In ND hell

[monecel]

I've been thinking about my own behavior and interests and it's not hard to see that I am neurodivergent. I don't go out, I have only a few friends, I'm not interested in drinking or going out at all. On the other hand I'm very creative in my interests, I am interested in philosophy, high arts or forms of arts, neuroscience, enhancing the human body etc. Basically all of my interests are either niche or too complex to try to explain to someone not exposed to it before. It is really to the level where when I have a consversation with someone I'm not sure what to discuss that is not too far away from what they can relate to but maybe it's just not possible unless I changed my hobbies or interests. But then I don't want to be fake. I am for sure more intelligent than most in my specific interests but in other ways I'm retarded.

Maybe my saving grace will be a ND foid but a real ND foid that hasn't changed her gender 50 times or who isn't faking it for attention is difficult. I will still improve my looks and will mog as I fix my jaw etc. but I will always have the aspect of being divergent so that will always be there. I'm also slightly schizo so there's that.

Probably some people that can relate here. When guys mog enough, women ignore some traits as quirks and maybe that is the strat. Anyhow I'll keep on chudding along.

 

[Endoplasmic82]

Stop self diagnosing, as much as I am a blackpiller, confidence is actually key (assuming you look good), and by reiterating these things you will have this imagine of yourself that will keep on weighing you down further and further.

If you haven’t been medically diagnosed, you aren’t ND (you still could be).

 

[monecel]

Stop self diagnosing, as much as I am a blackpiller, confidence is actually key (assuming you look good), and by reiterating these things you will have this imagine of yourself that will keep on weighing you down further and further.

If you haven’t been medically diagnosed, you aren’t ND (you still could be).

It doesn't weigh me down, it's just something I have to navigate through.

 

[Endoplasmic82]

It doesn't weigh me down, it's just something I have to navigate through.

Well it clearly is, if you’ll wrote a whole post dedicated to it.

And that’s okay, we’re all here for one reason or another. Just stop self diagnosing.

 

[Whiteboard7]

I've been thinking about my own behavior and interests and it's not hard to see that I am neurodivergent. I don't go out, I have only a few friends, I'm not interested in drinking or going out at all. On the other hand I'm very creative in my interests, I am interested in philosophy, high arts or forms of arts, neuroscience, enhancing the human body etc. Basically all of my interests are either niche or too complex to try to explain to someone not exposed to it before. It is really to the level where when I have a consversation with someone I'm not sure what to discuss that is not too far away from what they can relate to but maybe it's just not possible unless I changed my hobbies or interests. But then I don't want to be fake. I am for sure more intelligent than most in my specific interests but in other ways I'm retarded.

Maybe my saving grace will be a ND foid but a real ND foid that hasn't changed her gender 50 times or who isn't faking it for attention is difficult. I will still improve my looks and will mog as I fix my jaw etc. but I will always have the aspect of being divergent so that will always be there. I'm also slightly schizo so there's that.

Probably some people that can relate here. When guys mog enough, women ignore some traits as quirks and maybe that is the strat. Anyhow I'll keep on chudding along.

That is the strat to mog hard enough to have your weaknesses be negated in your dating life. For me I view being ND as a blessing and both a curse in some ways. What can you though, you know.

 

[monecel]

That is the strat to mog hard enough to have your weaknesses be negated in your dating life. For me I view being ND as a blessing and both a curse in some ways. What can you though, you know.

Maybe just become the ND while mogging to have girls be in the "when he's weird but hot" category. Girls dislike men who's lives resolve around purely "masculine" or functional activities. When have you seen most guys post aesthetics?

 

[Whiteboard7]

Maybe just become the ND while mogging to have girls be in the "when he's weird but hot" category. Girls dislike men who's lives resolve around purely "masculine" or functional activities. When have you seen most guys post aesthetics?

Thats true, have you seen girls say I want nerds and its just a attractive guy with glasses. That's fair you have to make it seem nonchalant, just say you do some calisthenics when you workout, ect.

 

[unovasub4]

I've been thinking about my own behavior and interests and it's not hard to see that I am neurodivergent

immediately tuned out when i read this. you're not diagnosed so stop larping. really possible you're just high inhib/socially retarded.

a real ND foid that hasn't changed her gender 50 times or who isn't faking it for attention

also, you seem super judgmental for someone who wants a girl. unless you're chad you won't get away with getting a girl if you're stuck in your teenage edgy phase still. grow up

 

[whitecelcoper]

Stop self diagnosing if yuo were nd yuo would've gotten diagnosed

 

[monecel]

Stop self diagnosing if yuo were nd yuo would've gotten diagnosed

I have reasons for not wanting the government to know my flaws

 

[whitecelcoper]

I have reasons for not wanting the government to know my flaws

I'm talking about getting diagnosed as a child. I got diagnosed at 7 and most people who don't are either really high functioning or are not nd.