I’m starting to become more pessimistic and less interested in people as time goes on.

[mateus17]

My world view and perspective is going down a path that’s probably not good for me but it’s also the truth.
With friends when I’m out I say things and I can tell they feel like I’m sinking into a negative mindset.

The environment I grew up in and still currently live in has made it hard for me to connect with others especially women.

Poverty is a form of neglect and trauma combined and when you also add that the location I live in is full of people who are off a higher social class it makes things much harder.

I don’t use dating apps cause it’s useless as a low status male with average looks.
All I can do is cope.

 

[miserycel]

My world view and perspective is going down a path that’s probably not good for me but it’s also the truth.
With friends when I’m out I say things and I can tell they feel like I’m sinking into a negative mindset.

The environment I grew up in and still currently live in has made it hard for me to connect with others especially women.

Poverty is a form of neglect and trauma combined and when you also add that the location I live in is full of people who are off a higher social class it makes things much harder.

I don’t use dating apps cause it’s useless as a low status male with average looks.
All I can do is cope.

I relate

Even as I ascend I’m becoming more and more secluded, I don’t even want girls and friend groups as bad as I did before

I think if you spend too much time in this kind of environment it eventually becomes your baseline and other ‘ideal’ environments become tasteless

 

[mateus17]

I relate

Even as I ascend I’m becoming more and more secluded, I don’t even want girls and friend groups as bad as I did before

I think if you spend too much time in this kind of environment it eventually becomes your baseline and other ‘ideal’ environments become tasteless

I can cope with focusing on career and money but I’m in an environment where I can’t just have fun like everyone else cause I need to slave extra harder for things I want and need in the future.

I’m stuck between 2 worlds and don’t know what to do.
I’ve also lost the drive to want girls and more friends.

What’s the point if I can’t take the girl home back to my place because of my home situation.?
It’s all so pointless.

 

[miserycel]

I can cope with focusing on career and money but I’m in an environment where I can’t just have fun like everyone else cause I need to slave extra harder for things I want and need in the future.

I’m stuck between 2 worlds and don’t know what to do.
I’ve also lost the drive to want girls and more friends.

What’s the point if I can’t take the girl home back to my place because of my home situation.?
It’s all so pointless.

Being born working class in a family who lives paycheck to paycheck is the worst.

Especially because you’ll be moving out much later than all your friends in higher classes, and the money that you do make you need to help provide for your family instead of saving for your own future

I have a friend who’s in middle class, never had to work a day in his life, he has nepotism on his side because his dad owns a company and his parents would literally buy him a car or help him pay rent, we don’t get that kind of leisure.

Can’t get girls either, helping out your family, saving for your own future, AND blowing hundreds a month so a LTB doesn’t leave you? I’m good

 

[mateus17]

Being born working class in a family who lives paycheck to paycheck is the worst.

Especially because you’ll be moving out much later than all your friends in higher classes, and the money that you do make you need to help provide for your family instead of saving for your own future

I have a friend who’s in middle class, never had to work a day in his life, he has nepotism on his side because his dad owns a company and his parents would literally buy him a car or help him pay rent, we don’t get that kind of leisure.

Can’t get girls either, helping out your family, saving for your own future, AND blowing hundreds a month so a LTB doesn’t leave you? I’m good

Yeah man.
We are just MSTOW.
We got sent our own way in life.
I’d rather be lonely that tolerate a life where a foid settled for me.

In London you pay a stupid ammount to rent a 1 bed.
Throwing money down the drain just to have your own place.
I’m gonna be stuck living with my family for awhile.

Dystopian times are ahead for young men.

 

[miserycel]

Yeah man.
We are just MSTOW.
We got sent our own way in life.
I’d rather be lonely that tolerate a life where a foid settled for me.

In London you pay a stupid ammount to rent a 1 bed.
Throwing money down the drain just to have your own place.
I’m gonna be stuck living with my family for awhile.

Dystopian times are ahead for young men.

I’m in London too

I remember looking and you’d have to pay upwards of £1300 (on top of bills) for a shoebox studio

The only hope is to find a foid who’s sweet and empathetic and then after a few years you could move in with her and split rent 50/50 but at this point we all know unless you’re Chad you got to keep dreaming

 

[WhatCommunity]

My world view and perspective is going down a path that’s probably not good for me but it’s also the truth.
With friends when I’m out I say things and I can tell they feel like I’m sinking into a negative mindset.

The environment I grew up in and still currently live in has made it hard for me to connect with others especially women.

Poverty is a form of neglect and trauma combined and when you also add that the location I live in is full of people who are off a higher social class it makes things much harder.

I don’t use dating apps cause it’s useless as a low status male with average looks.
All I can do is cope.

Looksmax, moneymaxx, habitmaxx.

Try to find more legit good friends and as time goes on your good friendships, saved money and good habits combined will result in something decent in life.

 

[mateus17]

I’m in London too

I remember looking and you’d have to pay upwards of £1300 (on top of bills) for a shoebox studio

The only hope is to find a foid who’s sweet and empathetic and then after a few years you could move in with her and split rent 50/50 but at this point we all know unless you’re Chad you got to keep dreaming

Yeah it’s over if daddy and mommy can’t fund your rent.
Also there is no hope with finding a foid who’s gonna do 50/50 you need to be a PSL god lookswise to have them agree with it.

I go on ig and see landwhales demanding chads.
giga-over.

 

[mateus17]

Looksmax, moneymaxx, habitmaxx.

Try to find more legit good friends and as time goes on your good friendships, saved money and good habits combined will result in something decent in life.

I mean I have good friends I’ve known them since I was a kid.
It’s more about meeting new people like I have no motivation for it.

Social class is my biggest falio tbh.
Looksmaxxing is cope for me till I get a genio and some other stuff done. I’ve maxxed out on soft looksmaxxing for the most part.