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I don't agree with everything but I do agree with some posts women posted
https://www.reddit. com/r/changemyview/comments/alyeuo/cmv_women_have_it_easier_when_it_comes_to/
https://www.reddit. com/r/changemyview/comments/alyeuo/cmv_women_have_it_easier_when_it_comes_to/
"it feels like guys are usually the ones to "get rejected" whilst women get to do the "rejecting".
Again, for this situation, it depends on what you mean by "easier." Yeah, getting rejected sucks. I know, I've been there plenty (as you mentioned, this seems to be changing and women are doing plenty of asking out, like I do). But I know lots of women who have been threatened, or actually hurt by men who they rejected. And there are frequently stories in the news about women who are murdered because they rejected someone. So...what do you mean by easier? More passive? More dangerous?
So sure, you have more people approach you, especially if you are good looking (if you are fat, or over 35, this changes dramatically), but it's not easier.
This is what gives rise to the classic dynamic. Men approach, and women screen carefully to make sure that 1) you're not a violent psychopath, and 2) you're actually someone they want to date.
This has only been my experience, but while attractive women may receive more initial interest, it is ultimately up to the guy as to whether he wants to "settle down" (or just have a relationship of any length lol). I'm a female in my early 20s and almost all of my girl friends end up tip-toeing around their own emotions in order to not "scare off" their boyfriend, (because they scare easily). Women may have more upfront options, but a lot of hurt and fear while trying to play their cards right to "keep his interest." I've even tried 30 year olds in search of more maturity and sureness, but alas have been let down![]()
The saying goes, “men are afraid women will laugh at them; women are afraid men will kill them.”
It’s not exactly a fair comparison.
It’s easier to get dates, I suppose — it’s been about 15 years since I dated. But we fear for our safety all the time and take all kinds of precautions that men rarely hear about.
I’d switch without hesitation.
This is true.I feel like with online dating and all that jazz, it makes dating far easier for women. If you compared a man and a woman of roughly the same attractiveness level, the woman would most likely receive far more matches
However, dating is multifaceted. While women get more matches, they are also get matched with more crazy people. In the country where I live, women are a lot more likely to get raped than men. Roofied and all that jazz. So yes, being a woman in the dating world has its perks, but it also has its downsides.