Is 20 too late to have a good youth?

[suicidemonkey]

Basically wasted the past like 7 years with depression, extremely low self esteem, low motivation, etc…

If I got lean, I already know I’d be able to pull cute girls (20% body fat currently). Is there any point if I don’t want a girlfriend ?

Sex doesn’t really motivate me, I’m also about to start working in the trades so I won’t be able to have a classic college experience.

Without a gf, is there much point to getting lean? What about situationships or casual flings with girls.

 

[futureschizo]

Your youth is OVER bro

 

[NotsoNolann]

Basically wasted the past like 7 years with depression, extremely low self esteem, low motivation, etc…

If I got lean, I already know I’d be able to pull cute girls (20% body fat currently). Is there any point if I don’t want a girlfriend ?

Sex doesn’t really motivate me, I’m also about to start working in the trades so I won’t be able to have a classic college experience.

Without a gf, is there much point to getting lean? What about situationships or casual flings with girls.

Wrap it up unc

 

[Zygomaticos]

Basically wasted the past like 7 years with depression, extremely low self esteem, low motivation, etc…

If I got lean, I already know I’d be able to pull cute girls (20% body fat currently). Is there any point if I don’t want a girlfriend ?

Sex doesn’t really motivate me, I’m also about to start working in the trades so I won’t be able to have a classic college experience.

Without a gf, is there much point to getting lean? What about situationships or casual flings with girls.

you still have plenty of time, your 20´s is made for you to make mistakes, party and do crazy shit.
Life just kind of begins on your 20´s, is when you have freedom, do whatever bro.

 

[Zygomaticos]

If you don´t want a girlfriend you don´t want a girlfriend is simple.

Focus on yourself or give your life into one hobby of yours and be forever happy.

 

[o_Owtf]

No bro

 

[Triceratops]

you assexual or sum?
What does it mean to have a good youth to you?

 

[tarkdriad33]

Owari da, subette owari da, watashi mo owarimashita

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

You’re gonna be 70 still wanting pussy, youth is mental

 

[suicidemonkey]

you assexual or sum?
What does it mean to have a good youth to you?

Wait what makes you think I’m asexual

 

[Part-Time Chad]

You’re gonna be 70 still wanting pussy, youth is mental

JFL. I know a lady who's 78 who refers to others as "old people" and thinks she isn't one of them.

 

[Saint Casanova]

Youth, yes. That usually ends at 20.

You should focus on having a good life now

 

[DeborahAnnWollFARTS]

Your youth is OVER bro

 

[DeborahAnnWollFARTS]

If you don´t want a girlfriend you don´t want a girlfriend is simple.

Focus on yourself or give your life into one hobby of yours and be forever happy.

 

[Outlander]

20 isn't old as far as biology goes, however is very old to be incel and lacking a social life. By that age if you failed to get these things you're likely just too late and they'll never happen

You're just so far behind in terms of milestones for the age that nobody is gonna relate to you or want to be around you. I know because I'm in my early 20s and KHHV still with almost no social life

 

[Outlander]

you still have plenty of time, your 20´s is made for you to make mistakes, party and do crazy shit.
Life just kind of begins on your 20´s, is when you have freedom, do whatever bro.

You're likely never gonna succeed romantically or socially in your 20s if your teens were a total waste. It's the snowball effect. Bad life experiences and lacking good things tend to lead to a continuation of this cycle. Same for good things

Those who had a good romantic/ social life in their childhood and teens will likely have that for life, along with many other opportunities in life too, and the opposite of true for those who lacked these things when young. I'm in my early 20s and life just got dryer and more cold as I got older, since it wasn't even good when young

 

[Zygomaticos]

You're likely never gonna succeed romantically or socially in your 20s if your teens were a total waste. It's the snowball effect. Bad life experiences and lacking good things tend to lead to a continuation of this cycle. Same for good things

Those who had a good romantic/ social life in their childhood and teens will likely have that for life, along with many other opportunities in life too, and the opposite of true for those who lacked these things when young. I'm in my early 20s and life just got dryer and more cold as I got older, since it wasn't even good when young

It is never too late though, there are many examples.

 

[Outlander]

It is never too late though, there are many examples.

In many ways it is too late even if you do by some crazy luck get a gf later in life. You're just so far behind in terms of experience and also you'll be jaded from all the years you went without

 

[sick kunt31]

wrap it unc

 

[Zygomaticos]

In many ways it is too late even if you do by some crazy luck get a gf later in life. You're just so far behind in terms of experience and also you'll be jaded from all the years you went without

No you won´t man, there´s nothing holding you back from doing all the things that you wanted to do in your childhood.

As long as it doesn´t involve some diddy shit, you can always do what you like or what you liked, it just has become more difficult now because of responsibilities such as work, bills...

For example you can still experience teenage love, It´s just called teenage love because it mostly happens on your teen ages but the actual thing is the feeling of first love, and if you´ve never loved or been loved you can still experience that. It´s simple.

You can still have that best friend that most people have on their childhood, but just do it now, nothing holding you back. I really don´t understand.

What do you want, what have you missed out on?

 

[Outlander]

No you won´t man, there´s nothing holding you back from doing all the things that you wanted to do in your childhood.

As long as it doesn´t involve some diddy shit, you can always do what you like or what you liked, it just has become more difficult now because of responsibilities such as work, bills...

For example you can still experience teenage love, It´s just called teenage love because it mostly happens on your teen ages but the actual thing is the feeling of first love, and if you´ve never loved or been loved you can still experience that. It´s simple.

You can still have that best friend that most people have on their childhood, but just do it now, nothing holding you back. I really don´t understand.

What do you want, what have you missed out on?

Certain things have to happen at the correct times in life or they'll just never be the same. Getting your first girlfriend at 20+ is never gonna feel as good as if you got that at 14, and by 20 women are less pleasant to be around and have higher expectations, along with not being a virgin.

So even assuming you are immune to the psychological damage of missing dating in your youth and fall in love fully, the woman wont. She'll be special to you since she's all you have but to her you're just the backup plan and she's already been ran through by men she deems more desirable. She isn't going to treat you like she treated her first bf. Even assuming she was actually loving and nice to you, there's nothing you can do that will be a fresh new experience for her that will impress her. It's all stuff she's done many times while you're the only one experiencing it for the first time in your life

 

[suicidemonkey]

Your youth is OVER bro

Is it truly ? Why ?

 

[superpsycho]

its definitely in the later stages but not all hope is lost

 

[iblamexyz]

Basically wasted the past like 7 years with depression, extremely low self esteem, low motivation, etc…

If I got lean, I already know I’d be able to pull cute girls (20% body fat currently). Is there any point if I don’t want a girlfriend ?

Sex doesn’t really motivate me, I’m also about to start working in the trades so I won’t be able to have a classic college experience.

Without a gf, is there much point to getting lean? What about situationships or casual flings with girls.

not at all