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Unlike their male counterparts, these women direct their violence primarily against themselves.
You have no doubt already heard of "incels", an abbreviation for "involuntary celibates". These are groups of men who are characterized by a deeply sexist worldview and a real hatred of women.
Several incels have committed attacks. Among the best known are Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian. The last incel attack to date took place in the United States last May.
These guys are obsessed with women denying them sex and letting them suffer on the side of the flirt road. The irony is that the very term "incel" was coined by a woman.
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But lo and behold on the Internet, thanks to an investigation by the American magazine Mel, I discovered that there were females, women also forced into celibacy.
When Alek Minassian killed ten people in Toronto with his van in April 2018, he explained his attack by his incel status. In Mel's article, Mary, a 43-year-old black woman from Philadelphia with chronic illnesses, says she can understand Minassian. Even if she obviously condemns the murderous violence, she knows and shares the suffering of the terrorist.
On the one hand, there is the feeling of permanent rejection. Extremely lonely. Nobody who touches you, who looks at you, who loves you, who listens to you. This feeling of not existing in the eyes of others. And on the other, the frustration of seeing more beautiful people who are wanted and the injustice that this represents.
Like Houellebecq's novels, females and incels envision sexuality as an extension of capitalism: there would be a sexual market where supply and demand would adjust.
Besides, femcels, like incels, practice scoring. On a scale of 1 to 10, they self-locate to 4 or below. At 5 and 6 there are the "normies" (the normal ones), the "Beckies" are at 6 or 7, and at 8 and more, there is the elite, nicknamed the "Stacy" (or the "Chad" for men).
What is most striking in the messages that these women write on the discussion forums is the real hatred of themselves that some express, their disgust for who they are. They congratulate themselves, for example, on having to wear a mask at this time.
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Violence against themselves is the point that most differentiates them from incels. They take responsibility for their misfortune because they consider themselves repulsive, disgusting, while the incels essentially think that everything is the fault of women, who are cunts. (JFL)
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How do you live when you hate yourself? Incels and females express anger and violence, but while the incels in their extreme version advocate terrorist acts, females evoke suicide. At the heart of the expression of violence, gender norms are still there. (JFL 2)
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But the world is even more cruel. Whereas one could have imagined an alliance between femcels and incels, incels reject them. They don't believe them. According to them - this is even the basis of their hatred for women and their theory that they occupy a dominant position in society - that any woman can have sex. (By "having sex", you have to understand "getting fucked", obviously.) A single woman in spite of herself does not exist. She is just a too difficult girl.
To which females respond that if it is to be insulted after sex, to be treated as less than nothing, in fact, they prefer to be alone.
For the incels, not only do they do their difficult, but in addition they come to steal the universe of the incels, this space where they could finally find themselves between them without this plague of the girls. Greg, a 29-year-old incel, assures that “it is women who play the victims to attract the attention of men but who refuse to lower their standards. Everyone knows that if something has a pussy, a man will kiss it. ”
Females therefore suffer from their loneliness, and as a bonus, they are told that they do not exist and that if they are alone, it is their fault. One of the texts that best expresses the suffering of females was posted on Reddit (it is in English) and is entitled "The older I get - the more I swear to God that looking at pretty girls makes me want to kill myself in daily".
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You have no doubt already heard of "incels", an abbreviation for "involuntary celibates". These are groups of men who are characterized by a deeply sexist worldview and a real hatred of women.
Several incels have committed attacks. Among the best known are Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian. The last incel attack to date took place in the United States last May.
These guys are obsessed with women denying them sex and letting them suffer on the side of the flirt road. The irony is that the very term "incel" was coined by a woman.
[...]
But lo and behold on the Internet, thanks to an investigation by the American magazine Mel, I discovered that there were females, women also forced into celibacy.
When Alek Minassian killed ten people in Toronto with his van in April 2018, he explained his attack by his incel status. In Mel's article, Mary, a 43-year-old black woman from Philadelphia with chronic illnesses, says she can understand Minassian. Even if she obviously condemns the murderous violence, she knows and shares the suffering of the terrorist.
On the one hand, there is the feeling of permanent rejection. Extremely lonely. Nobody who touches you, who looks at you, who loves you, who listens to you. This feeling of not existing in the eyes of others. And on the other, the frustration of seeing more beautiful people who are wanted and the injustice that this represents.
Like Houellebecq's novels, females and incels envision sexuality as an extension of capitalism: there would be a sexual market where supply and demand would adjust.
Besides, femcels, like incels, practice scoring. On a scale of 1 to 10, they self-locate to 4 or below. At 5 and 6 there are the "normies" (the normal ones), the "Beckies" are at 6 or 7, and at 8 and more, there is the elite, nicknamed the "Stacy" (or the "Chad" for men).
What is most striking in the messages that these women write on the discussion forums is the real hatred of themselves that some express, their disgust for who they are. They congratulate themselves, for example, on having to wear a mask at this time.
[...]
Violence against themselves is the point that most differentiates them from incels. They take responsibility for their misfortune because they consider themselves repulsive, disgusting, while the incels essentially think that everything is the fault of women, who are cunts. (JFL)
[...]
How do you live when you hate yourself? Incels and females express anger and violence, but while the incels in their extreme version advocate terrorist acts, females evoke suicide. At the heart of the expression of violence, gender norms are still there. (JFL 2)
[...]
But the world is even more cruel. Whereas one could have imagined an alliance between femcels and incels, incels reject them. They don't believe them. According to them - this is even the basis of their hatred for women and their theory that they occupy a dominant position in society - that any woman can have sex. (By "having sex", you have to understand "getting fucked", obviously.) A single woman in spite of herself does not exist. She is just a too difficult girl.
To which females respond that if it is to be insulted after sex, to be treated as less than nothing, in fact, they prefer to be alone.
For the incels, not only do they do their difficult, but in addition they come to steal the universe of the incels, this space where they could finally find themselves between them without this plague of the girls. Greg, a 29-year-old incel, assures that “it is women who play the victims to attract the attention of men but who refuse to lower their standards. Everyone knows that if something has a pussy, a man will kiss it. ”
Females therefore suffer from their loneliness, and as a bonus, they are told that they do not exist and that if they are alone, it is their fault. One of the texts that best expresses the suffering of females was posted on Reddit (it is in English) and is entitled "The older I get - the more I swear to God that looking at pretty girls makes me want to kill myself in daily".

Les incels ont leur pendant féminin, les femcels
À l'inverse de leurs homologues masculins, ces femmes dirigent leur violence principalement contre elles-mêmes.