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Face it, we're all here because we are insecure.
Not a bad thing in of itself. I'd say its the best motivator. To be motivated on happiness/ love is easily disruptable. Often what we want is delicate/ fragile. To procure those feelings will require a ton of evasion/ mental gymnastics.
However being insecure/ stricken by fear/ hate, and working your happiness up from languishing in those emotions to be more aware/ conscious of the negatives is good.
Insecurity is good because it is the most practical way to deal with reality.
Insecurity/ pain leads to anger, anger leads to self improvement, self improvement (looksmaxxing/ everythingmaxxing)(perfectionism) leads to results/ the best possible work ethic you can have. Insecurity just keeps pain/ threats/ bad situations deep in your offhand psyche. It makes you better prepared for the future.
Insecurity is often the fundamental reason people are looksmaxxing. People would much rather love to get what they want as who they are, than open up all the pain/ ego-flaying of feeling you need to self improve.
If you have rage you need to suppress it. Some form of serenity like intellectualization can do the trick. Makes you look more rational/ logical when you hide behind that veneer. Being a perfectionist is the only way to win if you are sub8.
Holding grudges, being entitled, being paranoid can be good htings if you look at it in hidnsight. So long as you're not too much of a pussy to cope with positivit/y happy clappy notions of being spiritually free, or LDARing is better for you than effort. Given though you have to be at least a 4 to apply this right.
This theory is for 4 to 9/10 cels.
Yes, even 8s or 9s in the future could have issues if hypergamy ensures and humans are genetically engineered ot perfection.
Not a bad thing in of itself. I'd say its the best motivator. To be motivated on happiness/ love is easily disruptable. Often what we want is delicate/ fragile. To procure those feelings will require a ton of evasion/ mental gymnastics.
However being insecure/ stricken by fear/ hate, and working your happiness up from languishing in those emotions to be more aware/ conscious of the negatives is good.
Insecurity is good because it is the most practical way to deal with reality.
Insecurity/ pain leads to anger, anger leads to self improvement, self improvement (looksmaxxing/ everythingmaxxing)(perfectionism) leads to results/ the best possible work ethic you can have. Insecurity just keeps pain/ threats/ bad situations deep in your offhand psyche. It makes you better prepared for the future.
Insecurity is often the fundamental reason people are looksmaxxing. People would much rather love to get what they want as who they are, than open up all the pain/ ego-flaying of feeling you need to self improve.
If you have rage you need to suppress it. Some form of serenity like intellectualization can do the trick. Makes you look more rational/ logical when you hide behind that veneer. Being a perfectionist is the only way to win if you are sub8.
Holding grudges, being entitled, being paranoid can be good htings if you look at it in hidnsight. So long as you're not too much of a pussy to cope with positivit/y happy clappy notions of being spiritually free, or LDARing is better for you than effort. Given though you have to be at least a 4 to apply this right.
This theory is for 4 to 9/10 cels.
Yes, even 8s or 9s in the future could have issues if hypergamy ensures and humans are genetically engineered ot perfection.