JimmyDreamsOfZygos
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As someone exploring entertaining multiple women at once, I’ve been trying to take note of what works and what doesn’t to better hone my skills and maybe help out a bro or two. So far I have been decently successful at not succumbing to the main plague of an organization, relationships.
So far I’ve met nearly all of my candidates through Snapchat (local quickadd spam w/ public profile, “you better live near x
” copy paste intro message spammed x1000 daily, facetime pipeline -> thrifting link) and they have varied from background and age, but tend to be 2-3 years younger than me. For the most part it’s the same as any other intentions with a girl, you don’t need to be overly sexual before the link, it’s really after you hit that you need to lay the right groundwork.
My general insights for building and maintaining a roster are to never mention other girls unprompted and try to steer the convo away from them, same with being a homewrecker you don’t want them to think about “the other people,” you are just a convenient break from their worries. If they ask about other girls, be confident and state as if it was the most obvious thing in the world, “yeah I’m talking to a few other girls but nothing too serious.” If they press it, you can butter them up with “I’ve met up with a few before but I don’t really feel that comfortable with them like i do with you, I’ve blown them off actually so I could see you you know.” If they ask you to be exclusive, be firm with a NO. “I’m not gonna go out here and just hoe around, but that exclusivity is a commitment and it feels like entering a position where I could hurt you.” If you’re consistent with these views from the start, not only will she think of you as a source of dick and not a relationship, it’ll also prevent her from being able to blame you for lying to her or leading her on.
Most girls who like you will eventually want a relationship, so you have to create a reasonable excuse for why that’s not a good idea. Remember to be consistent, you can lie about getting out of a bad relationship and not wanting to jump back into anything serious, how you feel like you’re not in the right place to focus on another person right now, or even how you know you’d be a bad boyfriend and probably cheat. Remember if you’re already cracking it’ll be harder for her to let you go completely even if you fuck up.
Try not to call her too much once you hit, every once in a while ignore her for the entire day. It’ll increase her desire to win your attention, and also hurt her feelings a bit which helps damper relationship expectations. Remember you can make her like you so much that she will cut you off because she knows she can’t have you. You need to tread the line between her not fw you and liking you too much to be casual.
When you’re with a girl turn on a focus mode on your phone so other girls notifications won’t pop up. Emphasize how she’s “fun” and “hot” not anything that would be deeper or lead to more deep feelings. Never take her anywhere nice, remember at the end of the day you don’t want a relationship, and it’s kind of an asshole move to make her like you more just to reject her. You’ll have to choose to be “meaner” to protect her peace long term, don’t get blinded by the ego boost. Emphasize how you don’t want to hurt her. Be somewhat honest. Lying about your availability is how you build strong enemies, it’s easier to be consistent.
If you have any questions let me know, I’m still newish to juggling girls but if you’re honest and open about your intentions then everything will fall into place.
So far I’ve met nearly all of my candidates through Snapchat (local quickadd spam w/ public profile, “you better live near x
” copy paste intro message spammed x1000 daily, facetime pipeline -> thrifting link) and they have varied from background and age, but tend to be 2-3 years younger than me. For the most part it’s the same as any other intentions with a girl, you don’t need to be overly sexual before the link, it’s really after you hit that you need to lay the right groundwork. My general insights for building and maintaining a roster are to never mention other girls unprompted and try to steer the convo away from them, same with being a homewrecker you don’t want them to think about “the other people,” you are just a convenient break from their worries. If they ask about other girls, be confident and state as if it was the most obvious thing in the world, “yeah I’m talking to a few other girls but nothing too serious.” If they press it, you can butter them up with “I’ve met up with a few before but I don’t really feel that comfortable with them like i do with you, I’ve blown them off actually so I could see you you know.” If they ask you to be exclusive, be firm with a NO. “I’m not gonna go out here and just hoe around, but that exclusivity is a commitment and it feels like entering a position where I could hurt you.” If you’re consistent with these views from the start, not only will she think of you as a source of dick and not a relationship, it’ll also prevent her from being able to blame you for lying to her or leading her on.
Most girls who like you will eventually want a relationship, so you have to create a reasonable excuse for why that’s not a good idea. Remember to be consistent, you can lie about getting out of a bad relationship and not wanting to jump back into anything serious, how you feel like you’re not in the right place to focus on another person right now, or even how you know you’d be a bad boyfriend and probably cheat. Remember if you’re already cracking it’ll be harder for her to let you go completely even if you fuck up.
Try not to call her too much once you hit, every once in a while ignore her for the entire day. It’ll increase her desire to win your attention, and also hurt her feelings a bit which helps damper relationship expectations. Remember you can make her like you so much that she will cut you off because she knows she can’t have you. You need to tread the line between her not fw you and liking you too much to be casual.
When you’re with a girl turn on a focus mode on your phone so other girls notifications won’t pop up. Emphasize how she’s “fun” and “hot” not anything that would be deeper or lead to more deep feelings. Never take her anywhere nice, remember at the end of the day you don’t want a relationship, and it’s kind of an asshole move to make her like you more just to reject her. You’ll have to choose to be “meaner” to protect her peace long term, don’t get blinded by the ego boost. Emphasize how you don’t want to hurt her. Be somewhat honest. Lying about your availability is how you build strong enemies, it’s easier to be consistent.
If you have any questions let me know, I’m still newish to juggling girls but if you’re honest and open about your intentions then everything will fall into place.
this one girl invited ME out, we went thrifting and went back to mine, made out for like 3 hours, she sat on me and scratched my chest, all to NOT LET ME CRACK AND LEAVE AND NOT WANT TO LINK AGAIN. Genuinely so over some of these bird brained hoes.
