Im tired of my validation seeking behaviors

[Bitchwhipper2]

Im so attention craved and its exhuasting
The validation doesnt even need to be positive. I just need attention, wether good or bad

 

[Vincent Freeman]

we can tell

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

we can tell

Wow, is it really that noticable

 

[160cmcurry]

 

[valentine]

ts so foid

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

ts so foid

I have a female brain tbh.

Cry very easily and ditsy/forgotful aswell

 

[valentine]

I have a female brain tbh.

Cry very easily and ditsy/forgotful aswell

thats ok not judging, can relate in a way

 

[ToryToad]

Im so attention craved and its exhuasting
The validation doesnt even need to be positive. I just need attention, wether good or bad

That's relatable.Are u an abused dog?

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

That's relatable.Are u an abused dog?

Yes. Was called ugly on a somewhat regular basis and had trouble making friends due to autism.

Also have an emotionally walled off father and my brother was a total dick to me which probably contributes

 

[ToryToad]

Yes. Was called ugly on a somewhat regular basis and had trouble making friends due to autism.

Also have an emotionally walled off father and my brother was a total dick to me which probably contributes

Brutal bro.But I feel u I had similar experiences

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Brutal bro.But I feel u I had similar experiences

Are you also autistic and are/have been ugly?

 

[ToryToad]

Are you also autistic and are/have been ugly?

I am not autistic  but I have struggles making social connections.And Im ugly and have been called that many times by my friends.And I have lost many friends in the last year and I m somewhat an outsider and I have very very high social anxiety due to getting bullied when I was 11

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

I am not autistic  but I have struggles making social connections.And Im ugly and have been called that many times by my friends.And I have lost many friends in the last year and I m somewhat an outsider and I have very very high social anxiety due to getting bullied when I was 11

Do you think your looks are the culprit of your social issues?

 

[ToryToad]

Do you think your looks are the culprit of your social issues?

No but it makes everything 10 times worse

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

No but it makes everything 10 times worse

What would you rate yourself?

 

[ToryToad]

What would you rate yourself?

L ltn

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

L ltn

Brutal

Recessed?

 

[ToryToad]

Brutal

Recessed?

 yes .Only good thing are my zygos

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

 yes .Only good thing are my zygos

You kindof remind me of @superpsycho personality-wise

 

[ToryToad]

You kindof remind me of @superpsycho personality-wise

Fr?Is this a good or a bad thing?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Im so attention craved and its exhuasting
The validation doesnt even need to be positive. I just need attention, wether good or bad

I stopped chasing for validation by not caring. you can never win by chasing validation.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

I stopped chasing for validation by not caring. you can never win by chasing validation.

Its hard though.

I get so bored and anxious without it. Like my soul starts itching

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Fr?Is this a good or a bad thing?

Its kinda chill. I like him. Both of you guys are chill guys

Hes a bit more one dimensional though. His patterns seem more ridgid while you appear multifaceted in a way

 

[ToryToad]

Its kinda chill. I like him. Both of you guys are chill guys

Hes a bit more one dimensional though. His patterns seem more ridgid while you seem multifaceted in a way

Thanks

 

[baerr]

Just Text Girls? Whenever I Need attention I just Text them.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Just Text Girls? Whenever I Need attention I just Text them.

Muh just talk to girls type shit

 

[baerr]

Muh just talk to girls type shit

Can’t See whats wrong about that honestly

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Can’t See whats wrong about that honestly

If they don't want to talk

 

[baerr]

If they don't want to talk

Then Ur Doing something wrong

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Then Ur Doing something wrong

 

[baerr]

They always want to Talk, they want male attention

 

[CorinthianLOX]

They always want to Talk, they want male attention

i'm also retarded

 

[baerr]

i'm also retarded

I Bet youre not. You just dont have practice Talking to them