I'm tired of this shit bro

[Asoka]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

 

[Asoka]

@SvtvnTr14d @Saint @Feuerwehr @turkcelfatcel @Fridx

 

[turkcelfatcel]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

Bru im mtn rn all the girls are fucking ugly avg girl is lltb even theyre hypergamous JFL no matter how much i ascend ill never get a gf tbh

 

[larpcel]

Talk about music and work

 

[ikramy]

The problem with you is that you expect everything to happen so easily without having to go through effort

You can not build a social connection without effort

You expect the people around you to do everything while you’re just sitting around doing nothing like the bum you are

Fuck off nigger no one owes you shit you either work for it or continue ldaring and crying about it in a fucking incel forum

 

[Fridx]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

I have the exact same problem my social skills are underdeveloped
I dated 1hmtb but got ghosted
I hate to see people uglier than me being happier

 

[turkcelfatcel]

The problem with you is that you expect everything to happen so easily without having to go through effort

You can not build a social connection without effort

You expect the people around you to do everything while you’re just sitting around doing nothing like the bum you are

Fuck off nigger no one owes you shit you either work for it or continue ldaring and crying about it in a fucking incel forum

I sit around doing nothing and an ltb made a move on me ngl you only need looks if its high enough youll get what you want

 

[ikramy]

I sit around doing nothing and an ltb made a move on me ngl you only need looks if its high enough youll get what you want

Go shove your anecdotal evidence up your ass

 

[Asoka]

Bru im mtn rn all the girls are fucking ugly avg girl is lltb even theyre hypergamous JFL no matter how much i ascend ill never get a gf tbh

I have the same future KHHV for life

 

[Asoka]

Talk about music and work

Can't talk about that for more than 1 day

 

[Mansur]

Got a similar situation. I realised that girls wont make you feel better they are just wasting your time

the reason you likely couldnt have a longer convo than 10 mins is because they are boring and stupid.

Buy the cheapest 20 flight to the next country or walk around the city listening to music, thats what helped me.

Do unusual stuff so your life feels more interesting and productive

 

[Asoka]

The problem with you is that you expect everything to happen so easily without having to go through effort

You can not build a social connection without effort

You expect the people around you to do everything while you’re just sitting around doing nothing like the bum you are

Fuck off nigger no one owes you shit you either work for it or continue ldaring and crying about it in a fucking incel forum

fair enough, I appreciate your honesty

 

[Asoka]

I have the exact same problem my social skills are underdeveloped
I dated 1hmtb but got ghosted
I hate to see people uglier than me being happier

Real they don't deserve it

 

[the exile v2]

The problem with you is that you expect everything to happen so easily without having to go through effort

You can not build a social connection without effort

You expect the people around you to do everything while you’re just sitting around doing nothing like the bum you are

Fuck off nigger no one owes you shit you either work for it or continue ldaring and crying about it in a fucking incel forum

fair enough

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

honestly bro as someone who's been getting a little social with girls lately u gotta understand that there are a lot of girls with shit personality and that's the majority of them, there's only a small group of chill girls who actually have goated personality. Honestly I ldar all day too which is starting to piss me off like crazy but i personally use pregabalin to be more social and I learnt how to be social without it too if that makes sense. I only have small bullshit chit chats with girls honestly u gotta ofc put on a little bit of an NT mask too not scare them off but also don't be afraid to be low inhib and say whatever u feel like saying, u just gotta find the girl with the right personality cause some will make drama because of some bullshit just for the love of the game.

TLDR: Pharma-pregab, put on an NT mask and be low inhib, a lot of girls have shit boring personality so u can't force every one of them to like you

 

[larpcel]

Can't talk about that for more than 1 day

Easily could, but anyway I don’t understand your reasoning to speak to people you don’t want to speak to

 

[Hikaruno]

develop ur social skills. seriously go out. its uncomfortable but how do you expect ur social skills to build up if you spend ur days scrolling in your bed ?

 

[Feuerwehr]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

Wait for true love
Im doing the Same+ it mogs

 

[Fridx]

find a girl that u like
Find out what she likes and learn things about that
And just talk with her about those things

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

develop ur social skills. seriously go out. its uncomfortable but how do you expect ur social skills to build up if you spend ur days scrolling in your bed ?

yup exposure therapy can do wonders but i ldar like crazy too though

 

[Saint]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

How old are you firstly.

Secondly, I’d suggest to stop LDAR it’s the worst thing to ever do. Sign up to a nice gym with a nice pool and go with 1 of your close friends daily. You can talk to girls there and build muscles and interact with others. Try to join different clubs at your school as well

 

[Asoka]

honestly bro as someone who's been getting a little social with girls lately u gotta understand that there are a lot of girls with shit personality and that's the majority of them, there's only a small group of chill girls who actually have goated personality. Honestly I ldar all day too which is starting to piss me off like crazy but i personally use pregabalin to be more social and I learnt how to be social without it too if that makes sense. I only have small bullshit chit chats with girls honestly u gotta ofc put on a little bit of an NT mask too not scare them off but also don't be afraid to be low inhib and say whatever u feel like saying, u just gotta find the girl with the right personality cause some will make drama because of some bullshit just for the love of the game.

TLDR: Pharma-pregab, put on an NT mask and be low inhib, a lot of girls have shit boring personality so u can't force every one of them to like you

I do need pregabalin of smth like that because I have high inhib. I know how to look for real and down to earth girls but there's too few and I never speak to any of them. Much love for the advice

 

[Hikaruno]

yup exposure therapy can do wonders but i ldar like crazy too though

it works fr. 3 years ago i was so scared of rejection. I missed out on so many opportunities. now i genuinely don’t care, i built my social skills, i approached people, and it’s been working like crazy. it’s not over fr

 

[zygosmasher12]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours and I suddenly just get sprees of videos from my "Friends" list on tiktok and I see people with girls and having fun while I'm ldaring all day and everyday. I have friends and allat but I genuinely haven't spoken to girl for more than 10 minutes in good convo for over a year. I'm not bad looking or anything, I don't want to be confident but I'm around MTN and I could pull if I really tried. I just don't how to properly speak to girls, all of them around me feel fake and they wouldn't really care who I am after 2 months of talking and moving onto the next guy. Every time I talk with a girl it feels more and more fake and I talk less and less. Trying to cope and fix by taking stimulants but it probs won't do shit. Any advice from anyone who was in a similar situation?

holy overthinking, its not this deep man, believe it or not foids are actual humans, same like you. just fucking speak to them like a normal person its not hard, find out something about them maybe that you can bond over and go with the flow

 

[Asoka]

Easily could, but anyway I don’t understand your reasoning to speak to people you don’t want to speak to

I have high inhib and find it awkward to start speaking to people without a good reason, I feel like I need a good opportunity and not like I'm trying to get closer to them on purpose

 

[anthony111554]

Relatable I felt this same way 1y ago right now. Normalfags cant lose

 

[Asoka]

develop ur social skills. seriously go out. its uncomfortable but how do you expect ur social skills to build up if you spend ur days scrolling in your bed ?

I don't expect anything from it, I'm just trying to comfort myself

 

[acidonmyface]

Talk about the interests that all normies have, develop them so you can actually hold a small convo for a few days in a row. If you want to get confidence and learn how to talk to girls start off with the UGLY ones. They’ll boost your confidence and since they’re undesirable they’ll actually want to talk to you since no one else wants to talk to them. Because they’ll want to talk to you you’ll get to learn the behavioural patterns most girls share and notice what seems interesting to them and what doesn’t

 

[Asoka]

Wait for true love
Im doing the Same+ it mogs

Thats what I want to do, I don't want fake 3 month relationship love.

 

[larpcel]

I have high inhib and find it awkward to start speaking to people without a good reason, I feel like I need a good opportunity and not like I'm trying to get closer to them on purpose

I’m the same but luckily my studies require me to do a lot of group work (imo easiest place to speak to others)

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

I do need pregabalin of smth like that because I have high inhib. I know how to look for real and down to earth girls but there's too few and I never speak to any of them. Much love for the advice

if it's at school just hit the girl up if you have one targeted and ask about like some school work or whatever like "hey do you know how we're supposed to do the project for the xyz subject" and the foid will say something and turn it into kinda like complaining about the teach like oh my goodddd math teach gotta chill and just one thing leads to another and y'all can have a great convo, the worst thing u can do is just stop talking at one moment and have that awkward silence, but even if that happens don't stress

 

[Asoka]

How old are you firstly.

Secondly, I’d suggest to stop LDAR it’s the worst thing to ever do. Sign up to a nice gym with a nice pool and go with 1 of your close friends daily. You can talk to girls there and build muscles and interact with others. Try to join different clubs at your school as well

I'm 15 and still a KHHV which is okay I guess and I'm not desperate to find love I just know it will be harder and harder in the future if I don't start soon. I have zero friends close by me since I go to a boarding school

 

[Asoka]

it works fr. 3 years ago i was so scared of rejection. I missed out on so many opportunities. now i genuinely don’t care, i built my social skills, i approached people, and it’s been working like crazy. it’s not over fr

brings me hope, I just got to work on social skills

 

[Asoka]

holy overthinking, its not this deep man, believe it or not foids are actual humans, same like you. just fucking speak to them like a normal person its not hard, find out something about them maybe that you can bond over and go with the flow

hopefully, I know what you mean I'm just lazy and retarded

 

[Feuerwehr]

Thats what I want to do, I don't want fake 3 month relationship love.

Yeah bro
It’s better anyways
Just chill, dont take it serious

 

[Fridx]

Im kv you have to make the first move
Dont be scared of rejection

 

[Asoka]

Talk about the interests that all normies have, develop them so you can actually hold a small convo for a few days in a row. If you want to get confidence and learn how to talk to girls start off with the UGLY ones. They’ll boost your confidence and since they’re undesirable they’ll actually want to talk to you since no one else wants to talk to them. Because they’ll want to talk to you you’ll get to learn the behavioural patterns most girls share and notice what seems interesting to them and what doesn’t

I'll try to do that, I just need a reason to start talking to them, if I start randomly approaching them out of nowhere then I don't feel confident at all

 

[Asoka]

I’m the same but luckily my studies require me to do a lot of group work (imo easiest place to speak to others)

That's what I want to do, activities make it easier to start convo

 

[Saint]

I'm 15 and still a KHHV which is okay I guess and I'm not desperate to find love I just know it will be harder and harder in the future if I don't start soon. I have zero friends close by me since I go to a boarding school

When I was 15 I was playing league of legends all day and was sub 4 JFL. Just don’t stress too much bro, don’t LDAR and stay outside with friends

 

[Saint]

When I was 15 I was playing league of legends all day and was sub 4 JFL. Just don’t stress too much bro, don’t LDAR and stay outside with friends

It’s Christmas times so you defo have a holiday. In this holiday don’t LDAR on your bed or on the game just go outside all day

 

[jjx1z]

I'm scrolling in bed by myself in the dark for the past two hours

thats your problem

 

[zygosmasher12]

hopefully, I know what you mean I'm just lazy and retarded

go with the flow and stop being so hard on yourself, we all make mistakes but thats life man. just dont be an incel bedrotter and you will be good, go out there and slay some beckies

 

[Asoka]

if it's at school just hit the girl up if you have one targeted and ask about like some school work or whatever like "hey do you know how we're supposed to do the project for the xyz subject" and the foid will say something and turn it into kinda like complaining about the teach like oh my goodddd math teach gotta chill and just one thing leads to another and y'all can have a great convo, the worst thing u can do is just stop talking at one moment and have that awkward silence, but even if that happens don't stress

I'm way too awkward to try anything outside of school so that's probably the way, it definitely could work or help me develop skills a bit. Thanks for the effort of helping me bro, much love

 

[GynoGladiator]

there will always be someone below u, i havent spoken to a girl for more than a minute for years

 

[Asoka]

When I was 15 I was playing league of legends all day and was sub 4 JFL. Just don’t stress too much bro, don’t LDAR and stay outside with friends

I go out with my friends but rarely as they live kinda far, I just don't want to not speak to any girls for 3 years and then when I want to start trying to actually find love I go and panic and I can't socialise at all. Much love for the advice

 

[acidonmyface]

I'll try to do that, I just need a reason to start talking to them, if I start randomly approaching them out of nowhere then I don't feel confident at all

Honestly anything will do but learn how to not make it creepy so start off with randoms, places like the gym or anywhere you go from time to time. It’s okay to fuck up there so don’t worry lmao

In my case I started to learn how to strike up a convo by complimenting my female teachers in HS (under 25yo obvi). You gotta observe their reaction to see what’s an actually good compliment and what seems superficial

Is there any specific girl you wanna talk to

 

[Grievous]

Just go to partys
Works for me I get drunk and talk to every girl from my school

 

[Asoka]

there will always be someone below u, i havent spoken to a girl for more than a minute for years

We will overcome this together

 

[Asoka]

Just go to partys
Works for me I get drunk and talk to every girl from my school

That doesn't work for me because I don't get invited, and once I tired to invite myself and I got flamed and ignored

 

[Asoka]

Honestly anything will do but learn how to not make it creepy so start off with randoms, places like the gym or anywhere you go from time to time. It’s okay to fuck up there so don’t worry lmao

In my case I started to learn how to strike up a convo by complimenting my female teachers in HS (under 25yo obvi). You gotta observe their reaction to see what’s an actually good compliment and what seems superficial

Is there any specific girl you wanna talk to

I'm probably not gonna practice on my teachers but I will try . I thought this one girl showed interest in me but I tried to follow her on socials but she never followed me back