drakebell
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ive seen other guides on this but their way too long, so ill cut to the chase with no filler
at some point somehow you got a girls ig and then you follow her just for her to never open your message
why?
your profile is ass and its embarrassing for her to be following you
how to fix:
- name + bio
these should both be as simple as possible
your name should be close to your real name (ex. johndoe, john.doe, yk) imagine saying it outloud to a girl
dont complicate your bio - your city, school, and maybe sport is enough
- pictures
i see too many ppl jestermaxxing in their posts/pfp
its the most important to mog in these, especially the pfp as youre account will be private
if you think its worth it, post some with your friend group where you look considerably better than them (they might not like that)
fraud your lifestyle aswell, spam pics when your at the club/event and post the best ones
- private your account
youll get a follow back just out of their curiosity of what you post (or what you look like if you didnt meet irl)
- mass unfollowing
unfollow everyone that doesnt follow you back. if you have 50 followers but 1k following, you had no chance
ratio should be 2:1 if perfected (rare), but something like 200 followers and 160 following is fine
- follow people
mutuals + people from your school are the perfect accounts to follow, high chance of a follow back
follow about 100 a day or youll get limited by instagram, and repeat till you have >500 followers
you can keep doing it after but its necessary to atleast have that many
when youre done all of this, youll see a huge increase in the number of girls following you back and responding
this is all it takes
at some point somehow you got a girls ig and then you follow her just for her to never open your message
why?
your profile is ass and its embarrassing for her to be following you
how to fix:
- name + bio
these should both be as simple as possible
your name should be close to your real name (ex. johndoe, john.doe, yk) imagine saying it outloud to a girl
dont complicate your bio - your city, school, and maybe sport is enough
- pictures
i see too many ppl jestermaxxing in their posts/pfp
its the most important to mog in these, especially the pfp as youre account will be private
if you think its worth it, post some with your friend group where you look considerably better than them (they might not like that)
fraud your lifestyle aswell, spam pics when your at the club/event and post the best ones
- private your account
youll get a follow back just out of their curiosity of what you post (or what you look like if you didnt meet irl)
- mass unfollowing
unfollow everyone that doesnt follow you back. if you have 50 followers but 1k following, you had no chance
ratio should be 2:1 if perfected (rare), but something like 200 followers and 160 following is fine
- follow people
mutuals + people from your school are the perfect accounts to follow, high chance of a follow back
follow about 100 a day or youll get limited by instagram, and repeat till you have >500 followers
you can keep doing it after but its necessary to atleast have that many
when youre done all of this, youll see a huge increase in the number of girls following you back and responding
this is all it takes
