Jonas2k7
🦅Minister of the New Birds🦅
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It makes me sad to see how people completely changed their opinions only because of my glow up. So that's really rightTruth be told there isn't much I can say. The problem is if you grow up an abused dog and you only recently had a glow-up, you will have an urge to slay a bunch of women and not want a LTR.
This really is high iq, humans are creatures that always crave for the unknown and for things they don't haveIf you get in a LTR now and miss out on all the possible slays, you might regret it later on in life because you could've gotten more experience with women.
However..
If you ignore this 8/10 (in your opinion) virgin you might regret it later on because you may think that slaying isn't really worth it & might think that LTR are better. It's a problem because you only get this change of mind after you slay a lot. If you don't slay a lot, you will place more importance on slaying than having a LTR.
I really appreciate this section of your response, it just makes sense. I sometimes tell myself that cheating a woman is not bad because of muh blackpill, but they really aren't at fault. The blackpill is basically how nature (or god) made us be. Earlier in my life I would have said that moral is just a concept to keep humans in line, but now I'd say that moral is a really good feature of us humans.Whatever decision you make here, you will most likely end up with regrets later down the line. All you can do is try to not be a bastard and lie to women and cheat on them. Most people here will probably tell you to get in a relationship with the virgin and then just cheat, but this obviously won't work if you all go to the same school together & on top of that, you will just feel like a scumbag for cheating (or at least you should if you have morals)
I hope this won't happen to me, I really feels this "urge" to talk to other women to feel the validation too. I'm sad for your loss broMy biggest regret in life is losing the love of my life because I was insecure and needed to talk to women to still feel like I had the options. I grew up ugly and that ugly mindset never really left my head for the longest time. I was in a relationship with a beautiful girl 2 years ago who was the love of my life, but I screwed it up because I wanted to talk to other women. Turns out, it's all a mental issue. If you don't feel like you can stay loyal to the 8/10 then don't enter a relationship with her and just talk to the other women. Just don't end up regretting it and feeling like you missed out on a potential opportunity to be with a girl you might love.
I think this makes the most sense to do in my situation, thank youAlthough with all that being said, I don't think relationships really last when you're that young. The chances are you both will move/go to different schools eventually and won't see each other as much, and the relationship will fail. If I was in your position, I probably wouldn't choose one or the other and I'd talk to all of them, but not lie and try to keep one in a relationship while still talking to other women.
read every molecule + mirin your wisdomI hope this all made sense. I'll give a TLDR down below.
TLDR: You don't have enough experience/confidence in yourself to maintain a LTR this young. Experience different women now while you're young so you won't be feeling like you missed out and won't want to cheat on the woman you end up in a LTR with when you're older (which is when you're more likely to make the relationship last - relationships don't last when you're in your teenage years even if she feels like she could be the one)
Thanks for your response!