Insane how NT some people are

[Bitchwhipper2]

Tera NT guy in my class. Every sentance that leaves his mouth feels so perfect and effortless.

Why tf could I be born this way

 

[Deleted member 102239]

There's not even a science to it or anything. It's legit magic.

You either have it or you don't. Brooooootal

 

[Nick.Harte]

You either have it or you don't.

 

[Brus Wane]

It can be studied if you take notes

 

[shakara]

Nt people are lucky they dont got autism

 

[Deleted member 102239]

It can be studied if you take notes

The more I try and replicate it, the less accurate it is

You've just got to go on autopilot and hope you're having a good day

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

The more I try and replicate it, the less accurate it is

You've just got to go on autopilot and hope you're having a good day

This exactly.

It cant be replicated. Unironically giving up is your best shot

 

[Neucher]

Why tf could I be born this way

use drugs like everyone else v

 

[Deleted member 110399]

Tera NT guy in my class. Every sentance that leaves his mouth feels so perfect and effortless.

Why tf could I be born this way

Genes issue

 

[Deleted member 110399]

use drugs like everyone else v

I've only fixed it with cocaine tbh but ofc you can't use it long term and won't have same effect with time

 

[Deleted member 132952]

While charm can come off as  natural (think of talent), given enough intelligence and observation skills it can be studied and imitated. In fact almost all socialisation is  imitation of socially accepted behaviours. I made a post earlier why I believe most people are NT and why it's largely irrelevant even if you aren't, barring extremes; socialisation and practice are far more important. This is why high IQ psychopaths/sociopaths can be great at charming people even if they lack empathy and natural inclination to be sociable (which is neurodivergent). Intelligent narcissists are similar in that they are great at manipulation and can come off as charming.
The problem is that most people are terrible at learning and applying themselves. If you're never talking to anyone you will never get better. The only cure to social anxiety is either practice or substance abuse.

 

[True_North]

While charm can come off as  natural (think of talent), given enough intelligence and observation skills it can be studied and imitated. In fact almost all socialisation is  imitation of socially accepted behaviours. I made a post earlier why I believe most people are NT and why it's largely irrelevant even if you aren't, barring extremes; socialisation and practice are far more important. This is why high IQ psychopaths/sociopaths can be great at charming people even if they lack empathy and natural inclination to be sociable (which is neurodivergent). Intelligent narcissists are similar in that they are great at manipulation and can come off as charming.
The problem is that most people are terrible at learning and applying themselves. If you're never talking to anyone you will never get better. The only cure to social anxiety is either practice or substance abuse.

I agree that it can be replicated, the main problem is how momentum based charisma is and how feedback loop oriented it is. If you're giga NT, then you have girls hanging off you, are invited to parties and events, and are constantly meeting new people. The success feeds upon the success and people like this speak with the aura OP is talking about.

If you rotted too long, you're gonna look awkward as fuck doing almost anything. Humans are exceptional at reading body language, and everything you do is gonna signal that you're forcing it and that your body desperately wants to scramble back to its cave. People overcome this, but the deeper in the isolation pit you are, the more brutal your growing pains will be. It also doesn't help that you probably have few friends or are starting from scratch with zero social mobility in this position, so you need to vulture in and bait ppl into inviting you to shit.

TLDR - do drugs to mimic the biochemistry of someone who's successful and didn't rotmax for years.