Im still attached to my ex, we broke up a month ago.

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I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
 
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its normal to still be attached to a person whom you spent much time with, it will fade
 
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its normal to still be attached to a person whom you spent much time with, it will fade
thank you, but I've never been one to look for girls like her, I'm really afraid I've just lost attraction to others:confused:I mean, my type has changed
 
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thank you, but I've never been one to look for girls like her, I'm really afraid I've just lost attraction to others:confused:I mean, my type has changed
it happens, been there, don’t beat yourself up
 
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its normal to still be attached to a person whom you spent much time with, it will fade
He hardly spent any time with her, but yes, it's normal ig.

For me it's been 2 months and i am still thinking about her every hour of every day, which is a huge improvemdnt from thinking abt her every minute of every day :lul:

I also haven't dreamed about her in quite a while, the first month it was like every other night.

Also haven't SHed in a while, mostly cuz my dad will see, not cuz i don't get urges...
 
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He hardly spent any time with her, but yes, it's normal ig.

For me it's been 2 months and i am still thinking about her every hour of every day, which is a huge improvemdnt from thinking abt her every minute of every day :lul:

I also haven't dreamed about her in quite a while, the first month it was like every other night.

Also haven't SHed in a while, mostly cuz my dad will see, not cuz i don't get urges...
its perfectly normal, trust me it gets better couple months in
 
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dnr nigga, ur T is too low just fucking find a new foid
 
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it happens, been there, don’t beat yourself up
Also, something really shitty happened a long time ago, because I was talking to a lot of girls, was talking some stupid bullshit, they were spreading rumors about me, I regularly see once a year or six months how they point fingers at me on the street or someone writes me some bullshit in my dm, ngas cant even say shit about my face but laughing from my physique, like, this is me and girl who was ducking about me
 

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He hardly spent any time with her, but yes, it's normal ig.

For me it's been 2 months and i am still thinking about her every hour of every day, which is a huge improvemdnt from thinking abt her every minute of every day :lul:

I also haven't dreamed about her in quite a while, the first month it was like every other night.

Also haven't SHed in a while, mostly cuz my dad will see, not cuz i don't get urges...
I hope you don't self-harm anymore, im sorry bro

I hope it gets better
 
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dnr nigga, ur T is too low just fucking find a new foid
or mb no, my t is low yea but js finding a new girl is not the solution
 
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I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
in my opinion you should try to find something you enjoy doing, like reading, playing an instrument or anything else. spend time doing it , and improving any other thing you want to to, that usually helps. It's normal to feel bad or miss someone you were intimate with, specially when you know this person is someone that wanted you first, or showed affection for you.
When you realise there isn't much you can do to get someone back, you just get fucked up, and start thinking about the person every single time of the day, but eventually it stops.
 
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how old r u?
 
in my opinion you should try to find something you enjoy doing, like reading, playing an instrument or anything else. spend time doing it , and improving any other thing you want to to, that usually helps. It's normal to feel bad or miss someone you were intimate with, specially when you know this person is someone that wanted you first, or showed affection for you.
When you realise there isn't much you can do to get someone back, you just get fucked up, and start thinking about the person every single time of the day, but eventually it stops.
thank you very much bro🫶:)
 
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I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
Chads nut is all the way up in her rn
 
I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
Listen bro, it’s gonna take more than a month to get her off your head and for the last part I wouldn’t look for girls like her because there is no other girl like her
 
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Listen bro, it’s gonna take more than a month to get her off your head and for the last part I wouldn’t look for girls like her because there is no other girl like her
thank you bro:y'all:
 
thank you bro:y'all:
I’m still trying to forget my ex aswell but we’ve been broken up since like September lol it takes a long time once you spend years with someone
 
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Just keeping moving forward, focus on yourself and what's important to you
 
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I’m still trying to forget my ex aswell but we’ve been broken up since like September lol it takes a long time once you spend years with someone
how long have you been together?
 
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I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
Been there
 
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how long have you been together?
2 years but it was during high school so it was when I was growing as a person so it felt a lot longer i don’t know 🤷‍♂️ she’s been moved on. I don’t want her back but I still think abt her
 
2 years but it was during high school so it was when I was growing as a person so it felt a lot longer i don’t know 🤷‍♂️ she’s been moved on. I don’t want her back but I still think abt her
im sorry brother, me and you just need to wait and it goes
 
soon you'll accept it
 
Its been a year and I still miss my exs

It doesn’t get better
 
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I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
Hope things get better nonetheless
 
I'll start from a long way back. For the entire summer of 2025, I was with a girl whom I friendzoned, but she acted like a yandere, showed me lots of attention, and so on. We hooked up several times. At the very beginning of autumn, she fell in love with ltn fatcel, and we stopped talking. After that, practically until winter, I didn't really have a normal relationship. I didn't even talk to girls that often, I didn't date or hang out with just anyone, and I even felt fine.

However, towards the end of autumn, I met a girl on a dating bot, and we started talking. You know, I didn't message her first or anything, but she did, and even when I told her some absolutely stupid bullshit about wanting to build a relationship with someone from my enviroment, but I didn't know exactly who, since I had several options. Even so, she supported me. And after that, I decided to build a relationship with her.

Of course, everything was fucking great. I hadn't dated for a long time, and I felt fucking happy. However, she was constantly hanging out with a group of guys and girls, and it really bothered me, i was jealous. We discussed it with her, but it was just talk. Then one day I told a friend about it, and he said, "You shouldn't be a cuck" So I told her I was going out with a group of guys and girls on the weekends. I said it aggressively and all that, but she had two fucking meltdowns, and she wrote that hanging out with the opposite sex in a relationship is terrible, and so on. So, it turns out none of us hung out with them. Or so I thought.

One time we were talking, and we started discussing the topic of lie. Of course, she said she hung out with them. I was so upset, I was just fucking freaked out. After that, I ignored her. She messaged me, telling me how much she loved me, but eventually, it all fizzled out. A month passed, I texted her a couple of times, and she texted me, but just for fun. Even now she said she doesn't really want to talk when I asked her directly, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm mogging her, but I'm so attached. My type in girls even changed, I literally started looking for girls like her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I think about her unconsciously.

Please, help me. What the fuck should i do?:feelswhy:
dnr get drunk and text random girls at 3 am
 

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