In addition to the incel vs volcel debate, there's also inloner (involuntarily a loner) vs vol-loner (voluntarily a loner)

[BadLuck7892]

Celibacy refers to dating/sex.

When I say  loner, on the other hand, I'm talking about friendship.

I'm a vol-loner.

Many have attempted to be a friend to me. Yet I prefer solitude/I prefer my own company.

Is anyone else a vol-loner?

 

[134applesauce456]

im both

i prefer my own company but at the same time its involuntary because im ND and have never fit in with my peers

 

[BadLuck7892]

im both

i prefer my own company but at the same time its involuntary because im ND and have never fit in with my peers

I couldn't have as big of a social circle as easily as normies can.

Yet I could at least have more of a social life than I do now if it weren't for the fact I'm a misanthrope who prefers my own company