Insecurity isn't inherently bad

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People often call others "insecure" as if it was some kind of insult, I see it all the time

What they fail to realize is that calling someone "insecure" isn't an insult at all.
Insecurity isn't a bad thing, it shows that you are have enough self awareness to know your limits and act on that knowledge to achieve optimal results, it's a high IQ trait.
You should always be "insecure" no matter how good an aspect of yourself is, this goes for looks, achievements, social skills and everything else that might matter.
confidence is only good when it is faked by an insecure person, true, natural confidence is just the ignorance of one's flaws.

TLDR: insecui is high IQ and confidence should be faked when certain conditions are met.
 
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People often call others "insecure" as if it was some kind of insult, I see it all the time

What they fail to realize is that calling someone "insecure" isn't an insult at all.
Insecurity isn't a bad thing, it shows that you are have enough self awareness to know your limits and act on that knowledge to achieve optimal results, it's a high IQ trait.
You should always be "insecure" no matter how good an aspect of yourself is, this goes for looks, achievements, social skills and everything else that might matter.
confidence is only good when it is faked by an insecure person, true, natural confidence is just the ignorance of one's flaws.

TLDR: insecurity is low IQ and confidence should be faked when certain conditions are met.
Normies often call people who see things objectively, list out the probable outcomes and people who always work for the better and greater as "insecure".
 
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People often call others "insecure" as if it was some kind of insult, I see it all the time

What they fail to realize is that calling someone "insecure" isn't an insult at all.
Insecurity isn't a bad thing, it shows that you are have enough self awareness to know your limits and act on that knowledge to achieve optimal results, it's a high IQ trait.
You should always be "insecure" no matter how good an aspect of yourself is, this goes for looks, achievements, social skills and everything else that might matter.
confidence is only good when it is faked by an insecure person, true, natural confidence is just the ignorance of one's flaws.

TLDR: insecurity is low IQ and confidence should be faked when certain conditions are met.
Most of the completely self-confident people I met were stupid. I knew twice as much as they did. Their stupid confidence is an indicator of cons that they don't see
They were lied to that they were very beautiful, successful and smart. They believed in it and resist it insanely
 
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People often call others "insecure" as if it was some kind of insult, I see it all the time

What they fail to realize is that calling someone "insecure" isn't an insult at all.
Insecurity isn't a bad thing, it shows that you are have enough self awareness to know your limits and act on that knowledge to achieve optimal results, it's a high IQ trait.
You should always be "insecure" no matter how good an aspect of yourself is, this goes for looks, achievements, social skills and everything else that might matter.
confidence is only good when it is faked by an insecure person, true, natural confidence is just the ignorance of one's flaws.

TLDR: insecui is high IQ and confidence should be faked when certain conditions are met.
dunning krueger effect or something
 
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Normies often call people who see things objectively, list out the probable outcomes and people who always work for the better and greater as "insecure".
"insecure" really means self aware, it's not a derogatory term at all
 
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People often call others "insecure" as if it was some kind of insult, I see it all the time

What they fail to realize is that calling someone "insecure" isn't an insult at all.
Insecurity isn't a bad thing, it shows that you are have enough self awareness to know your limits and act on that knowledge to achieve optimal results, it's a high IQ trait.
You should always be "insecure" no matter how good an aspect of yourself is, this goes for looks, achievements, social skills and everything else that might matter.
confidence is only good when it is faked by an insecure person, true, natural confidence is just the ignorance of one's flaws.

TLDR: insecui is high IQ and confidence should be faked when certain conditions are met.
op is high iq
 
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Most of the completely self-confident people I met were stupid. I knew twice as much as they did. Their stupid confidence is an indicator of cons that they don't see
They were lied to that they were very beautiful, successful and smart. They believed in it and resist it insanely
They can't grasp themselves well, sometimes it may just play in their favour though, imagine being so dumb that you are completely confident while being attractive and tall, life would be so blissful
 
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"insecure" really means self aware, it's not a derogatory term at all
Absolutely, but it is perceived as something inherently bad or not normal by golems
 
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Absolutely, but it is perceived as something inherently bad or not normal by golems
I hate how it's perceived, that's why I said that pretending to be confident is the way to go, if your stats allow for it that is
 
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it’s not a bad thing but when you make an argument solely based off of insecurity it makes someone question the integrity of their viewpoint

you can usually tell
 
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it’s not a bad thing but when you make an argument solely based off of insecurity it makes someone question the integrity of their viewpoint

you can usually tell
I am hmtn-lhtn, 6'4 with lifts, I have a good physique and I am decently smart.
I have nothing to not be confident of, but still I am insecure + an argument shouldn't be tied to the person that made it, an argument is an argument.
 
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I am hmtn-lhtn, 6'4 with lifts, I have a good physique and I am decently smart.
I have nothing to not be confident of, but still I am insecure + an argument shouldn't be tied to the person that made it, an argument is an argument.
i don’t disagree but

an incel and chad have two vastly different perspectives and (for example) the incels extremist mindset could stem from their own self hatred or insecurity rather than a genuine belief in that ideology
 
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very true people usually think only ugly people are insecure but insecurity will always be there for everyone they just hide it better than most do whoever says they’re confident in themselves is lying and it isn’t a bad thing self awareness is the best thing to have for self improvement
 
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i don’t disagree but

an incel and chad have two vastly different perspectives and (for example) the incels extremist mindset could stem from their own self hatred or insecurity rather than a genuine belief in that ideology
you're right, of course our points of view do influence the arguments that we make, I wouldn't assume that an argument doesn't have a lot of integrity just because of that fact though
 
very true people usually think only ugly people are insecure but insecurity will always be there for everyone they just hide it better than most do whoever says they’re confident in themselves is lying and it isn’t a bad thing self awareness is the best thing to have for self improvement
well said, true confidence only exists in very dumb people
 
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