Invited to a pool-party of a 19yo girl

[Debetro]

you said ure 38

And?

This is my friend, he's 41 years old and slays weekly.

I don't see the problem

 

[Splinter901]

And?

This is my friend, he's 41 years old and slays weekly.

I don't see the problem

That's literally elderly.

 

[wollet2]

And?

This is my friend, he's 41 years old and slays weekly.

I don't see the problem

over

 

[MoggerGaston]

Hence why working your ass off to graduate from a top uni is hilarious cope unless you like studying.

How do you afford this shit btw?

I live very minimally. Student-dorm doesn't cost shit, then you have food. Those are the 2 major expenses.
Gym membership is extremely cheap being a student, so are most student-parties, etc.

I work part-time 11hours/week which is just enough to get me by (900 euro/month), and I have some savings from years ago for bigger expenses, holidays, etc.

I might buy a motorcycle some time soon, so I can travel around easier and cheaper than public transit.

 

[MoggerGaston]

>19
>pedo

These people are insane tbh. Nothing wrong with dating/fucking a 19yo, no matter what age you are.

In the end it's all about her liking the way you look and being in the mood.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Impossible to do that were I live, people just go to class and go home, you have classes with different people, you can't meet anyone anywhere.

This. When I was at uni people just went back to their dorms. Social circles are closed off after freshers week. @MoggerGaston How do u do this? I imagine the original social circle you were in when u first entered uni have all graduated so are you just entering new social circles every year at freshers week?

It's similar here. I don't vibe or socialize with anyone from my classes. Nor do I know anyone from my lectures/classes/projects.

I go to public student parties and events, thats where I meet most people. There's always some student event from some kind of organization, easy-access for students, cheap beer, etc.
Then I have the fact I live in a student-dorm so I always have young people people I am close to since I live with them.

I am planning on joining the student hockey club here in September, meet new people through that.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I also hang out with teenagers and jbs from time to time.

If you have collagen, are gymmaxed and fit, and you are able to crack jokes and have fun with younger people, you can easily get invited to events and parties.

Just don't be a boring older dork, be a cool older dude.

Exactly. You can't complain, moan or be depressed. You can't be anti-social or be low-energy. It's a failo.
You can't skip on too many parties cuz ur tired or have to work, etc.

You gotta have that young people energy.

And when people ask me why the fuck I am still in uni at 27yo, I give a positive free-spirit answer. I was busy exploring myself, learning who I am, getting over some past bad experiences, and developing myself in many ways beyond my studies. Which isn't far from the truth.

Just gotta keep it positive. Too many oldcels become too negative and bitter which is when they lose touch with young folks.

 

[MoggerGaston]

my guy what about student loans?? gonna be paying that shit off for the rest of ur life

my financial situation is kinda fucked, I have way too much student debt, etc.

But I am not too worried about it, it's the least of my problems. I need to fix my mental illnesses, feel valued, fix my personality-disorder, BDD, get more social/relationship experience, etc.

Money doesn't concern me at this point, and doesn't affect my life too much, beyond the fact that I can't signal status/wealth due to my lack of wealth. But young women largely don't care about that.

 

[Gengar]

And this is why I will stay a student forever, or as long as I possibly can. These kind of opportunities don't exist after college/university.
I have 0 interest in getting a job, a career and I will stay a student untill my mid 30s at the very least.

I vibe well with young guys and they don't seem to care at all that I am 27yo, I don't even larp my age anymore.
I think age-discrimination doesn't really exist anyways, it only exists in theory and on apps where you can set age boundaries.

People just judge you by the way you look. If you look ugly, then suddenly age will become an issue. You become a creepy guy that only interacts with younger people, immature, etc.
If people like the way you look, then your age isn't seen in this negative light and you just become that
'chill, older, free-spirited guy that doesn't take life seriously'.

My 22yo housemate, which I vibe well with, has a 19yo gf that's holding a pool party at her parent's place, which I've now been invited to.
So I will be there getting drunk with her and her 19yo female friends n shit.

JFL if u think I will ever get opportunities like this once I am no longer a student.

Student-life forever.

Once my looks start failing me, resulting in my age suddenly becoming a 'creep failo', i will rope.

Wageslavery among oldcels is not for me.

This kind of student life is only for those who aren’t doing STEM. My brother studied business and he went to a lot of parties. Unfortunately I’m going into STEM, so no pool parties by 19 year old women but rather sausage tests by 20 year old nerds.

 

[EdouardManlet]

He is probably larping or sth.

He said he was 27 already 2 years ago.

Then he said he did a hair transplant at 28.

Also, he looks above 30 for sure, IF you believe the pics he posted.

Over for timetraveller schizocels

 

[MoggerGaston]

yeah university is pretty cool. that was pretty much me for the year. i am 25 and have been hooking up with younger girls and dating because of sheer difference in exposure. get it out of your system. Everyone does in their 20's.

You and i probably the same benefit of looking younger despite being older. have fun but realize it will end at some point. i see dudes at the club who are way too old and don't know when it's over for them. don't be that dude.

Yeah I realize at some point the student-party life comes to an end.
Idk when, early 30s? Mid 30s? all depends on your looks I guess. Looks decide whether your age makes you a creep or the 'cool older guy'.

But I definitely plan to leave this lifestyle eventually, by my early 30s the latest tbh. Can't get stuck in this forever, but I still need to figure out what is a cool, chill lifestyle to have after college/university.
It's the main reason I have postponed graduation anyways, I didn't believe in the life that comes after it.
Normie wage-slavery just ain't it, so I gotta figure out something else that makes me happy. Once I have that figured out, I will leave my current student-life behind and get onto that new lifestyle. Probably around ~32yo or so, judging from how I am progressing atm in my studies.

Also depends on what people I meet, maybe I get some huge new inspiration of a cool lifestyle through someone I meet.
Maybe I get a real serious LTR somehow (jfl) and that affects my plans for the future after my studies.
Maybe I get some new passion/hobby/interest and that makes me want to finish my studies and have time for this new activity.
Etc, we will see. The future is a mystery, for now I gotta enjoy the present.

I already know that the techno/drug-scene is filled with people in their 30s, so I could always transcend into that lifestyle. Don't need to be a student anymore at that point. You have a job during the week and go clubbing and get high all weekend, have some degenerate sex parties with 30yo roasties on drugs, etc. Dark-rooms, fetish-clubs, drug-fueled raves. I saw it in Berlin especially, lots of guys and girls having that lifestyle in their mid 30s.

Just doesn't sound all that appealing though atm.
Like you say, I largely want to get this all out of my system in my 20s. Although since I am a late-bloomer I can give myself some extra years to get the experiences I've never had. And then find other experiences to enjoy, not get stuck in this.

I know exactly what you mean with the guys that are too old and look way out of place, going to night-clubs. It's absolutely over for them, just standing there with their drinks, none of the young people want anything to do with them. Although realistically it's not much different than a young 20yo ugly guy doing the same thing. Also has no chance with the girls and looks out of place.
So again, it's mostly about looks, not age. But as you age you become uglier obviously.

Awkward and creepy shit. I don't want to end up like that.

 

[MoggerGaston]

And?

This is my friend, he's 41 years old and slays weekly.

I don't see the problem

looks incredibly old and uninteresting for people at student-age. Has absolutely 0 chance in university/college or that crowd and its parties.

He would need to roid, get tats, and have decent money/logistics to vibe with the 20yo student-crowd at that age. And even then it'd probably be hard asf.

But I am sure he can fuck girls in their 30+s etc with that look. different lifestyle

 

[Guba]

And?

This is my friend, he's 41 years old and slays weekly.

I don't see the problem

He looks 55. Wow.

 

[MoggerGaston]

This kind of student life is only for those who aren’t doing STEM. My brother studied business and he went to a lot of parties. Unfortunately I’m going into STEM, so no pool parties by 19 year old women but rather sausage tests by 20 year old nerds.

I have 0 interaction with the people from my STEM classes, STEM lectures, STEM projects, etc.
95% of them are male, and 90% of the men are nerdy incels. Often commuting to some other city, never going to parties locally, etc.

Tbh I could put an effort into vibing with the ~5% that seem cool. Never really bothered and just disregarded all of it. But it's future potential.
I generally feel way more at home, less stressed, interacting with the nerdy incels. Since that's what I've always been and still am. I am generally very extroverted in that crowd. But then I get frustrated since I don't want to hang in that crowd/lifestyle anymore, talking about videogames etc.

But then I don't feel comfortable hanging with the 'cool kids' either, since I never did. Fucked brain.

But overall I largely interact with people doing other degrees, business like you say, psychology, sustainability xxx studies, etc. (Bio)medical sciences. It has less nerds and more down to earth, cooler people. Way more women too. Gotta meet them in the gym, through house-mates/friends, or at local parties though. Since I don't have any shared classes/lectures with them.

STEM was probably the worst mistake I made in my life thusfar. Not worth it considering the situation I came from.

My young adulthood should've been about developing the social/romantic mindset that I completely lacked in high-school. Developing a sense of self, self-esteem, which I also completely lacked from my abusive parental childhood.
Find out what I like, what I don't like. Lifestyle, clothing, learning how I like to spend my time, etc.

I really didn't need to further train my analytical/STEM mindset. It wasn't beneficiary for my life whatsoever.

But there's still time for this throughout your 20s tbh. As I am now discovering. Just gotta get over the 'shame' of being 'behind' on your peers in terms of career/studies/experiences I guess.
As I've learned so far with the few girls I dated, larping some other life, not being ur true self, trying to be what you think she wants you to be, etc. It hinders you development a lot aswell.

You need to find a balance between faking a personality to get experiences you want, and being yourself to truly develop yourself as a human being. Getting more comfortable in your own skin, finding out who you are.

I haven't found that balance yet. I've been larping too much, playing myself. Short-term benefits from getting good experiences, like the HTB I fucked a month ago. But then the long-term benefits aren't there because frauding costs too much energy and gives too little reward.

So the experiences are a waste tbh, you don't develop as a person from it by doing the stuff I did.

 

[MoggerGaston]

He looks 55. Wow.

Yeah he looks old asf. Student-maxxing wouldn't work for him.

It probably won't work for me soon either. I notice my collagen is getting worse, also your brain becomes older too. That's the biggest issue:
Less enthusiastic, lower energy, less open to new things, less desire to socialize, etc.

It's my brain that's my biggest concern with remaining in this student-life and enjoying it. The older you become, the more you want a more calm, laid-back lifestyle ngl. Atleast that's what I've been noticing and what I see around me.

No longer the high-energy doing crazy shit all the time.

Preserving youthful looks is the easy part. Preserving a youthful brain is the hard part.
Using drugs to get a mogger brain/mindset will only get you so far I've noticed. Although it definitely helps and gives you an edge of people that don't use. Drug-mogging normie students.

I will have to optimize my drug-usage for events/social-interactions though. Maybe start injecting testosterone at some point to stay more youthfull.

 

[Schizomogger]

This is OP at the party

 

[MoggerGaston]

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This is OP at the party

I will use cocaine/mephedrone and mog hard.

No point in not using cocaine at events like this.

 

[comingtothisJFL]

my financial situation is kinda fucked, I have way too much student debt, etc.

But I am not too worried about it, it's the least of my problems. I need to fix my mental illnesses, feel valued, fix my personality-disorder, BDD, get more social/relationship experience, etc.

Money doesn't concern me at this point, and doesn't affect my life too much, beyond the fact that I can't signal status/wealth due to my lack of wealth. But young women largely don't care about that.

yea also after 30yrs if you still aint paid that shit you aint gotta worry about it, so its not a big deal tbh am thinking of just lurking near or around universities rather then taking calsses u reckon this is a good idea? might even go back tbh because not having a degree is a massive failo

 

[comingtothisJFL]

Fuck

aNd i fully blew my uni experience

Can you imagine that??

It was so ass


Its ober

how? you did a hard course?

 

[Gengar]

I have 0 interaction with the people from my STEM classes, STEM lectures, STEM projects, etc.
95% of them are male, and 90% of the men are nerdy incels. Often commuting to some other city, never going to parties locally, etc.

Tbh I could put an effort into vibing with the ~5% that seem cool. Never really bothered and just disregarded all of it. But it's future potential.
I generally feel way more at home, less stressed, interacting with the nerdy incels. Since that's what I've always been and still am. I am generally very extroverted in that crowd. But then I get frustrated since I don't want to hang in that crowd/lifestyle anymore, talking about videogames etc.

But then I don't feel comfortable hanging with the 'cool kids' either, since I never did. Fucked brain.

But overall I largely interact with people doing other degrees, business like you say, psychology, sustainability xxx studies, etc. (Bio)medical sciences. It has less nerds and more down to earth, cooler people. Way more women too. Gotta meet them in the gym, through house-mates/friends, or at local parties though. Since I don't have any shared classes/lectures with them.

STEM was probably the worst mistake I made in my life thusfar. Not worth it considering the situation I came from.

My young adulthood should've been about developing the social/romantic mindset that I completely lacked in high-school. Developing a sense of self, self-esteem, which I also completely lacked from my abusive parental childhood.
Find out what I like, what I don't like. Lifestyle, clothing, learning how I like to spend my time, etc.

I really didn't need to further train my analytical/STEM mindset. It wasn't beneficiary for my life whatsoever.

But there's still time for this throughout your 20s tbh. As I am now discovering. Just gotta get over the 'shame' of being 'behind' on your peers in terms of career/studies/experiences I guess.
As I've learned so far with the few girls I dated, larping some other life, not being ur true self, trying to be what you think she wants you to be, etc. It hinders you development a lot aswell.

You need to find a balance between faking a personality to get experiences you want, and being yourself to truly develop yourself as a human being. Getting more comfortable in your own skin, finding out who you are.

I haven't found that balance yet. I've been larping too much, playing myself. Short-term benefits from getting good experiences, like the HTB I fucked a month ago. But then the long-term benefits aren't there because frauding costs too much energy and gives too little reward.

So the experiences are a waste tbh, you don't develop as a person from it by doing the stuff I did.

I guess it also depends on the location of your college. Unfortunately, the college I will go to will only cater to STEM. So I won't be able to meet people studying other majors because I won't ever see them at all. But having only guys in your class is for the best. Less chance of them trying to be cool to impress the few women in class by acting like dickbags in order to "score" some goodie points from women.

I understand "fake it till you make it" can be very draining and as you say the pay-off isn't worth it at all but I guess it also depends on the context. For a KHHV as myself it could be very well worth it to have sex but that's not something I would do, I am speaking from the perspective of any other KHHV who longs to have sex. Good luck with everything though, sounds like you need it!

Also thanks for sharing the lessons you have learned.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I guess it also depends on the location of your college. Unfortunately, the college I will go to will only cater to STEM. So I won't be able to meet people studying other majors because I won't ever see them at all. But having only guys in your class is for the best. Less chance of them trying to be cool to impress the few women in class by acting like dickbags in order to "score" some goodie points from women.

Yeah that's legit, especially if you want to be focused on your studies. There's many ways to meet women anyways.

I understand "fake it till you make it" can be very draining and as you say the pay-off isn't worth it at all but I guess it also depends on the context. For a KHHV as myself it could be very well worth it to have sex but that's not something I would do, I am speaking from the perspective of any other KHHV who longs to have sex.

Oh definitely. I 100% agree that faking it till you make it is advised if you struggle to lose your KHHV status, struggle to get any sexual interaction with women.
Having gone through the motions of kissing, sex, etc, makes everything less awkward, easier in the future. When you don't have to fake who you are anymore.

Good luck with everything though, sounds like you need it!

Also thanks for sharing the lessons you have learned.

Legit man. My life is one immense struggle of depression and negative emotions. I've been coping hard by abusing drugs a lot lately, but I know it's not a sustainable way of life, and it's getting worse and worse. Using more to get the same high. I hate my life.

But this is one of the few positive things in my life, I want to emphasize it. And in the future I hope that my life, and that of everyone else here, has more positive moments, instead of the negativity we've all been stuck in.

Positivity, hope; it gives energy. And energy leads to life-quality.

The blackpill is right, but at the same time being blackpilled, being surrounded by these ideas, negativity. It drains your energy, makes you negative yourself, more depressed. Lowers your life quality.

I think it's time for me to move on from here anyways, as I realize that surrounding yourself with positivity, even if it's delusional, ignorant of the truth, etc. leads to more energy. And energy is what I need right now, to get my life to where I want it to be.

 

[AscensionMan98]

Based.

Fail? OP has 2 masters degrees. You don‘t have to fail your courses to enjoy the student life. Just take on a new one once you finished one.

What's the point of all those degrees. In the end you'll wage slave for some company anyways or worse yet not get any jobs thrown at you and be a minimum wage cel with crushing debt all cause you gambled your degree would make you rich.

You can enjoy college life without being in uni. Just live near a campus . Go to bars near colleges. Go on campus and look at flyers for parties and clubs. . Join a Facebook group for upcoming parties and clubs. Majority of clubs won't check if your actually a student.

Their might be some that do but those are like fraternities or some top tier social organizations. You definetly don't need to do that to get college pussy, just attending college parties or bars near colleges will get you in touch with college students. Or you can hang around coffee areas and parks near college, meat colleges students their.

The idea that you have to be literally enrolled to enjoy college life is a cope and a giga waste of money and risk crushing debt all for a chance at success, vs you can just be on the side and worst case you get nothing no debt and no wasting your time in a hell hole

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

It's similar here. I don't vibe or socialize with anyone from my classes. Nor do I know anyone from my lectures/classes/projects.

I go to public student parties and events, thats where I meet most people. There's always some student event from some kind of organization, easy-access for students, cheap beer, etc.
Then I have the fact I live in a student-dorm so I always have young people people I am close to since I live with them.

I am planning on joining the student hockey club here in September, meet new people through that.

Wtf.
How tall are you? I suspect the only reason you have success is because of height - likely 190cm+ correct?.
Are you studying another degree? If so, what kind of degree bachelors, masters or phd - I thought different education levels are insulated from each other.

 

[Deleted member 29261]

And this is why I will stay a student forever, or as long as I possibly can. These kind of opportunities don't exist after college/university.
I have 0 interest in getting a job, a career and I will stay a student untill my mid 30s at the very least.

I vibe well with young guys and they don't seem to care at all that I am 27yo, I don't even larp my age anymore.
I think age-discrimination doesn't really exist anyways, it only exists in theory and on apps where you can set age boundaries.

People just judge you by the way you look. If you look ugly, then suddenly age will become an issue. You become a creepy guy that only interacts with younger people, immature, etc.
If people like the way you look, then your age isn't seen in this negative light and you just become that
'chill, older, free-spirited guy that doesn't take life seriously'.

My 22yo housemate, which I vibe well with, has a 19yo gf that's holding a pool party at her parent's place, which I've now been invited to.
So I will be there getting drunk with her and her 19yo female friends n shit.

JFL if u think I will ever get opportunities like this once I am no longer a student.

Student-life forever.

Once my looks start failing me, resulting in my age suddenly becoming a 'creep failo', i will rope.

Wageslavery among oldcels is not for me.

Cope

 

[MoggerGaston]

What's the point of all those degrees. In the end you'll wage slave for some company anyways or worse yet not get any jobs thrown at you and be a minimum wage cel with crushing debt all cause you gambled your degree would make you rich.

You can enjoy college life without being in uni. Just live near a campus . Go to bars near colleges. Go on campus and look at flyers for parties and clubs. . Join a Facebook group for upcoming parties and clubs. Majority of clubs won't check if your actually a student.

Their might be some that do but those are like fraternities or some top tier social organizations. You definetly don't need to do that to get college pussy, just attending college parties or bars near colleges will get you in touch with college students. Or you can hang around coffee areas and parks near college, meat colleges students their.

The idea that you have to be literally enrolled to enjoy college life is a cope and a giga waste of money and risk crushing debt all for a chance at success, vs you can just be on the side and worst case you get nothing no debt and no wasting your time in a hell hole

Career/Money I don't find very important/interesting at this point anyways, beyond having the basic finances to live an 'okay' minimalist lifestyle.
My social-life isn't active enough to run out of money. I don't go to enough events, parties, holidays, etc. for my life to cost a lot. maybe once that changes, I will be more motivated to make more money.

I am mostly focused on getting a good social-life, romance, and finding activities/hobbies that I like doing that make life worth living. Studies/career being on the backburner (for many years now).

I am slowly considering that I should treat studies/career as a separate thing though, independent of the things I actually value right now. And that I shouldn't let my studies/career suffer unnecessarily, just because I am focused on other goals rn.

Gotta keep that life moving. Advances in studies/career can lead to moving to a different city, different environment, etc. Which could also be great.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Wtf. Are you studying a degree (another bachelors, masters or phd?)

still doing the same bachelors ive been doing for the past 9 years. The last 6 years I've just been chilling, basically being NEET, not going to any lectures or passing any courses.

Not a great situation, but the result of my mental state and me realizing that excelling in academia didn't make me happy whatsoever, or brought me closer to any happiness.

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

still doing the same bachelors ive been doing for the past 9 years. The last 6 years I've just been chilling, basically being NEET, not going to any lectures or passing any courses.

Not a great situation, but the result of my mental state and me realizing that excelling in academia didn't make me happy whatsoever, or brought me closer to any happiness.

Do you get socially ostracized or bullied by other people living on campus due to your age? Have you had any mean comments?
Do you hang out with your on campus people you live with or are your social interaction mainly with people you meet at clubs or university sponsored get to togethers/parties?

 

[Allornothing]

These people are insane tbh. Nothing wrong with dating/fucking a 19yo, no matter what age you are.

In the end it's all about her liking the way you look and being in the mood.

Dicaprio himself iq mogs these age cucks back to the grave. At least he gets it.

Also 19 isn’t even young they are all fully grown sucking dick and doing drugs etc. no innocence left.

 

[Gengar]

Yeah that's legit, especially if you want to be focused on your studies. There's many ways to meet women anyways.

Definitely. I just want to focus on my studies and get that diploma. That's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less about women. They all disappoint me one way or the other anyway.

Oh definitely. I 100% agree that faking it till you make it is advised if you struggle to lose your KHHV status, struggle to get any sexual interaction with women.
Having gone through the motions of kissing, sex, etc, makes everything less awkward, easier in the future. When you don't have to fake who you are anymore.

Personally I'm not really interested in losing my KHHV status but that is for religious reasons. I think I already said this before a couple of times but I could lose my virginity if I wanted to; not just by means of an escort but also with civilian women, because I got a friend who could hook me up with his FWB, but that's not the path I want to walk on.

Legit man. My life is one immense struggle of depression and negative emotions. I've been coping hard by abusing drugs a lot lately, but I know it's not a sustainable way of life, and it's getting worse and worse. Using more to get the same high. I hate my life.

But this is one of the few positive things in my life, I want to emphasize it. And in the future I hope that my life, and that of everyone else here, has more positive moments, instead of the negativity we've all been stuck in.

Positivity, hope; it gives energy. And energy leads to life-quality.

The blackpill is right, but at the same time being blackpilled, being surrounded by these ideas, negativity. It drains your energy, makes you negative yourself, more depressed. Lowers your life quality.

I think it's time for me to move on from here anyways, as I realize that surrounding yourself with positivity, even if it's delusional, ignorant of the truth, etc. leads to more energy. And energy is what I need right now, to get my life to where I want it to be.

I'm in the exact same boat: my life's been like that as well. I only tried to cope with drugs once but ultimately I decided to call it off. I'd rather do it sober like I always have. But yeah, sounds like you built a tolerance for drugs and that's objectively bad.

I can relate to wanting to be more positive. I'm constantly negative when it concerns myself. But I've started to become stoic which I think is also helpful. I believe being stoic falls in line with the whitepill. I'm not a proponent of the blackpill as I think it's a self-defeatist attitude filled with negativity. I already got enough negativity of my own, don't need any more of that. Stoicness is the way to go, if you ask me.

Definitely gonna miss you though if you leave. If you don't mind, I would give you my Whatsapp number in private to stay in touch or something.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Do you get socially ostracized or bullied by other people living on campus due to your age?

people are definitely weirded out sometimes, but not always. It's a 50/50 tbh.

Doesn't really bother me because in general in life, you aren't going to vibe with most people anyways. I like to think that the people that are weirded out by my age, aren't the people I would vibe with otherwise anyways. So nothing of value was lost.

Have you had any mean comments?

Never in my face. Probably many times behind my back though.

Do you hang out with your on campus people you live with or are your social interaction mainly with people you meet at clubs or university sponsored get to togethers/parties?

I hang out mostly with the 6 other students that I live with. Next to that I have a few young colleagues from my part-time weekend job that I hangout with occasionally. Then I often go to parties/raves solo or with the people mentioned before, and meet new people there, although I've never had a lasting connection from there. But in the moment I seem to vibe just fine with them.

Me not getting any friends/connections from the clubs/parties is probably mostly caused by my own mental issues and me distancing myself from people socially unnecessarily.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Dicaprio himself iq mogs these age cucks back to the grave. At least he gets it.

I never understood the age-cucking tbh. I have friends/housemates age 21-22 that feel 'uncomfortable' dating an 18yo girl. It's just insane to me how you would make an issue out of that.

it reminds me of the 'oversocialization' that ted kaczynski talked about in his manifesto:

The moral code of our society is so demanding that no one can think, feel and act in a completely moral way. For example, we are not supposed to hate anyone, yet almost everyone hates somebody at some time or other, whether he admits it to himself or not.
Some people are so highly socialized that the attempt to think, feel and act morally imposes a severe burden on them. In order to avoid feelings of guilt, they continually have to deceive themselves about their own motives and find moral explanations for feelings and actions that in reality have a non-moral origin. We use the term “oversocialized” to describe such people.

Which is where I think most of the 'anti-pedo' shit comes from.

Also 19 isn’t even young they are all fully grown sucking dick and doing drugs etc. no innocence left.

Definitely. Most girls at 19yo have fucked several guys already, the 19yo girl I lost my KHHV to, 4 years ago, already had n-count 7. Started at 14yo.

Even back then, when I was a KHHV 23yo, dating this 19yo slut, some guys were already pestering me about the 'age-gap' and how I am dating this young innocent girl.

Just cagefuel. Female-halo and misandry that is typical in relationships/sex/society. People always assume the worst about men.

 

[Allornothing]

I never understood the age-cucking tbh. I have friends/housemates age 21-22 that feel 'uncomfortable' dating an 18yo girl. It's just insane to me how you would make an issue out of that.

The truth is the only incentive most girls have nowadays to fuck many guys their age is that it’s pretty much the only socially acceptable way of things. If ugly cucks weren’t obsessed with securing loose pussy, girls would just be fucking older guys. These same young guys then get jealous when they grow older and they’re suffering the consequences of their own dumb ideology, so now they can’t fuck young girls. Because they are ugly and there is no social acceptability incentive for girls to fuck them, they are left with nothing.

It’s basically like when your ugly friend says they wouldn’t fuck a decent looking girl. It’s rejecting something before it has the chance to reject you. These guys seethe when guys their age take prime pussy. If a good looking young girl approached one your housemates and showed clear interest they would be dtf immediately, especially if no one would find out.

Honestly I wish I could just live in a hut in the mountains and hunt for my own food. It’s quite genius that literally everything has been rigged against, not just men, but the happiness of women too. Jews won. It’s over.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Definitely. I just want to focus on my studies and get that diploma. That's all that matters to me. I couldn't care less about women. They all disappoint me one way or the other anyway.

That's good. Try to focus on other positive things in your life. Trips you want to do, hobbies, sports, things you like to do, but also very important: People you like to socialize with. Socialization is key to mental health ngl, doesn't have to be with women.

Personally I'm not really interested in losing my KHHV status but that is for religious reasons. I think I already said this before a couple of times but I could lose my virginity if I wanted to; not just by means of an escort but also with civilian women, because I got a friend who could hook me up with his FWB, but that's not the path I want to walk on.

That's completely fine. You aren't missing out on a lot anyways unless you strike out with a good woman. Have an emotional connection, meet-up frequently, etc.

I have sex like once every 6 months, usually some random slay from OLD that I never see again. And while it feels good and intimate for a few hours, in such low frequency it's meaningless to my overall life tbh. Has no real impact, not worth the effort I put into it.

I'm in the exact same boat: my life's been like that as well. I only tried to cope with drugs once but ultimately I decided to call it off. I'd rather do it sober like I always have. But yeah, sounds like you built a tolerance for drugs and that's objectively bad.

Definitely. I don't recommend using drugs, especially not when you are depressed or feeling down. It can definitely spiral out of control in such way to make your life even worse than it was before in the long run.

I know personally that I am not really addiction-sensitive. And I also don't think I am sensitive towards psychosis, going crazy from the drugs.
But I know many other people would've had terrible experiences and outcomes from the amount of drugs I've used. Can't recommend.

I can relate to wanting to be more positive. I'm constantly negative when it concerns myself. But I've started to become stoic which I think is also helpful. I believe being stoic falls in line with the whitepill. I'm not a proponent of the blackpill as I think it's a self-defeatist attitude filled with negativity. I already got enough negativity of my own, don't need any more of that. Stoicness is the way to go, if you ask me.

I used to be very much into Stoicness a couple years ago. Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and much more.
I think it definitely has its place in dealing with negative emotions, life circumstances. It can help you regain ground when you overwhelmed or lost. But I don't think that keeping out emotions entirely is healthy in the end.

Emotions are what makes us human. It's what makes life fun, interesting, loving, passionate, but also painful, anxious, shameful, etc.

As incels, or users of this forum, looksmaxxers, whatever you like to identify yourself as here. We clearly have had way too much pain, anxiety; negative emotions. And not enough love, pleasure, feeling of belonging, etc. Which is just unfortunate from our circumstances in the past and present.

And I think on top of that, we've also poorly capable of dealing with these negative emotions and not getting stuck in them, affecting our life quality a lot. Not having the right people in our environment to talk about this, not having other positive things going on in our life to counter the negative and keep us going.

Atleast that's what I've been focusing on lately. Trying to compartmentalize my life and not letting my social/romantic failures also negatively affect all the other aspects of my life. Like my hobbies, self-esteem, ambitions, dreams, etc.

Definitely gonna miss you though if you leave. If you don't mind, I would give you my Whatsapp number in private to stay in touch or something.

If I delete, I will shoot you a message so we can stay in touch.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

my financial situation is kinda fucked, I have way too much student debt, etc.

But I am not too worried about it, it's the least of my problems. I need to fix my mental illnesses, feel valued, fix my personality-disorder, BDD, get more social/relationship experience, etc.

Money doesn't concern me at this point, and doesn't affect my life too much, beyond the fact that I can't signal status/wealth due to my lack of wealth. But young women largely don't care about that.

Is your degree in something useful at least? Like computer science or finance or something?

 

[Gengar]

That's good. Try to focus on other positive things in your life. Trips you want to do, hobbies, sports, things you like to do, but also very important: People you like to socialize with. Socialization is key to mental health ngl, doesn't have to be with women.

Yeah, I'm actually getting in touch with some friends from high school again (I had already seen them in later years, but eventually they all got busy with life and all that). This week or the week after, I'll be going to Amsterdam to meet up with another high school friend again. He's the one who introduced me to LSD (he's also since then quit, apparently). I like to socialize with men mostly (no homo).

That's completely fine. You aren't missing out on a lot anyways unless you strike out with a good woman. Have an emotional connection, meet-up frequently, etc.

I have sex like once every 6 months, usually some random slay from OLD that I never see again. And while it feels good and intimate for a few hours, in such low frequency it's meaningless to my overall life tbh. Has no real impact, not worth the effort I put into it.

Perhaps you should film these sexual encounters so you can relive that moment and feel good again everytime you watch it. XD (What being a coomer does to a mfer).

Definitely. I don't recommend using drugs, especially not when you are depressed or feeling down. It can definitely spiral out of control in such way to make your life even worse than it was before in the long run.

I know personally that I am not really addiction-sensitive. And I also don't think I am sensitive towards psychosis, going crazy from the drugs.
But I know many other people would've had terrible experiences and outcomes from the amount of drugs I've used. Can't recommend.

I guess I am lucky in the sense that I have never developed an addiction. Not even a nicotine addiction despite smoking heavily from 13 until 18. Good times, though. Cigarettes cost 4,40 per big pack. Now it's easily up to 7,20+ euros for a smaller pack. Ridiculous. I am of the belief that it is best to handle things sober; unironically it does make you mentally stronger, I feel.

I used to be very much into Stoicness a couple years ago. Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and much more.
I think it definitely has its place in dealing with negative emotions, life circumstances. It can help you regain ground when you overwhelmed or lost. But I don't think that keeping out emotions entirely is healthy in the end.

Emotions are what makes us human. It's what makes life fun, interesting, loving, passionate, but also painful, anxious, shameful, etc.

As incels, or users of this forum, looksmaxxers, whatever you like to identify yourself as here. We clearly have had way too much pain, anxiety; negative emotions. And not enough love, pleasure, feeling of belonging, etc. Which is just unfortunate from our circumstances in the past and present.

And I think on top of that, we've also poorly capable of dealing with these negative emotions and not getting stuck in them, affecting our life quality a lot. Not having the right people in our environment to talk about this, not having other positive things going on in our life to counter the negative and keep us going.

Atleast that's what I've been focusing on lately. Trying to compartmentalize my life and not letting my social/romantic failures also negatively affect all the other aspects of my life. Like my hobbies, self-esteem, ambitions, dreams, etc.

I get where you are coming from. Completely killing your emotions for the rest of your life isn't good or even healthy, but I do think killing your emotions while you go through a difficult time in your life is absolutely beneficial. So context matters, as you know, nothing is black and white.

You bring up a very good point; I discovered the reason I was extremely depressed for a long time was because I didn't have anyone to talk about it. So talking is important and can help a lot, as long it is with the right people. At the same time, nothing positive went on in my life either; just negative things, negative things and more negative things. The only positive thing about my life right now is that I don't feel bad anymore. It's a God-sent blessing, me thinks.

I hope the whole compertmentalizing your life thing is working out! It should. Trying to create boxes in your mind, basically, is a good idea -- leave the negative where it is and don't let it overflow. Good attitude.

If I delete, I will shoot you a message so we can stay in touch.

Yay!

On that note, I will go now, as it's time for me to sleep. Have a good day bhai!

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I will use cocaine/mephedrone and mog hard.

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No point in not using cocaine at events like this.

You look 22 max, how are you so youthful when you abuse so much drugs? I thought that ages people.

 

[Splinter901]

You look 22 max, how are you so youthful when you abuse so much drugs? I thought that ages people.

I think he looks like he is in the 25-29 bracket, not deteriorated but fully developed.

 

[nevermind2]

After 1 year Idk a single person at my uni nigga

 

[Deleted member 2381]

OP you should do Erasmus if your uni offers it

Literally the easiest environment to slay I have ever seen. I legit saw subhumans slaying. My friend did a year in Prague and when I was visiting I witnessed some fat greasy spanish guy slaying a legit Stacylite

The accommodation was huge too, girls would literally just invite you upstairs if you matched them on Tinder

I rage everyday that my uni didn't offer this shit

 

[MoggerGaston]

You look 22 max, how are you so youthful when you abuse so much drugs? I thought that ages people.

drugs make you younger

 

[Artbreeder Is Law]

still doing the same bachelors ive been doing for the past 9 years. The last 6 years I've just been chilling, basically being NEET, not going to any lectures or passing any courses.

Not a great situation, but the result of my mental state and me realizing that excelling in academia didn't make me happy whatsoever, or brought me closer to any happiness.

LMAO how based is this guy but it's seem that the theory that life ends after uni is true wageslaving life seem to be so fkn suifuel.

 

[Allornothing]

LMAO how based is this guy but it's seem that the theory that life ends after uni is true wageslaving life seem to be so fkn suifuel.

It’s hard for most people to accept that the best years of your life are over while you’re still young at ~21. Most people probably thought they would be enjoying life till they are ~30.

 

[MoggerGaston]

It’s hard for most people to accept that the best years of your life are over while you’re still young at ~21. Most people probably thought they would be enjoying life till they are ~30.

Not everyone has had their best years by their early twenties.

If you grew up ugly, bullied, in an abusive household, poor, etc. It can be, although incredibly hard, that your later years are more enjoyable.
Getting over the trauma and healing mentally is the hardest part though.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

OP you should do Erasmus if your uni offers it

Literally the easiest environment to slay I have ever seen. I legit saw subhumans slaying. My friend did a year in Prague and when I was visiting I witnessed some fat greasy spanish guy slaying a legit Stacylite

The accommodation was huge too, girls would literally just invite you upstairs if you matched them on Tinder

I rage everyday that my uni didn't offer this shit

Wtf is Erasmus? Also why wouldn't the girls fuck chads instead of ugly guys in the program?

 

[Johanjohan]

And this is why I will stay a student forever, or as long as I possibly can. These kind of opportunities don't exist after college/university.
I have 0 interest in getting a job, a career and I will stay a student untill my mid 30s at the very least.

I vibe well with young guys and they don't seem to care at all that I am 27yo, I don't even larp my age anymore.
I think age-discrimination doesn't really exist anyways, it only exists in theory and on apps where you can set age boundaries.

People just judge you by the way you look. If you look ugly, then suddenly age will become an issue. You become a creepy guy that only interacts with younger people, immature, etc.
If people like the way you look, then your age isn't seen in this negative light and you just become that
'chill, older, free-spirited guy that doesn't take life seriously'.

My 22yo housemate, which I vibe well with, has a 19yo gf that's holding a pool party at her parent's place, which I've now been invited to.
So I will be there getting drunk with her and her 19yo female friends n shit.

JFL if u think I will ever get opportunities like this once I am no longer a student.

Student-life forever.

Once my looks start failing me, resulting in my age suddenly becoming a 'creep failo', i will rope.

Wageslavery among oldcels is not for me.

Are you really 27? You look older tbh

 

[Deleted member 6573]

still doing the same bachelors ive been doing for the past 9 years. The last 6 years I've just been chilling, basically being NEET, not going to any lectures or passing any courses.

Not a great situation, but the result of my mental state and me realizing that excelling in academia didn't make me happy whatsoever, or brought me closer to any happiness.

nigga how are you going to deal with all that student debt jfl

wouldnt applying for a leave of absence be smarter so you dont have to keep paying to fail courses

 

[MoggerGaston]

nigga how are you going to deal with all that student debt jfl

wouldnt applying for a leave of absence be smarter so you dont have to keep paying to fail courses

I live in student housing. If I quit my studies I will be homeless. So I have to keep studying forever.


Normal housing is unaffordable in the netherlands and I am not gonna work more than the 12 hours/week I already do.

Only other option is taking a plane to syria and going back to the netherlands as a refugee. You get free housing+shitton of money.

 

[Deleted member 6573]

I live in student housing. If I quit my studies I will be homeless. So I have to keep studying forever.


Normal housing is unaffordable in the netherlands and I am not gonna work more than the 12 hours/week I already do.

Only other option is taking a plane to syria and going back to the netherlands as a refugee. You get free housing+shitton of money.

Mirin ngl tbh. How long you gonna keep studentmaxxing? Also is there anything you are doing to collagenmax and retain youthfulness?