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The "personality pill" is one of the most heavily debated topics within the manoshpere.
Does personality matter
... or does it not ...
Regardless of what your stance is on the topic, chances are you've probably seen many examples of men who commit crimes, beat up women and do other unsightly things yet are successful with women used as proof that personality does not matter, but many of these examples are flawed because they reduce personality down to being "nice," when that couldn't be any further from the truth.
If there is one thing that you should take away from this thread, it's this:
Personality =/= Being Nice
I said it once, and I am going to say it again because it's so very important.
Personality =/= Being Nice
Desirable personalities are not nice personalities, and nice personalities certainly aren't personalities that will spark interest, desire and arousal.
If you need proof of this, look no further than the 2016 American presidential election.
Joe Biden portrayed himself as a nice person. He would do whatever he could to stay in people's good graces and made sure to keep his public record squeaky clean.
Ignoring the terrible shit he's done, if one looked just at how he presents himself, how he speaks and his public actions, one would be of the opinion that he was a decent guy.
I've personally seen some of his speeches, and I can confirm, he's absolutely radiating "decent guy" energy...
And he is completely boring.
Once you gather that he is a "decent guy," there is nothing else to know about Joe Biden...
You already know exactly how he's going to conduct himself, how he's going to react, act and speak, and you are going to be completely bored to death...
Now what about his opponent?
The ever so hated, Donald Trump.
Trump was the complete opposite of Joe Biden, and that became his greatest strength as he didn't succumb to Joe's "Decent Guy" syndrome..
He was flamboyant, crude, and conducted himself in a manner which no decent person would, but he was charismatic, funny, and his speeches had an intense energy about them that would rally up thousands of people to act
Yes, he was a nasty person, but he was inspiring, he was witty, he was entertaining, and he knew how to put on a good show for the audience.
Watching one of Joe's speeches one could fall asleep, but listening to the ramblings of this "nasty man" Trump was exciting, and a far more enjoyable experience..
Like I said before, Personality =/= Being Nice.
"Personality" is being able to elicit powerful emotions from people. It's being able to inspire feeling.
Without emotions, nothing has meaning.
What people take away from an interaction is not it's contents, but the emotions that they felt.
Think of any random conversation you enjoyed from a while ago.
Maybe you don't remember word for word what the other person said, but you remember that you had fun. You remember that you enjoyed yourself, you remember that it was exciting
Imagine talking to a stereotypical "good guy" who incels are so enamoured with.
Who cares that he's a family man? Who cares that he's a hard worker? Who cares that he's respectful?
He has no flavour.
He doesn't make you feel anything, so he's forgettable, he disappears into the background and it's like he never existed in the first place..
But incels will convince you that he was a "nice guy."
He was not a nice guy. He was a complacent guy.
He was a complete side-character in the game of life.
To make sure that we are all on the same page with what I am saying, I am going to summarize the key-points of this thread:
People who know how to inspire emotions and reactions from people are leaders. They are the one's who become powerful, recognized, pass their genes onto the next generation and become valued members within the tribe
People who only know how to be "nice" and conform to whatever people tell them to do are easily forgotten side characters whom no one will be bothered to aid in a time of crisis.
Now you must be thinking, "then what about looks?"
And the truth is, they still play a great role in creating emotions within women.
A face alone can trigger multiple regions of the brain and illicit many responses, and being attractive physically will definitely garner a lot of positive emotions, seemingly regardless of what the attractive individual does.
However, being able to make people feel is such a crucial part of being attractive to women that's dangerously underestimated here.
Hate is closer to love than indifference, and everyone yearns to feel something, anything.
And if you can learn to make people feel something powerful... they're yours.
Future threads:
Social Hierarchies and How to Climb Them
Related Threads:
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Does personality matter
... or does it not ...Regardless of what your stance is on the topic, chances are you've probably seen many examples of men who commit crimes, beat up women and do other unsightly things yet are successful with women used as proof that personality does not matter
, but many of these examples are flawed because they reduce personality down to being "nice," when that couldn't be any further from the truth.If there is one thing that you should take away from this thread, it's this:
Personality =/= Being Nice
I said it once, and I am going to say it again because it's so very important.
Personality =/= Being Nice
Desirable personalities are not nice personalities, and nice personalities certainly aren't personalities that will spark interest, desire and arousal.
If you need proof of this, look no further than the 2016 American presidential election.
Ignoring the terrible shit he's done, if one looked just at how he presents himself, how he speaks and his public actions, one would be of the opinion that he was a decent guy.
I've personally seen some of his speeches, and I can confirm, he's absolutely radiating "decent guy" energy...
And he is completely boring.
Once you gather that he is a "decent guy," there is nothing else to know about Joe Biden...
You already know exactly how he's going to conduct himself, how he's going to react, act and speak, and you are going to be completely bored to death...
Now what about his opponent?
The ever so hated, Donald Trump.
Trump was the complete opposite of Joe Biden, and that became his greatest strength as he didn't succumb to Joe's "Decent Guy" syndrome..
He was flamboyant, crude, and conducted himself in a manner which no decent person would, but he was charismatic, funny, and his speeches had an intense energy about them that would rally up thousands of people to act
Yes, he was a nasty person, but he was inspiring, he was witty, he was entertaining, and he knew how to put on a good show for the audience.
Watching one of Joe's speeches one could fall asleep, but listening to the ramblings of this "nasty man" Trump was exciting, and a far more enjoyable experience..
Like I said before, Personality =/= Being Nice.
"Personality" is being able to elicit powerful emotions from people. It's being able to inspire feeling.
Without emotions, nothing has meaning.
What people take away from an interaction is not it's contents, but the emotions that they felt.
Think of any random conversation you enjoyed from a while ago.
Maybe you don't remember word for word what the other person said, but you remember that you had fun. You remember that you enjoyed yourself, you remember that it was exciting
Imagine talking to a stereotypical "good guy" who incels are so enamoured with.
Who cares that he's a family man? Who cares that he's a hard worker? Who cares that he's respectful?
He has no flavour.
He doesn't make you feel anything, so he's forgettable, he disappears into the background and it's like he never existed in the first place..
But incels will convince you that he was a "nice guy."
He was not a nice guy. He was a complacent guy.
He was a complete side-character in the game of life.
To make sure that we are all on the same page with what I am saying, I am going to summarize the key-points of this thread:
- Personality =/= Being Nice
- "Good personalities" are not desirable.
- Desirable Personalities are personalities that elicit emotions.
- Hate is closer to love than indifference.
People who know how to inspire emotions and reactions from people are leaders. They are the one's who become powerful, recognized, pass their genes onto the next generation and become valued members within the tribe
Now you must be thinking, "then what about looks?"
And the truth is, they still play a great role in creating emotions within women.
A face alone can trigger multiple regions of the brain and illicit many responses, and being attractive physically will definitely garner a lot of positive emotions, seemingly regardless of what the attractive individual does.
However, being able to make people feel is such a crucial part of being attractive to women that's dangerously underestimated here.
Hate is closer to love than indifference, and everyone yearns to feel something, anything.
And if you can learn to make people feel something powerful... they're yours.
"Success isn't just about what you accomplish in life, it's about what you inspire others to feel."
Future threads:
Social Hierarchies and How to Climb Them
Related Threads:
Beyond Looks | How to WIN in Social Interactions [pt.0]
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