Insecurity destroys life quality.

[Deleted member 17578]

Insecurity is at the core of most stress you face in your life.

The more insecure you are, the more stress you experience. Which leads to less energy, action, experience and overall a more tense emotional frame.

I realize now most of my friendships, relationships and academic ambitions have been sabotaged through insecurity from my part. The effect that it had and still has on my behavior.

It's time to face my insecurities head-on. Failure is fine, as long as you go in without insecurities. Going for the win instead of saying you will 'try'.

Believe in yourself.

 

[Zeruel]

When all you know is negativity, wether from real life or social media - that is how you will behave since you don’t have enough or even no positive reinforcement at all.

When people tell you that you’re the ugly little boy with a small cock all of your life and everything in social media confirms it, what can you do?

Coca Cola constantly manipulates families to buy their product by having constant commercials with coke and families to buy their product. While it’s silly to us, it is recorded in our subconscious.

 

[Deleted member 29537]

being ugly most of my life killed my confidence. Now I look good and still suffer from abused dog syndrome from my ugly days

 

[Brus Wane]

It's time to face my insecurities head-on. Failure is fine, as long as you go in without insecurities. Going for the win instead of saying you will 'try'.

Believe in yourself.

Agree except for this part.

You can't just suddenly decide to "face your insecurities" or "go all in without being insecure".

Most people who are fucked had little to no positive reinforcement in their formative years and it's damn near impossible to change that.

Kinda sad that missing out on these simple things can fuck a nigga up.

I was brutally abused from ages 8 to 15 for being morbidly obese and only really lost that weight around 16 17.

Way too late and it doesn't even matter how much I lean down or surgerymaxx, I'm mentally fucked in the head.

 

[Zeruel]

being ugly most of my life killed my confidence. Now I look good and still suffer from abused dog syndrome from my ugly days

Kinda sad that missing out on these simple things can fuck a nigga up.

I was brutally abused from ages 8 to 15 for being morbidly obese and only really lost that weight around 16 17.

Way too late and it doesn't even matter how much I lean down or surgerymaxx, I'm mentally fucked in the head.

I hit puberty at 15.

Got told i looked “weird” by other kids.

And when i was 15 i was 5’3” and even older people thought i was lying about my age and said i was 11.

 

[Deleted member 26448]

i'm subhuman so how the hell am i supposed to do that

 

[Brus Wane]

I hit puberty at 15.

Got told i looked “weird” by other kids.

And when i was 15 i was 5’3” and even older people thought i was lying about my age and said i was 11.

Fucking brutal.

Hope you're taller now at least.

 

[Zeruel]

Fucking brutal.

Hope you're taller now at least.

 

[Sprinkles]

Insecurity is a result after years of negative reinforcement

i get insecure about my quietness in group social settings, which is why I avoid them

 

[RecessedChinCel]

Insecurity is at the core of most stress you face in your life.

The more insecure you are, the more stress you experience. Which leads to less energy, action, experience and overall a more tense emotional frame.

I realize now most of my friendships, relationships and academic ambitions have been sabotaged through insecurity from my part. The effect that it had and still has on my behavior.

It's time to face my insecurities head-on. Failure is fine, as long as you go in without insecurities. Going for the win instead of saying you will 'try'.

Believe in yourself.

I will get rid of my insecurities with jaw surgery. Got a referral to a maxfac today

 

[Deleted member 17578]

being ugly most of my life killed my confidence. Now I look good and still suffer from abused dog syndrome from my ugly days

Same here. This is the journey we must take now. Mentalmaxxing.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Agree except for this part.

You can't just suddenly decide to "face your insecurities" or "go all in without being insecure".

Most people who are fucked had little to no positive reinforcement in their formative years and it's damn near impossible to change that.

Kinda sad that missing out on these simple things can fuck a nigga up.

I was brutally abused from ages 8 to 15 for being morbidly obese and only really lost that weight around 16 17.

Way too late and it doesn't even matter how much I lean down or surgerymaxx, I'm mentally fucked in the head.

True. It is very difficult. Perhaps the most difficult thing you will face in life, going against a lifetime of habits, trauma, pain and personality development.

Time that we start caring about our mental health.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Insecurity is at the core of most stress you face in your life.

The more insecure you are, the more stress you experience. Which leads to less energy, action, experience and overall a more tense emotional frame.

I realize now most of my friendships, relationships and academic ambitions have been sabotaged through insecurity from my part. The effect that it had and still has on my behavior.

It's time to face my insecurities head-on. Failure is fine, as long as you go in without insecurities. Going for the win instead of saying you will 'try'.

Believe in yourself.

Glad I recently killed it dead.

 

[infini]

Insecurity is at the core of most stress you face in your life.

The more insecure you are, the more stress you experience. Which leads to less energy, action, experience and overall a more tense emotional frame.

I realize now most of my friendships, relationships and academic ambitions have been sabotaged through insecurity from my part. The effect that it had and still has on my behavior.

It's time to face my insecurities head-on. Failure is fine, as long as you go in without insecurities. Going for the win instead of saying you will 'try'.

Believe in yourself.

There is no other option. Time is running out.

 

[JovenCansao]

Stumbled upon this thread randomly, it somehow helped me mentalmaxx for a challenge I must face soon, thanks man.