or something.. (we were getting along very well by then), but I turned her down because I knew my lack of experience and maturity would sooner or later lead to us breaking up, and I suggested that we should wait until 8th grade because we were too young (she just wanted to experience with me hugs, romance, hand holding, dates, kisses, etc.) while I dreamed of how we would be together for life and she would be my wife and shit 
what if you weren't an incel but now are struggling at 28 yo ?? what value do past experience bring to the present??You're only 21. That's the age you're supposed to go out on romantic dates and fuck everything that moves
You're too inexperienced for a serious, long-term relationship. You have to start from somewhere. You have to go out, meet girls, listen to them, understand them, touch them, kiss them, have sex, etc. even if a week later you break up for whatever shitty reason. From that point you'll just start again, but more mature, more confident, more experienced, etc.
This is how you evolve as a human being, as a person, and as a future partner for a relationship in the future as you imagined it. Nothing feels worse in this world than finding the right person, but disappointing & losing them because of your lack of experience (the romantic, connection, interactive, sexual ones, etc.).
To wait until you're ''ready'' financially & have a car & house & a stable job etc. it's just suicide
Fuck today so she can dump you tomorrow, rather than not knowing to fuck tomorrow and dump you bc of this
Be happy because it happened, not because it's over.
Act today, time is your biggest enemy. At 21 you're still fine. At 25 the nightmare really begins. Over 30 it becomes mental illness, and by 40, unless you have some schizophrenia or autism to keep you alive, you'll probably suic..
I remember when I turned down my 5th grade crush, who even she came to me with the proposal that we should be lovers
Obviously by 8th grade, she already had like 2-3 relationships, depression, changed a lot, matured a lot, so I had no hope for her, and we were already different people
What a bunch of bs. What connections do have a random HTN After uni? Uni Is not the right Place to find a ltr, people come from all corners of the country and once Is finished all move apart, and most likely start from 0 in a new city.
I’m 25 and my soul is crushed I have no spirit I just wanna die now
Damn man how does it feel
You dont get it. Even if you get laid your personality and post traumas never go away.
You will have a sad realization soon.
I've been sad about it since 17 tho bro. but idk im ok rn
Yeah thats the age i started to fee depressed. Also copes like anime and video games werent enjoyable anymore
go the the club
Legit srs, alcohol is an autists biggest friend
water
readn'tYou're only 21. That's the age you're supposed to go out on romantic dates and fuck everything that moves
You're too inexperienced for a serious, long-term relationship. You have to start from somewhere. You have to go out, meet girls, listen to them, understand them, touch them, kiss them, have sex, etc. even if a week later you break up for whatever shitty reason. From that point you'll just start again, but more mature, more confident, more experienced, etc.
This is how you evolve as a human being, as a person, and as a future partner for a relationship in the future as you imagined it. Nothing feels worse in this world than finding the right person, but disappointing & losing them because of your lack of experience (the romantic, connection, interactive, sexual ones, etc.).
To wait until you're ''ready'' financially & have a car & house & a stable job etc. it's just suicide
Fuck today so she can dump you tomorrow, rather than not knowing to fuck tomorrow and dump you bc of this
Be happy because it happened, not because it's over.
Act today, time is your biggest enemy. At 21 you're still fine. At 25 the nightmare really begins. Over 30 it becomes mental illness, and by 40, unless you have some schizophrenia or autism to keep you alive, you'll probably suic..
I remember when I turned down my 5th grade crush, who even she came to me with the proposal that we should be lovers
Obviously by 8th grade, she already had like 2-3 relationships, depression, changed a lot, matured a lot, so I had no hope for her, and we were already different people
