Incel trait: your parents never cared about properly socializing you

[Latinus]

As long as you were not doing bad things outside, they were ok with you being a social outcast.

That's one of the worst things that can happen to a kid/teen, they should focuse on having a good social life, friends, just as much as getting good grades at school.

The problem is that many parents have this dumb dicotomy: outgoing kid doing shit things outside vs non outgoing kid that, while not having a social life, "at least aren't giving their parents a bad name".

A balanced life is ideal, why is hard for them to understand?

Tons of kids have social lifes, while still being decent citizens and good students.

 

[Autismcel]

More like an overly anxious protecting parent trait

 

[gr34ter]

my parents only care about my grades and only my health when it affects them, never really gave a fuck to help me

 

[cashmerefraud]

honestly atp u gotta keep pushing limits til they accept it

 

[longjohnmong]

True incel trait is your parents actively asocialized you.

 

[Latinus]

True incel trait is your parents actively asocialized you.

You mean, they sabotaged you?

 

[longjohnmong]

You mean, they sabotaged you?

Yeah. They did everything in their power to make sure I didn't fit in.