I'm too mentally ill for relationships. I seem to be only good for fucking occasionally

NuclearBrainReturns

NuclearBrainReturns

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It's funny when a girl talks to me about her mental health problems not realising shes sleeping next to someone who is actually a complete screwball. It usually takes them a couple of times seeing me to realise theres something wrong and then I get dumped. Regardless how good I am in bed (very good).

Sucks.
 
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What’s exactly wrong about you?
 
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What’s exactly wrong about you?
I have issues with opening up to girls im dating which is a running theme. Current girl I was talking to said the exact same shit "hurr idk how you even feel about me you never talk about it". If I wasnt into her I wouldnt have sat at the dinner table with her, her mum and dad and had sex with her but apparantly I dont show it.
 
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hello nuclearbrain, been missing your posts
 
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hello nuclearbrain, been missing your posts
Yeah Ive been doing other shit like working and trying to reintegrate into relationships which keep failing because im fucked in the head.
 
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I have the opposite problem to a lot of guys. A lot of guys show there is something wrong about them through insecurity and being too needy, calling and texting all the time. With me its the complete opposite that I am distant and don't show them my true thoughts and feelings. I do it for a very good reason, if I were to reveal how I truly feel about the world to some girl ive only went on a couple dates with and fucked once she would run a mile because its too far off from neurotypicality. I'm not some psycho killer or something like that either, i give girls space (maybe too much space) and dont pressure ppl to do anything or make them feel guilty or whatever.

My text game is absolutely phenomenal, my sex game is impressive but my ability to form attachments is absolutely dreadful and I'm not sure how to fix it.
 
It usually takes them a couple of times seeing me to realise theres something wrong and then I get dumped.
Current girl I was talking to said the exact same shit "hurr idk how you even feel about me you never talk about it". If I wasnt into her I wouldnt have sat at the dinner table with her, her mum and dad and had sex with her but apparantly I dont show it.
u met her a couple times and wined and dinned with her parents already? Wtf bro:lul:

Unless she lives at home or something, so her maw’s like “dinner’s ready, come down”
 
u met her a couple times and wined and dinned with her parents already? Wtf bro:lul:

Unless she lives at home or something, so her maw’s like “dinner’s ready, come down”
ye we went on a first date at a nice resturant, then she invited me to her house a week later and we made dinner together at her parents house. We fucked when her parents went to sleep and she said she came 5 times and then passed out asleep. However, she woke up and we spoke and she asked me "what are we" as in what the status of the relationship is, I said "lets jsut see where it goes, there isnt any rush" and apparantly that was the wrong answer and she got upset.

Ended up trying to break up with me over text the next morning and to "just be friends" I said that I have no interest in being just friends with her and if she changes her mind to reach out to me. We spoke a bit more and she told me I don't reveal my emotions to her and all this shit. Like holy fuck we went on 2 dates. I understand fucking is a big deal and I'm not cheapening it but even so, I wouldn't say we are "dating" until the 5th date or so. Especially now shes throwing all this shit at me, I don't even know myself if I wanna date her.
 
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ye we went on a first date at a nice resturant, then she invited me to her house a week later and we made dinner together at her parents house. We fucked when her parents went to sleep and she said she came 5 times and then passed out asleep. However, she woke up and we spoke and she asked me "what are we" as in what the status of the relationship is, I said "lets jsut see where it goes, there isnt any rush" and apparantly that was the wrong answer and she got upset.

Ended up trying to break up with me over text the next morning and to "just be friends" I said that I have no interest in being just friends with her and if she changes her mind to reach out to me. We spoke a bit more and she told me I don't reveal my emotions to her and all this shit. Like holy fuck we went on 2 dates. I understand fucking is a big deal and I'm not cheapening it but even so, I wouldn't say we are "dating" until the 5th date or so. Especially now shes throwing all this shit at me, I don't even know myself if I wanna date her.
Madness lol

Tbh u responded wrongly but she’s also crazy for asking that question for meeting her 2 times wtf. Also kinda weird for her to introduce you to parents so soon, wtf..but I guess she lives with them so not much she can do…makes u wonder how many 2 dates “boyfriends” she introduces to mum & dad:lul::lul:

I met my gf’s parents after half year of dating
 
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Madness lol

Tbh u responded wrongly but she’s also crazy for asking that question for meeting her 2 times wtf. Also kinda weird for her to introduce you to parents so soon, wtf..but I guess she lives with them so not much she can do…makes u wonder how many 2 dates “boyfriends” she introduces to mum & dad:lul::lul:

I met my gf’s parents after half year of dating
It can be summed up as two nutters bumping uglies and causing emotional havoc on eachother essentially
 
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It can be summed up as two nutters bumping uglies and causing emotional havoc on eachother essentially
Imo u didn’t do much wrong tho man, it’s mainly her…it’s too early , did she expect u to drop to one knee and propose on following third date?:lul::lul:

U dodged a bullet fam
 
Imo u didn’t do much wrong tho man, it’s mainly her…it’s too early , did she expect u to drop to one knee and propose on following third date?:lul::lul:

U dodged a bullet fam
Thats what I was thinking aswell tbh. I always default that its me being a mentalcase because I usually am but maybe in this case it isn't me. She's a nice girl all things considered and I had a great time with her for the two dates we went on. :(
 
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Thats what I was thinking aswell tbh. I always default that its me being a mentalcase because I usually am but maybe in this case it isn't me. She's a nice girl all things considered and I had a great time with her for the two dates we went on. :(
It’s not you. She sounds a bit unstable if she broke things off for you saying it’s too early to tell (which it is) and going with the flow
 
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It’s not you. She sounds a bit unstable if she broke things off for you saying it’s too early to tell (which it is) and going with the flow
Heres the break up texts:
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We were gonna meet today but she said she was busy. I just said to message me when shes free and we can arrange something. I think its p much over
 
Heres the break up texts:
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We were gonna meet today but she said she was busy. I just said to message me when shes free and we can arrange something. I think its p much over
“i like my friends too and even postman”…bro this bitch is legit crazy, she wants you to say you love her:lul::lul::lul: after 2 bloody dates
I’d say move onto another girl. Even if u convince this one to go on another date, it’s only gonna get worse, she gives off borderline personality disorder vibes
 
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“i like my friends too and even postman”…bro this bitch is legit crazy, she wants you to say you love her:lul::lul::lul: after 2 bloody dates
I’d say move onto another girl. Even if u convince this one to go on another date, it’s only gonna get worse, she gives off borderline personality disorder vibes
I showed my mates the texts and they said the exact same thing. Maybe you're right. I do want to try and go on one more date so I can set the record straight with her and find out exactly what's up but after that I'll probably just cut my losses. What a shame...
 
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Women i've been in relationships with tell me that I am never the same to them. Like 1 date they feel they know me well and I am close to them, the next date I feel distant to them.

idk tbh, these whores are crazy

they want me to tell them I love them, but my first gf told me she loved me and ditched me over text 2 weeks later so just JFL @i love you shit
 
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I showed my mates the texts and they said the exact same thing. Maybe you're right. I do want to try and go on one more date so I can set the record straight with her and find out exactly what's up but after that I'll probably just cut my losses. What a shame...
She’s either borderline, inexperienced, or immature (in regards of having no concept of what loving someone is)

Fairs bro, do want feels natural for you. Tbh I’d just not invest in her at all at this stage, if she pits in the effort cool u could give it a (reluctant) shot, but probs it’s best to go on dates with other girls rn
 
Women i've been in relationships with tell me that I am never the same to them. Like 1 date they feel they know me well and I am close to them, the next date I feel distant to them.

idk tbh, these whores are crazy

they want me to tell them I love them, but my first gf told me she loved me and ditched me over text 2 weeks later so just JFL @i love you shit
Yeah exactly the same shit with me. They tell me their entire life story and all their secrets etc on the first date because I have a high trust face. Not just women do this though. I have a lot of male acquaintances that tell me shit after being at work with them for a week.

Its not a bad thing, and if there is anyone to spill their heart out too and be secure I wont spread any rumours about them its me but at the same time its tiring as fuck. Then add in them wanting me to confess my love for them after 2 dates its just way too much to deal with.

She’s either borderline, inexperienced, or immature (in regards of having no concept of what loving someone is)

Fairs bro, do want feels natural for you. Tbh I’d just not invest in her at all at this stage, if she pits in the effort cool u could give it a (reluctant) shot, but probs it’s best to go on dates with other girls rn
AFAIK shes had 2 boyfriends (3 if you include me). The first one lasted like a week, the second one lasted a year and they were gonna get married and shit but her boyfriend was really needy and shit so she broke it off.

It must be that she is so used to a guy showering her with all this neediness and then suddenly I turn up and I give her space and only text if I wanna meet up and she is angry/confused by it.
 
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AFAIK shes had 2 boyfriends (3 if you include me). The first one lasted like a week, the second one lasted a year and they were gonna get married and shit but her boyfriend was really needy and shit so she broke it off.

It must be that she is so used to a guy showering her with all this neediness and then suddenly I turn up and I give her space and only text if I wanna meet up and she is angry/confused by it.
So she had only 1 boyfriend realistically speaking, the 1 year relationship
You and the 1 week guy would fall in the “guys I’ve been with” category, not boyfriends

Ironic she broke it off with the needy boy, she sounds kinda needy herself…but idk at the same time could be emotionally closed off, she’s the one that said “lets be friends for now” after all, a needy girl would beg for u to give relationship a go

That too, maybe a sense of entitlement from her part and abundance mentality since there’s a lot of orbitors she could choose from now
 
i feel you bro

probably just mild autism, people with autism don’t express emotion which is to blame for social difficulties. in the same boat.
 
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The irony :lul:
It's an interesting story. I actually knew this girl from a while back but we were at college together. We werent friends as such but we did go to maccies one time after she helped me with some coursework.

Her boyfriend caught wind of it and wanted to size me up because he was jealous she was spending time with me. He came over to us whilst we were in the queue and started talking to me. I almost laughed irl cuz he was some 5ft 4 pakistani roider with the tiniest skull ive ever seen. He started flexing and shit because he knew even though he was more muscular than I was I could easily beat his ass but I was the calm and collected white dude just wanting a cheeseburger.

After that, I find out he drove to a jewllery store and proposed to her that night because he knew I mogged him.
 
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It's an interesting story. I actually knew this girl from a while back but we were at college together. We werent friends as such but we did go to maccies one time after she helped me with some coursework.

Her boyfriend caught wind of it and wanted to size me up because he was jealous she was spending time with me. He came over to us whilst we were in the queue and started talking to me. I almost laughed irl cuz he was some 5ft 4 pakistani roider with the tiniest skull ive ever seen. He started flexing and shit because he knew even though he was more muscular than I was I could easily beat his ass but I was the calm and collected white dude just wanting a cheeseburger.

After that, I find out he drove to a jewllery store and proposed to her that night because he knew I mogged him.
Funny GIF
 
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i feel you bro

probably just mild autism, people with autism don’t express emotion which is to blame for social difficulties. in the same boat.
See I don't think I have autism as such. I most certainly have issues opening up to people but its more because I am concerned I'm going to say something absolutely wild that I think is common knowledge/normal thinking.

I remember one time I was smoking weed with my friend and he asked me if I believed in aliens, I was high as balls so I blurted out its just as possible aliens are actually biblical angels and we live on an earth inside of a closed system and he was blown away by it. I got embarressed and faked a phone call, started getting weed-panic and went home lmao
 
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It's an interesting story. I actually knew this girl from a while back but we were at college together. We werent friends as such but we did go to maccies one time after she helped me with some coursework.

Her boyfriend caught wind of it and wanted to size me up because he was jealous she was spending time with me. He came over to us whilst we were in the queue and started talking to me. I almost laughed irl cuz he was some 5ft 4 pakistani roider with the tiniest skull ive ever seen. He started flexing and shit because he knew even though he was more muscular than I was I could easily beat his ass but I was the calm and collected white dude just wanting a cheeseburger.

After that, I find out he drove to a jewllery store and proposed to her that night because he knew I mogged him.
Tales from the flower of scotland ward

Jk bro, but that’s mad :lul: how tf u meet all those weirdos
 
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Tales from the flower of scotland ward

Jk bro, but that’s mad :lul: how tf u meet all those weirdos
its 100% true bro lmao

and idk, weird fucks seem to gravitate towards me no matter where I go ive accepted it as a fact of life now
 
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With me its the complete opposite that I am distant and don't show them my true thoughts and feelings
same tbh i screwed a possible relationship a while ago cuz the girl thought i was using her for sex but i was actually in love with her
 
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same tbh i screwed a possible relationship a while ago cuz the girl thought i was using her for sex but i was actually in love with her
I just don't want to say im in love with her when right now im actually not. And even if I was, I say that shit and whats stopping her from having a BPD switch and thinking im being needy etc just as I feel towards her right now? It's a lose-lose confessing shit like that this early on.
 
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I keep arranging dates with her and every time I send her a text after telling her I had a great time and when she's free for another one. With any normal girl that should be enough to show her that I am interested in her as a possible girlfriend but not with this one.
 
Normie probleme
Meanwhile an incel like me has never even spoken to a girl my age
 
I just don't want to say im in love with her when right now im actually not. And even if I was, I say that shit and whats stopping her from having a BPD switch and thinking im being needy etc just as I feel towards her right now? It's a lose-lose confessing shit like that this early on.
Plus if someone wants u to tell them u love them so early on there’s always something wrong with them, like 100% of the time
 
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Plus if someone wants u to tell them u love them so early on there’s always something wrong with them, like 100% of the time
My ego tells me that I gave her such good dick that she's fallen in love. My heart tells me shes a loony.
 
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I’m similar, too abused to commit to the LTB/MTB I slay off dating apps once every couple months or IRL.
 
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Mirin brag thread, read whole thing while seething
What’s ur dick size again?
 
Blessing in disguise
 
I have the opposite problem to a lot of guys. A lot of guys show there is something wrong about them through insecurity and being too needy, calling and texting all the time. With me its the complete opposite that I am distant and don't show them my true thoughts and feelings. I do it for a very good reason, if I were to reveal how I truly feel about the world to some girl ive only went on a couple dates with and fucked once she would run a mile because its too far off from neurotypicality. I'm not some psycho killer or something like that either, i give girls space (maybe too much space) and dont pressure ppl to do anything or make them feel guilty or whatever.

My text game is absolutely phenomenal, my sex game is impressive but my ability to form attachments is absolutely dreadful and I'm not sure how to fix it.
what about your text game is gso good ?
 
i dont seem to find any girl interesting tbh
 
what about your text game is gso good ?
Idk I'm just good at it. Very direct but also flirty. On text there is no room for a woman to think I just wanna be a gay best friend so they either reject me like that girl did eventually or they are into me and know where I sit.
 
It's funny when a girl talks to me about her mental health problems not realising shes sleeping next to someone who is actually a complete screwball. It usually takes them a couple of times seeing me to realise theres something wrong and then I get dumped. Regardless how good I am in bed (very good).

Sucks.
My whole life. But I will change.
 
It's funny when a girl talks to me about her mental health problems not realising shes sleeping next to someone who is actually a complete screwball. It usually takes them a couple of times seeing me to realise theres something wrong and then I get dumped. Regardless how good I am in bed (very good).

Sucks.
It sounds like your problem is that you are too much of an edgy badboy with deep philosophical thoughts

in the mood for love GIF
 

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