In need of approaching advice (open if you have approach experience)

[enchanted_elixir]

One of the few women who I suspect to in my class to have a crush on me or consider me attractive this semester, she has been giving me the largest smiles and I caught her staring at me in my peripheral vision.

I might take one more day scouting and verifying if the interest is real on her end, but I'm very confident it is.
If I ever decide to pull the trigger, my autistic ass will need help

Anyway, so the seating arrangement is as follows

i am the indigo seat, she is the pink seat. So, I walk past her if I get there after her.

If I ever decide to talk to her... but the thing is on Tuesday, the entire class has lab in 10 minutes, not on thursday though, so everyone leaves for wherever.

So, here's the thing.


I do not know what I could say to her without sounding autistic.
Also, her lab partner sits next to her in class and outside the lab room, so consider that, she could cockblock me.

I was going to ask her to remind me what her name was but that would be weird I guess and then i have to wait outside the lab room in 5 minutes after asking such a stupid question just for us to make eye contact again.... awkward anad would lower my smv probably.

I could also maybe try to see if I could catch her on the way to class, but that's stalking,

could talk to her in the lab room but again, her lab partner..

and idk what to say to her or what to ask of her if i wanted to move things firther

I'm too autistic for this...

 

[cooIguy]

text her then

 

[enchanted_elixir]

text her then

On what, Canvas?
I don't even know her name, i forgot lol

 

[iblamejordan1]

One of the few women who I suspect to in my class to have a crush on me or consider me attractive this semester, she has been giving me the largest smiles and I caught her staring at me in my peripheral vision.

I might take one more day scouting and verifying if the interest is real on her end, but I'm very confident it is.
If I ever decide to pull the trigger, my autistic ass will need help

Anyway, so the seating arrangement is as follows



View attachment 5589938

i am the indigo seat, she is the pink seat. So, I walk past her if I get there after her.

If I ever decide to talk to her... but the thing is on Tuesday, the entire class has lab in 10 minutes, not on thursday though, so everyone leaves for wherever.

So, here's the thing.


I do not know what I could say to her without sounding autistic.
Also, her lab partner sits next to her in class and outside the lab room, so consider that, she could cockblock me.

I was going to ask her to remind me what her name was but that would be weird I guess and then i have to wait outside the lab room in 5 minutes after asking such a stupid question just for us to make eye contact again.... awkward anad would lower my smv probably.

I could also maybe try to see if I could catch her on the way to class, but that's stalking,

could talk to her in the lab room but again, her lab partner..

and idk what to say to her or what to ask of her if i wanted to move things firther

I'm too autistic for this...

Sorry idk again

 

[occitipal]

One of the few women who I suspect to in my class to have a crush on me or consider me attractive this semester, she has been giving me the largest smiles and I caught her staring at me in my peripheral vision.

I might take one more day scouting and verifying if the interest is real on her end, but I'm very confident it is.
If I ever decide to pull the trigger, my autistic ass will need help

Anyway, so the seating arrangement is as follows



View attachment 5589938

i am the indigo seat, she is the pink seat. So, I walk past her if I get there after her.

If I ever decide to talk to her... but the thing is on Tuesday, the entire class has lab in 10 minutes, not on thursday though, so everyone leaves for wherever.

So, here's the thing.


I do not know what I could say to her without sounding autistic.
Also, her lab partner sits next to her in class and outside the lab room, so consider that, she could cockblock me.

I was going to ask her to remind me what her name was but that would be weird I guess and then i have to wait outside the lab room in 5 minutes after asking such a stupid question just for us to make eye contact again.... awkward anad would lower my smv probably.

I could also maybe try to see if I could catch her on the way to class, but that's stalking,

could talk to her in the lab room but again, her lab partner..

and idk what to say to her or what to ask of her if i wanted to move things firther

I'm too autistic for this...

Ask her if she wants to grab coffee after class. Not like a dat just a simple time alone. Don’t forget pregab and you will be good

 

[mangotimer]

Dam

 

[Mogmo]

One of the few women who I suspect to in my class to have a crush on me or consider me attractive this semester, she has been giving me the largest smiles and I caught her staring at me in my peripheral vision.

I might take one more day scouting and verifying if the interest is real on her end, but I'm very confident it is.
If I ever decide to pull the trigger, my autistic ass will need help

Anyway, so the seating arrangement is as follows



View attachment 5589938

i am the indigo seat, she is the pink seat. So, I walk past her if I get there after her.

If I ever decide to talk to her... but the thing is on Tuesday, the entire class has lab in 10 minutes, not on thursday though, so everyone leaves for wherever.

So, here's the thing.


I do not know what I could say to her without sounding autistic.
Also, her lab partner sits next to her in class and outside the lab room, so consider that, she could cockblock me.

I was going to ask her to remind me what her name was but that would be weird I guess and then i have to wait outside the lab room in 5 minutes after asking such a stupid question just for us to make eye contact again.... awkward anad would lower my smv probably.

I could also maybe try to see if I could catch her on the way to class, but that's stalking,

could talk to her in the lab room but again, her lab partner..

and idk what to say to her or what to ask of her if i wanted to move things firther

I'm too autistic for this...

just say hi and talk to her about a project then try and get her number or snap

 

[Kahoas]

just try to find her ig and go from there in college every1 is connected won’t be hard

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Ask her if she wants to grab coffee after class. Not like a dat just a simple time alone. Don’t forget pregab and you will be good

hmmm...

my simulation ---
has to be thursday since lab is 3 hours, and right after class so that won't be possible

after class

in front of her lab partner (a woman)

me, somewhat anxious...
hi, what's your name -
-- her: gives name, smiles (We introduced ourselves 2 weeks earlier lol) ---
me: want to get coffee after class?
her: response: [insert here]

lab partner witnesses all of this...

is that what you're intending?

 

[enchanted_elixir]

just try to find her ig and go from there in college every1 is connected won’t be hard

I don't have social media.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

just try to find her ig and go from there in college every1 is connected won’t be hard

I don't even know her name...

actually i have her name down to 2 probabilities, i can download it and see if she's on there by searching both names and seeing if they match.

 

[Kahoas]

I don't have social media.

Then if she asks for your ig or snap you’re basically cooked no one asked for numbers nowadays, yk how autistic you sound when she asks for your ig and you gotta tell her you don’t have social media, instant turn off

 

[enchanted_elixir]

just say hi and talk to her about a project then try and get her number or snap

Do you think I should do this in front of her lab partner? If I have to approach in class or the lab waiting room there's likely no isolated time alone, only if i catch her before class, but that's like stalking.

 

[Kahoas]

I don't even know her name...

actually i have her name down to 2 probabilities, i can download it and see if she's on there by searching both names and seeing if they match.

Yea do that

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Then if she asks for your ig or snap you’re basically cooked no one asked for numbers nowadays, yk how autistic you sound when she asks for your ig and you gotta tell her you don’t have social media, instant turn off

She will forgive me, this chick smiles so hard at me jfl it screams "PLEASSSSE LIKE ME OMG PLEASE LIKE ME!!!" and i catch her staring.

Chad is forgiven, always.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Dam

???

 

[occitipal]

hmmm...

my simulation ---
has to be thursday since lab is 3 hours, and right after class so that won't be possible

after class

in front of her lab partner (a woman)

me, somewhat anxious...
hi, what's your name -
-- her: gives name, smiles (We introduced ourselves 2 weeks earlier lol) ---
me: want to get coffee after class?
her: response: [insert here]

lab partner witnesses all of this...

is that what you're intending?

her lab partner being a female is comforting. But you shouldn’t openly ask for a date in front of another bitch. If you already introduced yourselves just say something like ‘hey can you remind me your name?’. Then say okay [her name] wanna do blah blah after the lab. Tag me if you have an update nigga

 

[Kahoas]

She will forgive me, this chick smiles so hard at me jfl it screams "PLEASSSSE LIKE ME OMG PLEASE LIKE ME!!!" and i catch her staring.

Chad is forgiven, always.

True it might boost your status if she truly likes you, depends on the person really I’d say just catch her off guard maybe find out if you have any same interests that could be a conversation starter

 

[enchanted_elixir]

her lab partner being a female is comforting. But you shouldn’t openly ask for a date in front of another bitch. If you already introduced yourselves just say something like ‘hey can you remind me your name?’. Then say okay [her name] wanna do blah blah after the lab. Tag me if you have an update nigga

the only interaction i have had with her is reciprocating the smiles she has given me, so anything I say to her will be a new conversation and will likely have to be in front of her lab partner.

 

[Mogmo]

Do you think I should do this in front of her lab partner? If I have to approach in class or the lab waiting room there's likely no isolated time alone, only if i catch her before class, but that's like stalking.

you could do it either way but it would be better to do it at the start of class or end when she is alone

 

[enchanted_elixir]

you could do it either way but it would be better to do it at the start of class or end when she is alone

She won't be alone unless her lab partner is absent or I catch her walking to class or serendipitously catch her alone on campus.

 

[Mogmo]

She won't be alone unless her lab partner is absent or I catch her walking to class or serendipitously catch her alone on campus.

well if there isn't any other way you have to do it when she is with her lab partner, or you could ask a friend of yours to talk to the lab partner while you talk to her

 

[Seven]

i've never approached a female

got approached by females many times
and didn't knew what to do

 

[enchanted_elixir]

i've never approached a female

got approached by females many times
and didn't knew what to do

I have been approached too. Same experience here, I just go with the flow.

well if there isn't any other way you have to do it when she is with her lab partner, or you could ask a friend of yours to talk to the lab partner while you talk to her

Don't have friends, complete loner.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Yea do that

Found her and her classmate online, lol she has no social media but I found photos of her online brutallllllllll meta AI did that for me too. Damn that is brutal.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Yea do that

AI just sniped that chick for me just ask meta ai and its like a people search engine. still in shock jfl

 

[Mogmo]

I have been approached too. Same experience here, I just go with the flow.

Don't have friends, complete loner.

then you just have to do it with her lab partner next to her

 

[Mogger]

when you see her somewehere else ask ”aren’t you that girl from my class”

 

[enchanted_elixir]

True it might boost your status if she truly likes you, depends on the person really I’d say just catch her off guard maybe find out if you have any same interests that could be a conversation starter

I know her name now. Found her picture. She doesn't have social media. Confirmed by my online research.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

when you see her somewehere else ask ”aren’t you that girl from my class”

Idk, because in my head I'd say of course she's that girl from my class.
sounds silly to ask, but now that I know her name i guess i can move on.

 

[Mogger]

Idk, because in my head I'd say of course she's that girl from my class.
sounds silly to ask, but now that I know her name i guess i can move on.

So you just wanted to know her name and not anything else?

 

[Seven]

I have been approached too. Same experience here, I just go with the flow.

Don't have friends, complete loner.

gotta NTmax

 

[enchanted_elixir]

So you just wanted to know her name and not anything else?

I wanted to know her name so I don't have to say 'ma'am" and confuse all the chicks in the class because nobody know who i am addressing, if I get around to talking to her.

 

[Mogger]

I wanted to know her name so I don't have to say 'ma'am" and confuse all the chicks in the class because nobody know who i am addressing, if I get around to talking to her.

Oh yea, good luck with talking to her if you decide to do so