Insecurity is the most misunderstood virtue. It is good because it leads to perfectionism.

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Face it, we're all here because we are insecure.
Not a bad thing in of itself. I'd say its the best motivator. To be motivated on happiness/ love is easily disruptable. Often what we want is delicate/ fragile. To procure those feelings will require a ton of evasion/ mental gymnastics.
However being insecure/ stricken by fear/ hate, and working your happiness up from languishing in those emotions to be more aware/ conscious of the negatives is good.
Insecurity is good because it is the most practical way to deal with reality.

Insecurity/ pain leads to anger, anger leads to self improvement, self improvement (looksmaxxing/ everythingmaxxing)(perfectionism) leads to results/ the best possible work ethic you can have. Insecurity just keeps pain/ threats/ bad situations deep in your offhand psyche. It makes you better prepared for the future.
Insecurity is often the fundamental reason people are looksmaxxing. People would much rather love to get what they want as who they are, than open up all the pain/ ego-flaying of feeling you need to self improve.

If you have rage you need to suppress it. Some form of serenity like intellectualization can do the trick. Makes you look more rational/ logical when you hide behind that veneer. Being a perfectionist is the only way to win if you are sub8.

Holding grudges, being entitled, being paranoid can be good htings if you look at it in hidnsight. So long as you're not too much of a pussy to cope with positivit/y happy clappy notions of being spiritually free, or LDARing is better for you than effort. Given though you have to be at least a 4 to apply this right.
This theory is for 4 to 9/10 cels.
Yes, even 8s or 9s in the future could have issues if hypergamy ensures and humans are genetically engineered ot perfection.
 
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Didnt read but I agree
 
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I'm not insecure. I just find this forum funny and informative tbh
 
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I'm not insecure. I just find this forum funny and informative tbh
Insecurity makes you selfmax. If you are not equipped to win, it is better to do so as a turtle than an unarmored fragile animal.
If you exist on just being a kickback normie you can make more appeasing implications of being "confident/ chill". But you can do all that if you are machiavellianmaxxed and being insecure. Insecurity will give you drive when you are a hidden perfectionist.
Only the weak allow insecurity to lead them into paralysis.
 
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Insecurity makes you selfmax. If you are not equipped to win, it is better to do so as a turtle than an unarmored fragile animal.
If you exist on just being a kickback normie you can make more appeasing implications of being "confident/ chill". But you can do all that if you are machiavellianmaxxed and being insecure. Insecurity will give you drive when you are a hidden perfectionist.
Only the weak allow insecurity to lead them into paralysis.
Are you that black guy who said having no friends makes you better?
 
said no psychologist ever. you have to own your flaws, and then improve them. the more insecure you become, the less desirable you get.
 
Are you that black guy who said having no friends makes you better?
No. I am just being realistic. I haven't frequented this site/ corner of the incel circle yet.

said no psychologist ever. you have to own your flaws, and then improve them. the more insecure you become, the less desirable you get.
but the more powerful you have to become. hide your insecurities while you gain more superficial value and you are self maxxed.Owning your flaws is best done when you hate yourself and that will push you to self perfect. Have the perfect defense (by being slick/ hiding it under veneers), and whatever doesn't get seen never needs to be admitted, but only understood. Then have the perfect offense through perfectionism.

Since the pain of them is immediately ran away from. But you must also intellectualize to understand everything around you, and what you are feeling.
So few people are smart enough to eb intuitive. And if anyone IS intelligent enough they'll come so late that you'll have everything ornamented around your glory to the point where they'll defame/ destroy them.
 
Standing by my stance here.
 
High IQ. I am also Looksmaxxing to HealthMaxx they are synonymous TBH I wanna Become an athlete again that poor Craniofacial development Took away From me TBH. I am not looksmaxxing just For girls I want them to come along with What my ambitions are. I can't wait to potentially Rock back To Rowing looking Like and Alpha male :chad: and Not the Physically, Mentally Ill Pussy Faggot That left one day on a Rainy Night Never To return. Leaving All those ppl Behind. As their Voices got Fainter and Fainter As I Traveled Home, I succumbed to The same and I was enraged as I realized I had left my Water ProofJacket At home.

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the first person to perfect genetic engineering to make all humanity gigachad and gigastacy is going to be an insecure high iqcel from this forum who wants to bet
 
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Insecure= uncomfortably and uncomfortably means you will try to improve. If you are comfortable you will never be good at anything because you will be content where you are. Thats why being extremely competitive is a blessing and a curse. If you can get your satisfaction from always improving you will be the best.

With facial aesthetics and aesthetics in general, there is a point of diminishing return. Being extremely competitive in sports and business is obviously better because the point of diminishing return is much harder to achieve.
 
Partially agree but if Someone is extremely insecure no matter what looksmaxxing the do even if they do ascend physically, they will constantly find something wrong and needing to improve. Insecurity is good moderation
 
High IQ. I am also Looksmaxxing to HealthMaxx they are synonymous TBH I wanna Become an athlete again that poor Craniofacial development Took away From me TBH. I am not looksmaxxing just For girls I want them to come along with What my ambitions are. I can't wait to potentially Rock back To Rowing looking Like and Alpha male :chad: and Not the Physically, Mentally Ill Pussy Faggot That left one day on a Rainy Night Never To return. Leaving All those ppl Behind. As their Voices got Fainter and Fainter As I Traveled Home, I succumbed to The same and I was enraged as I realized I had left my Water ProofJacket At home.

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Always have a veneering reason for doing what you are doing. The best lies are lived with you. They're like roommates with you for your life and your ruse.
Say you're working out for neurological reasons,to increase bloodflow/ muscle kinetics to help withyour white collar office job or something.Fill in the rest later.I have an inventory of dark triad manual help to help you manipulate and trick people into buying your looksmaxing implication.
 
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Always have a veneering reason for doing what you are doing. The best lies are lived with you. They're like roommates with you for your life and your ruse.
Say you're working out for neurological reasons,to increase bloodflow/ muscle kinetics to help withyour white collar office job or something.Fill in the rest later.I have an inventory of dark triad manual help to help you manipulate and trick people into buying your looksmaxing implication.
Amen
 
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Insecure= uncomfortably and uncomfortably means you will try to improve. If you are comfortable you will never be good at anything because you will be content where you are. Thats why being extremely competitive is a blessing and a curse. If you can get your satisfaction from always improving you will be the best.

With facial aesthetics and aesthetics in general, there is a point of diminishing return. Being extremely competitive in sports and business is obviously better because the point of diminishing return is much harder to achieve.
People when it comes to self improving are not naturally happy. They are happy typically in some kind of union mode of self improving, and being serene. but the more that requires reflective corrective attention will put you on edge. You need to learn to be comfortable being insecure, and self improving. If you're not then you're not gonna fully intake the knowledge of your flaw. You're gonna cope.
To be happy requires intake of your flaws on a concurrent basis, and the serenity from having dominance over them. Serenity is a form of enjoyment from vanquishing insecurities. Being full on filled with hate still brings stress. Serenity is where you're facing against your stressors and flaws in a progressive momentum way.
It is stupid and impossible for a person to be in such denial that they are happy irrespective of outward condition. That doesn't make any sense.
People typically move in the insecurity v security fashion in terms of goals/ progress. Rather than going after what you wants vs your obstacles. There's a lot of reflection when it comes to succeeding in life. And people typically see life as unpredictable, and not just about overcoming an obstacle, but setting a stage for obstacles to be overcome, and NOT just getting what you want, vs what is stopping you in a straight line. You need a fate-control system from your security/ insecurity instinct.
Life doesn't sit still. That's why cities are made. To ensure that humans get what they NEED in an organized way, instead of just hunting/ fighting/ gathering on a constant unknowable basis.
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It is not 100% guaranteed chad gets pussy. But it is almost there. And that gives him confidence. Life can intervene in any second like in Soviety Russia where betas would shoot Chad for being too good looking, as stalin would to any of his other appealing generals.
Life is dangerous and people treat good conditions like a turtle shell against failure. Things need to be in an automated, built place for them to proceed. We're not superpowered kryptonians who can just zip from one thing to the other when there's a problem. We needs something that stands to last to PREVENT issues, rather than being like a leopard and leaping towards what you want. Life isn't that simple.
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Security vs insecurity. Insecurity is just a form of fear that things are looming to threaten negative impact upon you. Fear is a generalized sense but insecurity is a pervasive fear.
People are typically happy/ as confident not based on what goes for them in a single moment, but what value awaits them on the success-horizon. And the more privileged you are, the more perfection you desire (foids caring about wanting to look better rather than being content, and helping africa; their primal mindset of selfishness).// primal hierarchy.
Pm me. I can help you if you really intend to machiavellian max against women.
Partially agree but if Someone is extremely insecure no matter what looksmaxxing the do even if they do ascend physically, they will constantly find something wrong and needing to improve. Insecurity is good moderation
As I said, intellectualization is needed for insecurity to work. Control what you feel with what you KNOW. Gauging objectivity, and forward thinking what the pressure will give you, and you will find success.
And intellectualizing is a good veneer for looking more stoic/ thoughtful/ unemotional (affecting being more unfeeling/ divorcing your outward impression from petty feelings)... when in reality it's your insecurity mechanism.
Remember, people often live the lies that people will buy/ live with/ base their psyche around whatever people will have.
Perception is more important than the truth of you. So people will often affiliate themselves with what will be affiliated with.
Like if you're a fat italian dude, and you act like a mafia member irl when it's just a lie, but they will model their mind after that because it'll be dignified, and thanks to hollywood it'll be less pathetic than their genuine identity.
If people will buy that you can be logical, then you will start to do it, and then you can bury your real self in your hindbrain, and your habits take over.

More on my recent long post people are more motivated hating against their insecurities than going for what they love. Insecurity makes people more confident to move when every threat around them gets neutralized. While being positive doesn't make the negative go away. So there is always a little bit of your hindbrain/ subconscious fumbling your focus/ happiness to make sure you go back to insecurity, and then turtle your way towards the top.
Insecurity is natural. Being happy clappy/ confident is advocate by bluepillers, marxist state hired therapists, etc.
Going after what you want = going after low hanging fruit. (suppressing flaws in your hindbrain to ensure you don't feel depressed).
Going after what you want AND trying to get things of real importance to you (if you're sub 8) = being cucked, hurt, unhappy, and burying all your cuckery in the hindbrain (PUA territory).
Going after what you want after exposing INSECURITIES = hard, frightening, but nature has given you anger/ hatred/ perfectionism/ compensation to help you.

I'll go with last option. I love being full of hate anyway.
Women want the first ideally because it's more "natural" (better chance of winner karma/ cosmic favoritism to have something birthbased like good genes in the first place. That's their feeling/ perception of how life works. The universe favors some, and curses others).
 
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-Still agreeing with my stance
 
Everybody on planet Earth is somewhat insecure about something.

But yeah wanting to change my looks is definitely the best way to increase confidence, not clothes or a new car
 
Everybody on planet Earth is somewhat insecure about something.

But yeah wanting to change my looks is definitely the best way to increase confidence, not clothes or a new car
what do you think chads/ stacies are insecure of?
 
what do you think chads/ stacies are insecure of?

Women are insecure all the time about everything, dont let them fool you.

Chads can be insecure about anything really, even if its losing their good looks lol. Chad can be insecure about his job, his intelligence, his relationships with his family/friends, I mean nobody goes thru life with zero issues or problems
 
Women are insecure all the time about everything, dont let them fool you.

Chads can be insecure about anything really, even if its losing their good looks lol. Chad can be insecure about his job, his intelligence, his relationships with his family/friends, I mean nobody goes thru life with zero issues or problems
Yeah I've always seen people struggle.

Where do you think women naturally have their insecurity gravitated to?


To manage anything in life is acting under the embrace of insecurity. Confidence is never in a vacuum. Everyone labors under a realistic grip of either positives/ negatives.

Essentially, everything that is micromanaged needs to rest on something that's securely fastened. You can't do the action of building a tower while constantly in the process of every part below/ under the part you're doing being in an insecure state. No one can build a building all at ONCE. You need to build up from one part to the next.
Our subconscious mental readout of everything negative is an INSECURITY to people who are productive, and it is just a whateverism to people who are unconstructive.
Women do not like producing tryhards tho. Welp, sucks for them. May perfectionists rule the world.
To be constructive is to be insecure.
 

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