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sza5053
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Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.
Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.
After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:
Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.
Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.
Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.
Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.
The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.
General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.
If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.
Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.
After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:
Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.
Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.
Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.
Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.
The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.
General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.
If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.
