Incels = ? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Rochefort6]

Incel means “involuntarily celibate”. The vast majority of men calling themselves incels could get laid if they put forth sufficient effort.

I was involuntarily celibate for a number of years (ie. couldn’t get laid) though I would never label myself as incel....but I changed myself, my attitudes, body, dress, habits, etc. sufficiently to have a very successful dating life. But it’s hard work, and most supposed “incels” haven’t made anywhere close to enough effort to change their lives to have the lives they want. Instead it’s easier to put a label on yourself and blame others.

That said, there is probably 1% of the population with horrible enough physical aspects that they repulse women eg. terrible burn victims. But these men are in the extreme minority. I knew a South Asian man confined to a wheel chair with a muscle wasting disease who went on to not only date successfully, but become a dating coach. https://datingcoachonwheels.com/

TLDR: 99% of celibate men are voluntary

 

[Deleted member 6403]

no one wants to fuck landwhales bro

 

[MentalistKebab]

Let me guess ? You were another "fatcel" and lost weight ?

 

[Deleted member 2012]

Greycel moment

 

[Rochefort6]

no one wants to fuck landwhales bro

Ok

 

[Rochefort6]

Let me guess ? You were another "fatcel" and lost weight ?

No

 

[needsolution]

kys faggot

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

There’s a lot of truth to this...

but like someone said... no one wants ugly landwhales.

And most incels here just aren’t in any place in life where they could even get pussy, especially regarding looks.

You are involuntarily celibate for the time being until you ascend if you really want Pussy if you actually put in effort.

I almost put zero effort into meeting or Fucking girls and reject lots of girls who I’m not interested in, so I’m volcel because I’m focused on bigger things than average girls so I can fuck top tier girls and being super successful, etc.

Recognize if you are actually a volcel or incel. So many don’t put 2% effort and are all volcel mentalcels.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

extreme cope.

I tried in the past and I got rejected.

BECAUSE I'M UGLY

My only hope is surgery

 

[Deleted member 3853]

Holy shit @ this bluepill nonsense. KYS OP

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I knew a South Asian man confined to a wheel chair with a muscle wasting disease who went on to not only date successfully, but become a dating coach. https://datingcoachonwheels.com/

oh btw i reported this for cherrypicking

go fuck yourself

 

[Rochefort6]

There’s a lot of truth to this...

but like someone said... no one wants ugly landwhales.

And most incels here just aren’t in any place in life where they could even get pussy, especially regarding looks.

You are involuntarily celibate for the time being until you ascend if you really want Pussy if you actually put in effort.

I almost put zero effort into meeting or Fucking girls and reject lots of girls who I’m not interested in, so I’m volcel because I’m focused on bigger things than average girls so I can fuck top tier girls and being super successful, etc.

Recognize if you are actually a volcel or incel. So many don’t put 2% effort and are all volcel mentalcels.

It’s always been in your control.

 

[Deleted member 1400]

Greycel moment

Bluepilled moment

 

[Deleted member 6856]

Incels never left their basement and saw the real life

They all think only male models can get iois or get laid,there are tons of ugly woman so they need to match aswell

If you don't choose a woman so you're not an incel

 

[Deleted member 1400]

Incels never left their basement and saw the real life

They all think only male models can get iois or get laid,there are tons of ugly woman so they need to match aswell

If you don't choose a woman so you're not an incel

Incels are mentally damaged due to years of bullying, negative comments and rejections.

 

[Deleted member 8064]

Tbh I will agree that a lot of guys here are over 4 PSL, but most men in the world are <4 PSL, so facial aesthetics rule everything because it only exists for such a small % of men (20%).

 

[Stare]

I do believe some men who call themselves "incels" are indeed in a voluntary celibate but some guys are so ugly that no woman will ever be attracted to them no matter what they do.

 

[Rochefort6]

Incels are mentally damaged due to years of bullying, negative comments and rejections.

Awww

 

[Rochefort6]

I do believe some men who call themselves "incels" are indeed in a voluntary celibate but some guys are so ugly that no woman will ever be attracted to them no matter what they do.

Very very rare cases

 

[Rochefort6]

Tbh I will agree that a lot of guys here are over 4 PSL, but most men in the world are <4 PSL, so facial aesthetics rule everything because it only exists for such a small % of men (20%).

Not true.

 

[Deleted member 8064]

Not true.

Very true. Most men are recessed, short, high body fat, weak eye area, etc. This isn't an incel forum (for the most part), this is a place to get as good looking as you can so you don't have to be "confident" and shit. You just get laid because she is attracted to you. A lot of us could get some good looking girls, but we refuse to be looked at as someone replaceable or for granted. That's what women do, and you have to be very good looking to ensure you won't get cucked.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

It’s always been in your control.

Hey I get “positivity”, but shut the fuck up, to me especially you’re preaching to the quire, but are still so wrong.

How about you be fucking balanced, use your logic, and be realistic...

If you are Ugly and been rejected multiple times... safe to say you are fucking incel.

give up on women, and focus on others areas, especially things like money and looksmaxing. Then once you ascend you can get Pussy.

Shut up with your substanceless generic platitudes, it’s not that simple or easy.

A better thing to say is just focus on improving yourself, looksmaxing and just socializing instead of picking up whores, and if a girl finds you attractive she will make it known.

 

[Rochefort6]

Very true. Most men are recessed, short, high body fat, weak eye area, etc. This isn't an incel forum (for the most part), this is a place to get as good looking as you can so you don't have to be "confident" and shit. You just get laid because she is attracted to you. A lot of us could get some good looking girls, but we refuse to be looked at as someone replaceable or for granted. That's what women do, and you have to be very good looking to ensure you won't get cucked.

I like the self-improvement aspect of this forum and it’s, albeit rare, unique golden nuggets of advice.

Looks aren’t important as you think. If you really want to see this for yourself, and are willing to accept the consequences (doubt it), take an upper + downer and go meet women in public.

 

[Rochefort6]

Hey I get “positivity”, but shut the fuck up, to me especially you’re preaching to the quire, but are still so wrong.

How about you be fucking balanced, use your logic, and be realistic...

If you are Ugly and been rejected multiple times... safe to say you are fucking incel.

give up on women, and focus on others areas, especially things like money and looksmaxing. Then once you ascend you can get Pussy.

Shut up with your substanceless generic platitudes, it’s not that simple or easy.

A better thing to say is just focus on improving yourself, looksmaxing and just socializing instead of picking up whores, and if a girl finds you attractive she will make it known.

Work on yourself is the best thing to do. Looks aren’t as important as you think. You’re still a victim.

 

[Deleted member 5746]

If you have to try to achieve something that is supposed to be the biological norm, then it is over

 

[Deleted member 8064]

I like the self-improvement aspect of this forum and it’s, albeit rare, unique golden nuggets of advice.

Looks aren’t important as you think. If you really want to see this for yourself, and are willing to accept the consequences (doubt it), take an upper + downer and go meet women in public.

You're right, looks aren't as important as we think...for a relationship. Relationship sex is cucked. She isn't attracted to you. She's just using you for emotional connection. I refuse to be used as someone she loves for who I am instead of what I am. That's fucked.

 

[Rochefort6]

If you have to try to achieve something that is supposed to be the biological norm, then it is over

You aren’t entitled to sex. Appreciate how selective sexual selection is and how that allows the human race to thrive as it has.

 

[Rochefort6]

You're right, looks aren't as important as we think...for a relationship. Relationship sex is cucked. She isn't attracted to you. She's just using you for emotional connection. I refuse to be used as someone she loves for who I am instead of what I am. That's fucked.

You’re very bitter and emotional about this. You’re like the male equivalent of a feminist. Are you sure there aren’t any deeper issues you’re projecting?

 

[Deleted member 5746]

You aren’t entitled to sex. Appreciate how selective sexual selection is and how that allows the human race to thrive as it has.

You aren't either jfl

 

[Deleted member 4332]

Incels never left their basement and saw the real life

They all think only male models can get iois or get laid,there are tons of ugly woman so they need to match aswell

If you don't choose a woman so you're not an incel

Bluepilled cope.

3-4/10 foids can get chadlites easily and do get chadlites easily.

 

[Deleted member 6856]

Bluepilled cope.

3-4/10 foids can get chadlites easily and do get chadlites easily.

Bro i said majority of incels not truecels

I accept that you're a truecel so you're right to say this is a bluepilled cope if this was told about truecels

 

[Rochefort6]

You aren't either jfl

I know I’m not

 

[Deleted member 8064]

You’re very bitter and emotional about this. You’re like the male equivalent of a feminist. Are you sure there aren’t any deeper issues you’re projecting?

I just hate the games women play and their virtue signaling. Yes confidence and charisma work, but how the fuck is anyone who ended up HERE supposed to know what that is when they've been left alone? Of course we're gonna believe the shit we do when we were never allowed positive reinforcement of our looks just because we're supposed to "man up and figure it out for ourselves". And you wonder why you have so many guys with BDD here.

 

[Rochefort6]

I just hate the games women play and their virtue signaling. Yes confidence and charisma work, but how the fuck is anyone who ended up HERE supposed to know what that is when they've been left alone? Of course we're gonna believe the shit we do when we were never allowed positive reinforcement of our looks just because we're supposed to "man up and figure it out for ourselves". And you wonder why you have so many guys with BDD here.

Look at my thread about “success” it out lines symptoms of a victim mentality which you are displaying. I’m not trying trigger you, but I’ve got 50 alerts from my threads all along the same lines lol.

It’s all within your control.

 

[Deleted member 8064]

Look at my thread about “success” it out lines symptoms of a victim mentality which you are displaying. I’m not trying trigger you, but I’ve got 50 alerts from my threads all along the same lines lol.

It’s all within your control.

I'm done with you. It was never in ANY of our's control. This is our cope because we were treated like invisible animals. Good for you that you've got in figured out.

 

[BigBoy]

I dont want ugly whores.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

Work on yourself is the best thing to do. Looks aren’t as important as you think. You’re still a victim.

I’m the victim??? LOL

Keep projecting. Keep spewing irrelevant false ad hominem bullshit.

Im referring to most users here, not myself.
I already said I’m volcel with high standards, focused on myself. Some girls I don’t care for I can hit up right now. Like I said. Work on yourself, focus on yourself. Especially if you are incel.

You can still be an incel, without being a “victim”, they are not connected unless you identify with it.
Incel=Just insanely unlikely and improbable to get pussy for the time being, MOVE ON FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS. Or try to IMPROVE THE SITUATION... still incel for that time being. Just what it is.
It being “oh poor me, it’s hopeless” is your perspective. Not it’s just a state of circumstance, which can be temporary or permanent depending on your actions.
Getting out of inceldom taoes drastic measures on many levels, and takes lots of work. It’s REAL. Some men’s looks actually make it near impossible to attract someone, and other qualities can’t compensate.

And no lol... Looks ARE insanely IMPORTANT and primary thing for Sex, Attraction, and Relationships, especially attractive women. Among a million other benefits.

But is sex and relationships the only thing in the world? No, so just fucking accept looks are important to dating/sex instead of denying it.

Game/personality is when you are already decently attractive, or talking to average looking girls around your looks level or lower.

Next comes Money and Status:

Thas how you get Pussy:


EVERYTHING ELSE in life is really solely for you and won’t get you pussy directly. Maybe be just as important as looks, but it will not get you pussy or you are Ugly:

 

[Rochefort6]

I'm done with you. It was never in ANY of our's control. This is our cope because we were treated like invisible animals. Good for you that you've got in figured out.

You need to hit rock bottom before you figure out it is. Hopefully you do sooner than later. Not trying to be patronizing. Thanks bro, I’m no saint either

 

[Rochefort6]

I’m the victim??? LOL

Keep projecting. Keep spewing irrelevant false ad hominem bullshit.

Im referring to most users here, not myself.
I already said I’m volcel with high standards, focused on myself. Some girls I don’t care for I can hit up right now. Like I said. Work on yourself, focus on yourself. Especially if you are incel.

You can still be an incel, without being a “victim”, they are not connected unless you identify with it.
Incel=Just insanely unlikely and improbable to get pussy for the time being, MOVE ON FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS. Or try to IMPROVE THE SITUATION... still incel for that time being. Just what it is.
It being “oh poor me, it’s hopeless” is your perspective. Not it’s just a state of circumstance, which can be temporary or permanent depending on your actions.
Getting out of inceldom taoes drastic measures on many levels, and takes lots of work. It’s REAL. Some men’s looks actually make it near impossible to attract someone, and other qualities can’t compensate.

And no lol... Looks ARE insanely IMPORTANT and primary thing for Sex, Attraction, and Relationships, especially attractive women. Among a million other benefits.

But is sex and relationships the only thing in the world? No, so just fucking accept looks are important to dating/sex instead of denying it.

Game/personality is when you are already decently attractive, or talking to average looking girls around your looks level or lower.

Next comes Money and Status:

Thas how you get Pussy:


EVERYTHING ELSE in life is really solely for you and won’t get you pussy directly. Maybe be just as important as looks, but it will not get you pussy or you are Ugly:

Triggered. You’re very emotional bro.

 

[Rochefort6]

I dont want ugly whores.

Ok

 

[Deleted member 7173]

Once again, putting this here. There is no "confidence" for my side profile.

https://looksmax.org/threads/i-have-the-worst-side-profile-here.144298/

 

[Rochefort6]

Once again, putting this here. There is no "confidence" for my side profile.

https://looksmax.org/threads/i-have-the-worst-side-profile-here.144298/

I’m not gonna mother you and say it’s all gonna be ok. You know what to do.

 

[Deleted member 7173]

I’m not gonna mother you and say it’s all gonna be ok. You know what to do.

I don't. I'd like to hear your perspective. The only way I can think of is to get jaw surgery.

 

[Rochefort6]

I don't. I'd like to hear your perspective. The only way I can think of is to get jaw surgery.

That’s not the only way you can think of, sorry I don’t believe you.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

Triggered. You’re very emotional bro.

Nice deflection and ad hominem to avoid arguing any of my points because you can’t again. Lol

And no, I’m calm and kinda tired bored as shit right now. Just on my phone enjoying my own writing and insights talking to an idiot.

Where I show I was mad? Lol, you’re the only only one deflecting, projection, avoiding, and responding with ad hominem insults like you are superior while I’m trying to have a reasonable discussion because I agree on some points and the sentiments, but’s very misguided and based on coping falsehoods, not making the most of reality.

 

[Rochefort6]

Nice deflection and ad hominem to avoid arguing any of my points because you can’t again. Lol

And no, I’m calm and kinda tired bored as shit right now. Just on my phone enjoying my own writing and insights talking to an idiot.

Where I show I was mad? Lol, you’re the only only one deflecting, projection, avoiding, and responding with ad hominem insults like you are superior while I’m trying to have a reasonable discussion because I agree on some points and the sentiments, but’s very misguided and based on coping falsehoods, not making the most of reality.

 

[Deleted member 7173]

That’s not the only way you can think of, sorry I don’t believe you.

Dude WTF other way are you talking about. You keep saying that but I have no other option

 

[RAITEIII]

no one wants to fuck landwhales bro

Better than jerking off till 30 waiting for stacy like @Gazzamogga

 

[jackthenerd]

I like the self-improvement aspect of this forum and it’s, albeit rare, unique golden nuggets of advice.

Looks aren’t important as you think. If you really want to see this for yourself, and are willing to accept the consequences (doubt it), take an upper + downer and go meet women in public.

So what is your success rate?

And what if you're autistic? (This is a decent chunk of the population)

What if you have a speech impediment that makes it hard to talk to women?

What if you're bad looking and bald?

At what point is it over?

 

[Deleted member 4612]

reminder: women getting smartphones, social media, and dating apps has caused incels, not "muh laziness"