I'm Tired of Chasing Women - Why wont They Chase Me?

[bananacoffee]

Every single time I have something going on with a woman (FWB or 1 date or a tinder match or whatever) I always end up being the person chasing while they make less and less effort, until it fizzles out completely and ghost.

WTF can I do? Its like a dangling carrot, like I'm almost there but never quite enough.

What does this mean? That I'm a normie i guess?

 

[La Vita]

stop putting effort in jfl

the woman should be putting in the effort to date you

otherwise shes not worth your time

 

[bananacoffee]

stop putting effort in jfl

the woman should be putting in the effort to date you

otherwise shes not worth your time

thats my point, HOW can i get them to put in more effort? I guess drive a BMW? I feel if i had alot money they would chase me for sure since my baseline looks are "good enough" category but i'm a normal middle-class recent graduate guy working a 50k job

 

[La Vita]

thats my point, HOW can i get them to put in more effort? I guess drive a BMW? I feel if i had alot money they would chase me for sure since my baseline looks are "good enough" category but i'm a normal middle-class recent graduate guy working a 50k job

like i said, stop putting in effort therefore they will start having to compensate

 

[Slavurik]

stop putting effort in jfl

the woman should be putting in the effort to date you

otherwise shes not worth your time

Nigga it is cope asf, men are supposed to make the first move to a woman, arrange and pay for a date, that's how it is and that's how the society works.
Even 6'4 chads when they're going to a club have to make the first move and put some effort in their social skills to get laid so do not cope please

 

[Slavurik]

like i said, stop putting in effort therefore they will start having to compensate

Nigga don't listen to him if ur an ordinary man then it would not work u will just turn into an incel. Women won't chase a guy with avg looks, height and salary. It is u that will chase tham. Focus more on gaining wealth and training or generally on improving urself

 

[La Vita]

Nigga it is cope asf, men are supposed to make the first move to a woman, arrange and pay for a date, that's how it is and that's how the society works.
Even 6'4 chads when they're going to a club have to make the first move and put some effort in their social skills to get laid so do not cope please

sure men have to make the first move, and take her to restaurants. but that does not mean he should be putting all the effort into the relationship.

 

[bananacoffee]

like i said, stop putting in effort therefore they will start having to compensate

they will not give a fuck, they will just forget i even exist and go date some other guy. i already deleted chat of so many of these without any emotional breakup text or whatever BS, and none of them ever came back, so ur advice didnt help in those situations.

They dont care

 

[La Vita]

they will not give a fuck, they will just forget i even exist and go date some other guy. i already deleted chat of so many of these without any emotional breakup text or whatever BS, and none of them ever came back, so ur advice didnt help in those situations.

They dont care

why would you want to date a foid who only has interest in you if you cover her with attention? cuck behaviour

look if they can forget you exist so quickly if you just stop texting them, youre not ready for the dating market

 

[Slavurik]

sure men have to make the first move, and take her to restaurants. but that does not mean he should be putting all the effort into the relationship.

Nigga if a girl does not respond to messages or just being cold to a guy then she is simply not interested, there is no point to even do smth with her bcs of the lack of interest.
If he will stop putting effort in a relationship then it would turn even worse for him bcs then he will just get no play at all. If ur an ordinary man then u have to put an effort. If ur tall or gl or rich or everything together then u have options, otherwise there's no other way

 

[bananacoffee]

why would you want to date a foid who only has interest in you if you cover her with attention? cuck behaviour

look if they can forget you exist so quickly if you just stop texting them, youre not ready for the dating market

when am i gonna be ready, im a 24 year old making 50k and im applying for masters soon

genuinely asking not trying to be funny i want serious advice

 

[La Vita]

Nigga don't listen to him if ur an ordinary man then it would not work u will just turn into an incel. Women won't chase a guy with avg looks, height and salary. It is u that will chase tham. Focus more on gaining wealth and training or generally on improving urself

put all the effort into a relationship as an average man and you get cucked.

 

[La Vita]

when am i gonna be ready, im a 24 year old making 50k and im applying for masters soon

genuinely asking not trying to be funny i want serious advice

its not about the money you idiot

 

[Slavurik]

put all the effort into a relationship as an average man and you get cucked.

Nigga read my responses I said to him to focus on improbing himself bcs eventually if a girl is not interested even if he will give her all the attention in the world she would not give a fuck. He needs to improve himself and be above avg and interesting to get girls that's what I said.
What ur saying is he has to stop putting any effort what is a complete BS, even if ur a millionaire then u have to put effort no matter what.

 

[bananacoffee]

its not about the money you idiot

Nigga read my responses I said to him to focus on improbing himself bcs eventually if a girl is not interested even if he will give her all the attention in the world she would not give a fuck. He needs to improve himself and be above avg and interesting to get girls that's what I said.
What ur saying is he has to stop putting any effort what is a complete BS, even if ur a millionaire then u have to put effort no matter what.

what can i improve? money takes time, i wont suddenly win the lottery. height i cant do anything that im 5'7, face nothing i can do other than skincare + lean, gym i go 5x a week already

 

[iblamemyhabits]

u're not gl enough

 

[mangotimer]

Every single time I have something going on with a woman (FWB or 1 date or a tinder match or whatever) I always end up being the person chasing while they make less and less effort, until it fizzles out completely and ghost.

WTF can I do? Its like a dangling carrot, like I'm almost there but never quite enough.

What does this mean? That I'm a normie i guess?

Women owe me sex

 

[Slavurik]

what can i improve? money takes time, i wont suddenly win the lottery. height i cant do anything that im 5'7, face nothing i can do other than skincare + lean, gym i go 5x a week already

Stylemaxx - pick clothes that fit u, groommax (haircut, skincare and other shit), socialmaxx (try to learn how to communicate with foids, how to be charmin' and "cute" and allat), try to get as lean as possible and put some muscle, money - either go to school on smth that will give u a career in a field with wealthy people and money or learn yourself some skill and try to monetizy it but genuinely Idk I am too young myself to give u advices. It is just things that everyone already know.

 

[foid_annihilation]

Every single time I have something going on with a woman (FWB or 1 date or a tinder match or whatever) I always end up being the person chasing while they make less and less effort, until it fizzles out completely and ghost.

WTF can I do? Its like a dangling carrot, like I'm almost there but never quite enough.

What does this mean? That I'm a normie i guess?

take a wild fucking guess