become real, if you don't then maybe they won't
Might as well potentially get hurt by taking the risk on life, rather than upsetting yourself now from NOT taking the risk

What do u have to lose
 
i just got one

shes really hot and 2 yr older than me

i am blonde hair blue eyes 6"2 but autism hate myself

lost my virginity to her

im really scared im going to get hurt as my relationship before i literally thought was my soulmate and we dated for nearly 2 yrs

im so tempted to just leave now because im scared its not going to last and idk why
It's okay man.

The point is if you sure that it will not last or not.
If you really sure , you might stay to approve if you were scared over nothing. Or you might have observed something that made you feel it won't last.

Considering that you are blue eyed , 6'2ft and blone is already better than 75% of population ( especially if you are htn+ )
So if she somehow left you , she is the one losing , not you.
I know how it feels to really love someone and that you are scared most of the times that she will leave you.
Shading light on that you already with her for over 2y and she didn't cheat or do something that make you worried enough or want to break up.

Stop worrying blud as long as there is no trust issues with her ( cheating or having guy bsf and sheit )
 
i just got one

shes really hot and 2 yr older than me

i am blonde hair blue eyes 6"2 but autism hate myself

lost my virginity to her

im really scared im going to get hurt as my relationship before i literally thought was my soulmate and we dated for nearly 2 yrs

im so tempted to just leave now because im scared its not going to last and idk why
Nigga your fine it’s going to be okay
Stop acting like a nd faggot
We are men not fucking females
 
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dont you fucking throw that opportunity away bro do you know how many of us even dream of women looking at us in a positive way
 
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It's okay man.

The point is if you sure that it will not last or not.
If you really sure , you might stay to approve if you were scared over nothing. Or you might have observed something that made you feel it won't last.

Considering that you are blue eyed , 6'2ft and blone is already better than 75% of population ( especially if you are htn+ )
So if she somehow left you , she is the one losing , not you.
I know how it feels to really love someone and that you are scared most of the times that she will leave you.
Shading light on that you already with her for over 2y and she didn't cheat or do something that make you worried enough or want to break up.

Stop worrying blud as long as there is no trust issues with her ( cheating or having guy bsf and sheit )
i think i will be htn+ when i lean out my dad was cl but i hate how i look.

i havent been dating this one for two years, that was my ex

we only met like 2 weeks ago irl

im just paranoid and scared
 
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Self-sabotage af, if you're going to get hurt then there is no way to avoid that, it is just a thing of life
Every slayer will eventually get their heartbroken unless they are socio-coded

If you leave now, your fears become real, if you don't then maybe they won't
Might as well potentially get hurt by taking the risk on life, rather than upsetting yourself now from NOT taking the risk

What do u have to lose
im scared to fall in love man because when i like someone i love them and i just cant bear the thought to be abandoned i have pretty bad parent issues

the tren also makes me rly paranoid

I just hate everything
 
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im really scared im going to get hurt as my relationship before i literally thought was my soulmate and we dated for nearly 2 yrs

im so tempted to just leave now because im scared its not going to last and idk why
Understand how u feel man, just give it your best try to love her as much as you can, and if she breaks you it's alright, you gave it your all. No girl will ever be perfect for you, she will betray you either way, it's just how they are, try and be happy for now at least
 
im scared to fall in love man because when i like someone i love them and i just cant bear the thought to be abandoned i have pretty bad parent issues

the tren also makes me rly paranoid

I just hate everything

Seek therapy g

Parent issues should be resolved through therapy, then you'll feel more healthy in ur relationships
 
Understand how u feel man, just give it your best try to love her as much as you can, and if she breaks you it's alright, you gave it your all. No girl will ever be perfect for you, she will betray you either way, it's just how they are, try and be happy for now at least
ill try my best dude

worst case i just permablast to death
 
i actually think i might dude

I used to self sabotage with all the baddies too bro

Hit that therapy, be honest in ur sessions and 6 months down the line you'll know a lot more about yourself and also hopefully won't feel as scared of abandonment
 
I used to self sabotage with all the baddies too bro

Hit that therapy, be honest in ur sessions and 6 months down the line you'll know a lot more about yourself and also hopefully won't feel as scared of abandonment
thank you bro ur a goat tbh
 
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