In need of salvation

[sza5053]

Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.

Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.

After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:


Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.

Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.

Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.

Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.

The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.

General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.


If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.

 

[BR32]

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[sza5053]

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Immense fear of posting myself anywhere unfortunately, plus nearly certain if I post myself I'll be told 'its over' which isn't a mindset I'm trying to affirm. Would love some general advice on the mentioned topics, and what might've helped you etc

 

[BR32]

Immense fear of posting myself anywhere unfortunately, plus nearly certain if I post myself I'll be told 'its over' which isn't a mindset I'm trying to affirm. Would love some general advice on the mentioned topics, and what might've helped you etc

Fair enough, I’m at a thing w my family rn but can respond in depth to any questions in about 2-3 hours.

You’re gonna be ok

 

[Ultramental]

ill only give u advice on the weight
based on your description you are skinny fat
only way to get out of this is to bulk and build some muscle(even if it means adding more fat) and then cutting
In theory your weight is fine for your height but your lack of muscle make u look bad,so losing weight is gonna make u look propably worse

 

[sza5053]

ill only give u advice on the weight
based on your description you are skinny fat
only way to get out of this is to bulk and build some muscle(even if it means adding more fat) and then cutting
In theory your weight is fine for your height but your lack of muscle make u look bad,so losing weight is gonna make u look propably worse

I was unsure whether or not I should bulk at all considering my situation and was going to starve myself for a while instead, I'll note that down, thanks a lot.

 

[sza5053]

Fair enough, I’m at a thing w my family rn but can respond in depth to any questions in about 2-3 hours.

You’re gonna be ok

Answer if and whenever you feel like, no worries

 

[BR32]

Answer if and whenever you feel like, no worries

Ready now sorry for the delay

 

[maksimovich]

Immense fear of posting myself anywhere unfortunately, plus nearly certain if I post myself I'll be told 'its over' which isn't a mindset I'm trying to affirm. Would love some general advice on the mentioned topics, and what might've helped you etc

Yea people on here lack sympathy sometimes i'm sorry about that brother

 

[BR32]

To start nasiolabal folds can be dealt with by dermal fillers or fat grafting, retinoids could work but are not as effective and take longer.

Hop on accutane for your skin its the gold standard.

To correct a deviated septum you need septoplasty however if you have a recessed jaw you might also be a candidate for a bimax which would ascend you dramatically.

Your body is the easiest thing to fix, if you can hop on reta but if you can't just focus on eating Whole Foods, .7g of protein/lb of bodyweight. Calculate your TDEE (Total daily energy expenditure) and eat about 300-500 calorie less than that. I'm a fan of not eating until to about 4-5 pm when I'm cutting, you can control you hunger hormones,

To fix jaw get a consult with a maxillofacial surgeon and get imaging done you are a probably a candidate for a bimax as you have a recessed jaw, breathing issues, and a deviate septum.

Asymmetry will probably be corrects by bimax but you can train facial muscles or get botox to relax them.

DM me fo further questions especially about the utilization of pharmacology.

 

[salt_muncher]

Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.

Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.

After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:


Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.

Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.

Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.

Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.

The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.

General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.


If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.

If your white especially, geomax to Russia or a country where everyone is uglier and more forgiving for ugliness, or lose weight fix diet and GYM, also learn about orthodoxy Christianity and believe , it will add real purpose to your life. Hope everything gets better for you, you can do it, becoming better is making the good decisions every day

 

[ICL]

If your white especially, geomax to Russia or a country where everyone is uglier and more forgiving for ugliness, or lose weight fix diet and GYM, also learn about orthodoxy Christianity and believe , it will add real purpose to your life. Hope everything gets better for you, you can do it, becoming better is making the good decisions every day

yea dude geomaxx to russia and then you see a russian stacy and just ponder how you will never feel the grace of them, that is suifuel.

 

[ICL]

Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.

Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.

After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:


Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.

Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.

Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.

Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.

The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.

General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.


If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.

Maybe hop on pharmacology, retatrutide is very good for losing weight, but before, you need to turn your fat into muscle, so research sarms, they dont fuck you up like steroids, but really good for muscle mass.

 

[salt_muncher]

yea dude geomaxx to russia and then you see a russian stacy and just ponder how you will never feel the grace of them, that is suifuel.

I wouldn’t even think of Stacy I tend to go for ltb or sub 5 because they are more willing to listen to what you tell them to do, but I don’t have much experience obviously

 

[ICL]

ltb or sub 5

i'd think the opposite way, ltb is more bitter, htbs and anyone higher than mmtb in general is more reserved

wouldn’t even think of Stacy

what i meant is that you are just walking on the sidewalk trying to get to work. Then you bump into a woman and she says sorry and quickly goes, but in that 1 second you see the most precious face on the planet for a few seconds, and realize you are nowhere close to even getting to her. True suifuel.

 

[salt_muncher]

what i meant is that you are just walking on the sidewalk trying to get to work. Then you bump into a woman and she says sorry and quickly goes, but in that 1 second you see the most precious face on the planet for a few seconds, and realize you are nowhere close to even getting to her. True suifuel.

I wouldn’t even care about not getting a Stacy, it would be like seeing a Ferrari, I wouldn’t be jealous because I’m so far away from getting it, I would be content with a sub 5 that is not a bitch

 

[rhin0]

I would be content with a sub 5 that is not a bitch

as long as she's not genuinely a threat to my bloodline (deformations), looks decent, and IS decent, that's all that really matters

 

[salt_muncher]

as long as she's not genuinely a threat to my bloodline (deformations), looks decent, and IS decent, that's all that really matters

Fr, and preferably 5’7 and above just so my kids don’t have to worry about hight but that’s unrealistic

 

[iwantochange]

Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.

Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.

After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:


Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.

Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.

Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.

Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.

The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.

General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.


If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.

wanted to say dnr but read a bit and im sorry, life do get better looks are a really big part from it but its ok, how old are you? if you are still growing bones might change a bit and grow, and gym really helps with your appeal and giving you some type of halo
and you can get you deviated septum fixed for really really cheap at the doctor cuz it cosidered a medical problem , if you want me to tell you what you can do to change and improve im here for you
i really wanted to be toxic but i feel bad

 

[C - M]

Considering this is my first post, I have thin hopes for any kindness in the replies; but I really need help.

Similar to the grand majority of people here I've been bullied for my appearance by acquaintances in school, and unfortunately my friends and family too. Naturally I've grown to be immensely anxious, with a very low self esteem that only seems to be getting worse. I can't kill myself because my mother is alive, and I don't want her to be sad.

After a bit of research, I've laid out some of the fatal flaws that seem to be holding me back from being perceived as a person:


Prominent nasolabial folds
I'm not certain if their prominence is a result of a higher body fat than optimal, but they were present when I was underweight as well. Would appreciate any help on trying to minimize their appearance, currently I'm attempting retinol.

Terrible skin
Pimples are rare, but during puberty they were much more prominent; and I was forced into popping a few that left scars along my face. Most notably around my nose, currently trying retinol. There's a few red spots, and dark spots, it's a fiesta really.

Deviated septum
I have a deviated septum that not only prohibits me from breathing, but diminishes any hopes of my face being appealing. I also have genetically poor eyesight, so I wear glasses that seem to pronounce the nose.

Fat fucking chud body (181cms tall, 80Kgs)
My apologies to anyone here struggling with height that might roll their eyes seeing someone taller complain, but my height, combined with my weight and fat distribution genetics; doesn't give me anything to brag about. Most of the fat is stored in my belly, and hips; and I don't even know if It's achievable for me to pursuit an aesthetic, lean body considering the presence of 'love handles' to my silhouette. Would love some feedback on what to do with that.

The jaw
Considering my nasal was severely limited during my development, I spent most of it breathing through my mouth; which led to a somewhat undeveloped, ugly jaw. I've given up hopes on seeing any significant improvements here, but I'd love to know if working out and the gym will actually help or is it just cope. I was also told mewing is mostly cope, but I do it nonetheless and have seen some minor progress over the last year.

General asymmetry
Would love any help on correcting my facial symmetry, I've slept on my back my whole life but still find myself with a very uneven face.


If anything, I'd love to know whether or not the gym and skincare can really fix me or if I'm just missing something crucial, maybe link me some threads that are guaranteed to help. My hair is apparently fine, and is the only thing I ever get complimented on. Thank you to anyone who's put in the time to read this, have a lovely day/night.

ay bro don’t rope, even tho looks matter they ain’t everything, there’s infinite ways to ascend none to get your life back, it’s not worth it