I’m unfit for relationship. brutal thing I experienced

[CookieGuy]

She told me that she was highly attracted to me physically and thought I was cute. However, she didn’t view me at all in a romantic sense, because I was rude, avoidant, and treated her like dirt.

This is brutal. Personality might actually matter for relationships

Looks will help with slaying. But if you can’t treat someone right or be Non NT. Don’t even think about getting into a relationship

I blocked her and now I’m depressed

 

[CookieGuy]

Bump

 

[CookieGuy]

Bump

 

[Darkeningstar]

Welcome, you'll get used to it even if it would be better not to.

 

[CookieGuy]

Welcome, you'll get used to it even if it would be better not to.

Wdym?

 

[Darkeningstar]

Wdym?

When the girl you are engaged to finds out that you are a misfit, be it because of low social value or otherwise there is little you can do. I can't sustain neurotypical things for long, so even masking is of little use.

 

[CookieGuy]

When the girl you are engaged to finds out that you are a misfit, be it because of low social value or otherwise there is little you can do. I can't sustain neurotypical things for long, so even masking is of little use.

I don’t even know if this experience was a bIackpill. She had wanted to be my friend in the first place because she thought I was good looking, even told her other friends. But damn. No romantic connection.

Also what’s the term for “liking someone romantically and physically” and “liking someone physically but not romantically”

 

[CookieGuy]

When the girl you are engaged to finds out that you are a misfit, be it because of low social value or otherwise there is little you can do. I can't sustain neurotypical things for long, so even masking is of little use.

also jeez I just noticed I wasn’t followed to you; I assumed I did. Now I am

 

[LurkMaxxer]

I came into this conclusion as well, I had some girls interested in how I look but the moment we start talking, I can sense them losing interest slowly. This site always over emphasize the power of looks, I guess it's also my fault for believing everything but personally I think NT is way more important, I have seen time and time again guys that look much worse than me get girls just cause they have "rizz". (I know this is water for some but to other's it's not)

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You aren’t attractive enough then to offset your autism

 

[CookieGuy]

You aren’t attractive enough then to offset your autism

You need to be like High Chadlite to do that not even an exaggeration

 

[CookieGuy]

You aren’t attractive enough then to offset your autism

That’s unlocked at Chadlite. MTN and HTN can’t do that.

 

[CookieGuy]

I came into this conclusion as well, I had some girls interested in how I look but the moment we start talking, I can sense them losing interest slowly. This site always over emphasize the power of looks, I guess it's also my fault for believing everything but personally I think NT is way more important, I have seen time and time again guys that look much worse than me get girls just cause they have "rizz". (I know this is water for some but to other's it's not)

Yeah. I’m sorry that happened to you tho.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need to be like High Chadlite to do that not even an exaggeration

You just need to learn the basics of seduction you’ll be fine

 

[Krisis]

I blocked her and now I’m depressed

Why would you block her if you were the one who mistreated her? Was it purely on impulse?

It doesn't matter how fucked you may think you are mentally; even if you're a bitter, disagreeable person that nobody wants to be around, there's still hope for you to connect with others, to find love--if and only if you're willing to change and accept your flaws. You don't have to hate yourself; just be honest with yourself.