I just gave up in trying to socialize. I don't know how to have dopamine without falling in hedonism, something that I utterly despise.
nothing wrong with being a loner
Just read bro if that makes you feel better
Yeah, but isn't this escapism? I mean, I'm running away from socializing.
I don't want to be a loner.
Nice bro
Just run away for some time , read books and try to looksmax , go to gym and ascend, then go out again and try to see the difference In ur life before and after this period, trust me I am doing the same rn
Create an illusion in your own brain that you are social etc. Until you believe it yourself
No, it's not because of that. I been almost two years with the same people, and I can't make friends. I feel anxious when I'm around people, specially if I don't know them. I'm happier alone, now.
That in the past I tried to socialize because of the "you need to do that to b happy" mindset.
I've tried to do that; I'm autistic, I can't do that.
But the negative feedback will destroy your illusions
deal with it
Not if you are mentalcel
Well, part of my mental issues come from the negative feedback.
I'll try to have a change of scenery. I've already done this, and ended up alone. The problem is me, not my environment.
its over for you
And looksmaxxing won't change anything.
I talk to them, I'm nice. But they aren't interested, and my social skills are bad, so I can't make friends.
People (specially girls) have treated me badly because of my looks and autism. If they treat me well after looksmaxxing, I will just despise these people more.
