I'M TOO AUTISTIC TO HANDLE IOIS (STORY TIME GTFIH)

[Deleted member 22623]

It's very rare for me to get IOIs outside of club environments / bars (sub-chadlite life, over), but it does happen occasionally

Today was one such day.

I was at the gym minding my own business as usual, hitting the barbells with my dyel, laughable twink-tier physique and my hoodie pulled all the way up to best possibly avoid any human contact

As I finished my last set and was about to rack the barbells, some MTB foid came over smiled at me and asked me if she could use the bench I was standing at

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway. She nodded and smiled, and kept maintaining eye contact with me. At this point I could already feel I was starting to get awkward cause I was not sure if I should just go rack the barbells like a normal human, or if I should stay and say something. She saved me by telling me she had "seen me before" (whatever that means) and that she thought I looked cute. I awkwardly shifted and told her thanks and likewise. She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

My heart immediately sank and I wanted to fucking die right there and then. And no, unlike Reddit cucks would have you believe she did not reply with "Well hi do you come here often, my name is X" whereafter we rode happily into the sunset. Instead she just looked a bit flustered and said "yeah".

At this point I could've probably pressed on but she had my autism sniffed out like a K9 looking for cocaine in the favelas of Mexico City, so I decided to leave it then and there and go to rack my barbells instead

It is brutally fucking over for me.

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

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@rand anon @Dr. Bruh @TRUE_CEL @Ellipsis @russiancel @Xangsane @Blackgymmax @Artemis @poopoohead @Shako Mako @pneumocystosis @Elvisandreaa @Allandro

 

[Iasacrko]

Nigga if ur the dude in ur avi ur chadlite

 

[Deleted member 17244]

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 22623]

Nigga if ur the dude in ur avi ur chadlite

its me, but I am not chadlite, what is with the brutal fucking overrates on the forums these days. If I was I wouldn't be sitting here writing this shitty thread cause I got cucked yet again by my fucking autism fucking brutally over

 

[Iasacrko]

its me, but I am not chadlite, what is with the brutal fucking overrates on the forums these days. If I was I wouldn't be sitting here writing this shitty thread cause I got cucked yet again by my fucking autism fucking brutally over

Nigga those eyes are literally 10/10 not just the color also the shape eyebrows very good too u look like a model there

 

[Deleted member 17244]

its me, but I am not chadlite, what is with the brutal fucking overrates on the forums these days. If I was I wouldn't be sitting here writing this shitty thread cause I got cucked yet again by my fucking autism fucking brutally over

u htn

 

[rand anon]

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@rand anon

 

[rand anon]

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 22623]

u htn

yes cant be chadlite with my recessed dog maxilla and cringe fringe

bhai cmon I need advice from certified LM moggers like u

 

[Deleted member 17244]

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 17244]

LM

what does it mean

 

[Deleted member 22623]

what does it mean

looksmax

 

[emeraldglass]

It's very rare for me to get IOIs outside of club environments / bars (sub-chadlite life, over), but it does happen occasionally

Today was one such day.

I was at the gym minding my own business as usual, hitting the barbells with my dyel, laughable twink-tier physique and my hoodie pulled all the way up to best possibly avoid any human contact

As I finished my last set and was about to rack the barbells, some MTB foid came over smiled at me and asked me if she could use the bench I was standing at

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway. She nodded and smiled, and kept maintaining eye contact with me. At this point I could already feel I was starting to get awkward cause I was not sure if I should just go rack the barbells like a normal human, or if I should stay and say something. She saved me by telling me she had "seen me before" (whatever that means) and that she thought I looked cute. I awkwardly shifted and told her thanks and likewise. She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

My heart immediately sank and I wanted to fucking die right there and then. And no, unlike Reddit cucks would have you believe she did not reply with "Well hi do you come here often, my name is X" whereafter we rode happily into the sunset. Instead she just looked a bit flustered and said "yeah".

At this point I could've probably pressed on but she had my autism sniffed out like a K9 looking for cocaine in the favelas of Mexico City, so I decided to leave it then and there and go to rack my barbells instead

It is brutally fucking over for me.

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

Tagging conversational experts

Spoiler: The Experts

@rand anon @Dr. Bruh @TRUE_CEL @Ellipsis @russiancel @Xangsane @Blackgymmax @Artemis @poopoohead @Shako Mako @pneumocystosis @Elvisandreaa @Allandro

Your problem is not your looks but what goes on in your mind.

 

[User49]

yes cant be chadlite with my recessed dog maxilla and cringe fringe

send side

 

[rand anon]

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

U already messed up. If u wanna try again, imo just ask her directly for a date/coffee

 

[whiteissuperior]

dnr but i can relate to the title. I got 2 IOIs this weekend (girl asking for my number, another girl coming up and complimenting my height), and I was so not used to this I got uncomfortable and just kinda froze. It felt wrong

@smvmaxxertilllate @Racky

 

[Deleted member 22623]

send side

already posted my side here cause i have a subhuman gonial angle and its preventing me from living a normal life

Should I get fillers to improve my gonial angle?

i believe the angle indicated by the red line would be more ideal than my current gonial angle indicated by the green line? anyone who had fillers who could advise approximately how many mls I would need?

looksmax.org

as u can see my maxilla is also clearly recessed

 

[Deleted member 22623]

dnr but i can relate to the title. I got 2 IOIs this weekend (girl asking for my number, another girl coming up and complimenting my height), and I was so not used to this I got uncomfortable and just kinda froze. It felt wrong

@smvmaxxertilllate @Racky

yeah its fucked man, its a lot easier if ure drunk.. but cant go around drunk 24/7

 

[User49]

already posted my side here cause i have a subhuman gonial angle and its preventing me from living a normal life

Should I get fillers to improve my gonial angle?

i believe the angle indicated by the red line would be more ideal than my current gonial angle indicated by the green line? anyone who had fillers who could advise approximately how many mls I would need?

looksmax.org

as u can see my maxilla is also clearly recessed

it’s barely recessed lol

but ur head tilt frauding so idk

 

[pneumocystosis]

yeah man that was pretty fucking bad.

Don’t approach her next time, only smile at her and maybe say hi.
That’s it.
Do that the next few times.

Hopefully she’ll reinitiate.

 

[Geoff2024]

its me, but I am not chadlite, what is with the brutal fucking overrates on the forums these days. If I was I wouldn't be sitting here writing this shitty thread cause I got cucked yet again by my fucking autism fucking brutally over

You are a pathetic no nt retard thats why. It won't get better

 

[WishIwasChico]

It's very rare for me to get IOIs outside of club environments / bars (sub-chadlite life, over), but it does happen occasionally

Today was one such day.

I was at the gym minding my own business as usual, hitting the barbells with my dyel, laughable twink-tier physique and my hoodie pulled all the way up to best possibly avoid any human contact

As I finished my last set and was about to rack the barbells, some MTB foid came over smiled at me and asked me if she could use the bench I was standing at

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway. She nodded and smiled, and kept maintaining eye contact with me. At this point I could already feel I was starting to get awkward cause I was not sure if I should just go rack the barbells like a normal human, or if I should stay and say something. She saved me by telling me she had "seen me before" (whatever that means) and that she thought I looked cute. I awkwardly shifted and told her thanks and likewise. She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

My heart immediately sank and I wanted to fucking die right there and then. And no, unlike Reddit cucks would have you believe she did not reply with "Well hi do you come here often, my name is X" whereafter we rode happily into the sunset. Instead she just looked a bit flustered and said "yeah".

At this point I could've probably pressed on but she had my autism sniffed out like a K9 looking for cocaine in the favelas of Mexico City, so I decided to leave it then and there and go to rack my barbells instead

It is brutally fucking over for me.

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

Tagging conversational experts

Spoiler: The Experts

@rand anon @Dr. Bruh @TRUE_CEL @Ellipsis @russiancel @Xangsane @Blackgymmax @Artemis @poopoohead @Shako Mako @pneumocystosis @Elvisandreaa @Allandro

That's not an IOI you absolute fucking narcy cunt, if it was she would've made sure to get your number or give you. I'm sick of delusional niggas on here saying they got IOIs cause a foid spoke to you or looked in your direction.

In reality she wanted to use the bench and was being friendly and polite to ask what you're name was and then you tried to make it something more than it was by asking her questions and trying to have a convo with her while she was there to work out that's why she just cut you off and said 'yeah' so you got the fucking hint.

 

[Deleted member 25938]

JFL at you tagging me as a conversational expert, I can't even talk with half of my friends without wanting to die inside and becoming my fully unhinged, blackpilled edgelord self.

 

[Deleted member 22623]

You are a pathetic no nt retard thats why. It won't get better

would be better if i was more forward grown

That's not an IOI you absolute fucking narcy cunt, if it was she would've made sure to get your number or give you. I'm sick of delusional niggas on here saying they got IOIs cause a foid spoke to you or looked in your direction.

In reality she wanted to use the bench and was being friendly and polite to ask what you're name was and then you tried to make it something more than it was by asking her questions and trying to have a convo with her while she was there to work out that's why she just cut you off and said 'yeah' so you got the fucking hint.

i think maybe I got to close and she realized my maxilla was recessed

 

[Michael Myers]

It's very rare for me to get IOIs outside of club environments / bars (sub-chadlite life, over), but it does happen occasionally

Today was one such day.

I was at the gym minding my own business as usual, hitting the barbells with my dyel, laughable twink-tier physique and my hoodie pulled all the way up to best possibly avoid any human contact

As I finished my last set and was about to rack the barbells, some MTB foid came over smiled at me and asked me if she could use the bench I was standing at

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway. She nodded and smiled, and kept maintaining eye contact with me. At this point I could already feel I was starting to get awkward cause I was not sure if I should just go rack the barbells like a normal human, or if I should stay and say something. She saved me by telling me she had "seen me before" (whatever that means) and that she thought I looked cute. I awkwardly shifted and told her thanks and likewise. She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

My heart immediately sank and I wanted to fucking die right there and then. And no, unlike Reddit cucks would have you believe she did not reply with "Well hi do you come here often, my name is X" whereafter we rode happily into the sunset. Instead she just looked a bit flustered and said "yeah".

At this point I could've probably pressed on but she had my autism sniffed out like a K9 looking for cocaine in the favelas of Mexico City, so I decided to leave it then and there and go to rack my barbells instead

It is brutally fucking over for me.

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

Tagging conversational experts

Spoiler: The Experts

@rand anon @Dr. Bruh @TRUE_CEL @Ellipsis @russiancel @Xangsane @Blackgymmax @Artemis @poopoohead @Shako Mako @pneumocystosis @Elvisandreaa @Allandro

You are making a fuss over nothing. That’s not a bad response. Made me chuckle that you thought it was. Definitely make some small talk or ask her out. She’s clearly into you.

 

[Michael Myers]

JFL at you tagging me as a conversational expert, I can't even talk with half of my friends without wanting to die inside and becoming my fully unhinged, blackpilled edgelord self.

Ajeossi! Don’t put yourself down like that.

 

[Geoff2024]

would be better if i was more forward grown



i think maybe I got to close and she realized my maxilla was recessed

Yeah keep telling yourself that you can't even hold a convo without shitting your pants

 

[Deleted member 22623]

JFL at you tagging me as a conversational expert, I can't even talk with half of my friends without wanting to die inside and becoming my fully unhinged, blackpilled edgelord self.

but u seem high IQ bhai

You are making a fuss over nothing. That’s not a bad response. Made me chuckle that you thought it was. Definitely make some small talk or ask her out. She’s clearly into you.

u think so? i will try to say hi to her if i see her agian, but probably she will just look at me like im retarded (i am. over.)

 

[Deleted member 25938]

Ajeossi! Don’t put yourself down like that.

Unfortunately it's true though. I could probably count the number of genuine friends I have at school with my two hands. Even then I can't really talk to them about my true interests and hobbies, which render me unrelatable to 99% of the population (it feels).

 

[Deleted member 17244]

tbh whats the point of looksmaxing to you? You mog, fakecel

 

[Michael Myers]

Unfortunately it's true though. I could probably count the number of genuine friends I have at school with my two hands. Even then I can't really talk to them about my true interests and hobbies, which render me unrelatable to 99% of the population (it feels).

I will tell you this much.. real friends are so rare. I had dozens of friends but only one real friend. If you had more than one, you’re lucky.

 

[Michael Myers]

but u seem high IQ bhai



u think so? i will try to say hi to her if i see her agian, but probably she will just look at me like im retarded (i am. over.)

She already made up her mind about you in a good way. So yeah just say hi to her and just make a conversation.

 

[ascension]

 

[Deleted member 25938]

She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

It's amazing how a few flaps of the tongue and uvula can set the course (for better or worse) for the rest of your entire life story.

 

[poopoohead]

It's very rare for me to get IOIs outside of club environments / bars (sub-chadlite life, over), but it does happen occasionally

Today was one such day.

I was at the gym minding my own business as usual, hitting the barbells with my dyel, laughable twink-tier physique and my hoodie pulled all the way up to best possibly avoid any human contact

As I finished my last set and was about to rack the barbells, some MTB foid came over smiled at me and asked me if she could use the bench I was standing at

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway. She nodded and smiled, and kept maintaining eye contact with me. At this point I could already feel I was starting to get awkward cause I was not sure if I should just go rack the barbells like a normal human, or if I should stay and say something. She saved me by telling me she had "seen me before" (whatever that means) and that she thought I looked cute. I awkwardly shifted and told her thanks and likewise. She asked me what my name is and now is where the real cringe starts. Instead of telling her my name and asking for her snapchat / instagram or something NT I replied with "Do you come here often"

My heart immediately sank and I wanted to fucking die right there and then. And no, unlike Reddit cucks would have you believe she did not reply with "Well hi do you come here often, my name is X" whereafter we rode happily into the sunset. Instead she just looked a bit flustered and said "yeah".

At this point I could've probably pressed on but she had my autism sniffed out like a K9 looking for cocaine in the favelas of Mexico City, so I decided to leave it then and there and go to rack my barbells instead

It is brutally fucking over for me.

Should I try to talk with her next time I see her?

Tagging conversational experts

Spoiler: The Experts

@rand anon @Dr. Bruh @TRUE_CEL @Ellipsis @russiancel @Xangsane @Blackgymmax @Artemis @poopoohead @Shako Mako @pneumocystosis @Elvisandreaa @Allandro

you have nothing to lose if you approach again. remember that looks can make girls overlook autism. just use this as a learning experience and maybe you can get a possible FWB

 

[Blackgymmax]

Dont ask me. I would've ran away the second a foid says hi to me

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Game doesn't matter, what you say doesn't matter, it's all about your FACE and your looks were high enough that she approached.

She was flustered probably because your Chad. She didn't care what you said, nothing you say can fuck it up if she likes you.

Same applies in reverse, if she doesn't like you face nothing you say can make her like you that's why PUA is cope.

 

[badamj]

Mentalcels.org chads.org

incels like me get mogged here every day

 

[AspiringMogger]

That's not an IOI you absolute fucking narcy cunt, if it was she would've made sure to get your number or give you. I'm sick of delusional niggas on here saying they got IOIs cause a foid spoke to you or looked in your direction.

In reality she wanted to use the bench and was being friendly and polite to ask what you're name was and then you tried to make it something more than it was by asking her questions and trying to have a convo with her while she was there to work out that's why she just cut you off and said 'yeah' so you got the fucking hint.

from the way he described it, it definitely sounded like an IOI. I live in the same country as OP and it’s very uncommon to do that here. We live in very socially conservative country and people don’t strike up conversations with strangers unless they are drunk.

 

[AspiringMogger]

I remember one time I was sitting on a lats pull down machine with free weights and a black mtb just came up to me and took the weights off while I was sitting in between sets. I was in utter disbelief Bhai and didn’t know what to do. She laughed it off and I looked at her like she killed my cat. Least NT moment I’ve ever had in the gym.

 

[smvmaxxertilllate]

dnr but i can relate to the title. I got 2 IOIs this weekend (girl asking for my number, another girl coming up and complimenting my height), and I was so not used to this I got uncomfortable and just kinda froze. It felt wrong

@smvmaxxertilllate @Racky

I remember two parents with a son and daughter both in hs asked me for advice to get into Stanford when I was headed home after work. I spoke for like thirty minutes and the whole time their daughter kept looking at me like a puppy and playing with her hair, shit made me uncomfortable asf.

I don't interact with other humans these days tho so hasn't happened again. Trying to adopt Jiren mentality tbh.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I tried to smile back (which most likely just came out as a wretched grimace) and told her sure and I was finished anyway.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

The blackpill made me no longer care about what i'm saying. It might be awkward but the truth is girls don't give a fuck. If you look good, it won't turn them off and if you don't then why bother.

 

[Deleted member 22623]

you have nothing to lose if you approach again. remember that looks can make girls overlook autism. just use this as a learning experience and maybe you can get a possible FWB

Probably but it’s not the first time I’m acting like a retard, it’s like I truly never learn

I remember one time I was sitting on a lats pull down machine with free weights and a black mtb just came up to me and took the weights off while I was sitting in between sets. I was in utter disbelief Bhai and didn’t know what to do. She laughed it off and I looked at her like she killed my cat. Least NT moment I’ve ever had in the gym.

jfl that sounds weird as fuck.. did she tell u why she did it??? I wouldn’t have known what to do either

I remember two parents with a son and daughter both in hs asked me for advice to get into Stanford when I was headed home after work. I spoke for like thirty minutes and the whole time their daughter kept looking at me like a puppy and playing with her hair, shit made me uncomfortable asf.

I don't interact with other humans these days tho so hasn't happened again. Trying to adopt Jiren mentality tbh.

mirin.. I am forced to interact with humans due to the nature of my work sadly

The blackpill made me no longer care about what i'm saying. It might be awkward but the truth is girls don't give a fuck. If you look good, it won't turn them off and if you don't then why bother.

maybe ure right, but never really happened to me this way unless she was drunk. Seems like either a Blackpill fantasy or a 6+ PSL thing