Is a woman talking to you out of nowhere an ioi?

[Deleted member 16853]

So I was rollerskating, and sat down at a water area to get some rest, and this women starts talking to me. she said "are you not hot wearing jeans in this weather"

Was she just being nice? or... Btw I won't say what My responses to her were, Just remembering how autistic It was makes me cage

 

[hebbewem]

Its an ioi

 

[alriodai]

Yee

 

[buckchadley31]

Its an ioi

do you get iois hebbe?

 

[hebbewem]

do you get iois hebbe?

I don't

 

[fauxfox]

At the very least it means you look approachable and non-threatening

 

[Deleted member 19294]

So I was rollerskating, and sat down at a water area to get some rest, and this women starts talking to me. she said "are you not hot wearing jeans in this weather"

Was she just being nice? or... Btw I won't say what My responses to her were, Just remembering how autistic It was makes me cage

It was an IOI... they will usually make some random comment or ask a dumb question to initiate a convo with you

 

[Deleted member 18849]

No probably. Just confident enough to talk to you

 

[Deleted member 17525]

So I was rollerskating, and sat down at a water area to get some rest, and this women starts talking to me. she said "are you not hot wearing jeans in this weather"

Was she just being nice? or... Btw I won't say what My responses to her were, Just remembering how autistic It was makes me cage

Are you serious? Couldn't you ask her yourself? How the fuck would we know without being there

 

[BearBoy]

Your mother is giving me signs by putting her lips on my cock does this mean she loves me?

 

[Deleted member 16853]

Are you serious? Couldn't you ask her yourself? How the fuck would we know without being there

how tf ima ask a stranger "did you just give me an ioi?"

 

[Deleted member 16853]

At the very least it means you look approachable and non-threatening

I doubt it, I look the most menacing outside in the sunlight

 

[fauxfox]

I doubt it, I look the most menacing outside in the sunlight

Why would they approach a menacing looking guy? Doesn't make sense, it's likely the opposite and you didn't appear menacing to them.

 

[Deleted member 17525]

how tf ima ask a stranger "did you just give me an ioi?"

Man if she was attractive to you, you could've just said something like "hey i think you look cute, wanna go out on a date sometime?". And if she was not attractive to you, does it even matter if she is interested? I don't get you

 

[Deleted member 16853]

Man if she was attractive to you, you could've just said something like "hey i think you look cute, wanna go out on a date sometime?". And if she was not attractive to you, does it even matter if she is interested? I don't get you

I didn't even look her in the eye, was too embarassed

 

[Deleted member 17525]

I didn't even look her in the eye, was too embarassed

Damn, it's over

 

[EdouardManlet]

Over for gordonbombaycels

 

[BoneDensity]

No, she was probably genuinely baffled why you're wearing jeans in the summer heat like some weirdo.

 

[Deleted member 16853]

No, she was probably genuinely baffled why you're wearing jeans in the summer heat like some weirdo.

I've worn jeans with a jacket in 100+ Degrees Farenheight, a lil heat never hurt anyone

 

[OldRooster]

"Out of nowhere" is pretty much always how women approach men. Not that it is super common. She will stalk the guy out of sight for a few minutes before making her blindside approach. A woman will almost never make eye contact with a guy before approaching him.

For teens it is probably different, but for adults it almost always a women that is significantly below the looks of the man.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Man if she was attractive to you, you could've just said something like "hey i think you look cute, wanna go out on a date sometime?". And if she was not attractive to you, does it even matter if she is interested? I don't get you

non nt users be like

 

[Deleted member 15674]

So I was rollerskating, and sat down at a water area to get some rest, and this women starts talking to me. she said "are you not hot wearing jeans in this weather"

Was she just being nice? or... Btw I won't say what My responses to her were, Just remembering how autistic It was makes me cage

yeah dude it was an IOI, should have spoken to her longer and had a long chat, then asked for her number or some shit and say it was good talking to her. From there on you could have made your move.

 

[Deleted member 1209]

Yes, either that or you look like a friendly/non threatening soy guy

 

[Deleted member 16853]

yeah dude it was an IOI, should have spoken to her longer and had a long chat, then asked for her number or some shit and say it was good talking to her. From there on you could have made your move.

for me to have a conversation for more than 10 minutes, without talking about anime is VERY difficult

 

[Deleted member 16853]

Yes, either that or you look like a friendly/non threatening soy guy

I swear I don't look soy

 

[Deleted member 15674]

for me to have a conversation for more than 10 minutes, without talking about anime is VERY difficult

it's not too hard dude, I can give you some tips if you want tbh. Would probably be easier to do it on discord vc if you are interested

 

[Deleted member 16853]

it's not too hard dude, I can give you some tips if you want tbh. Would probably be easier to do it on discord vc if you are interested

Nicest user on this website

 

[Deleted member 17525]

non nt users be like

Your mom is your best friend and you have never touched a woman besides her

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Nicest user on this website

pm me your disc if interested my guy, I will hop on vc and shit

Your mom is your best friend and you have never touched a woman besides her

please shut up dude, you really have 0 self awareness and it's obvious.

A girl makes a comment about his trousers and you want this idiot to just ask her out on a date straight away? You've watched too many PUA videos

 

[Deleted member 17525]

pm me your disc if interested my guy, I will hop on vc and shit

please shut up dude, you really have 0 self awareness and it's obvious.

A girl makes a comment about his trousers and you want this idiot to just ask her out on a date straight away? You've watched too many PUA videos

Go suck on your mom

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Go suck on your mom

go watch some more pua videos idiot.

 

[Deleted member 16853]

pm me your disc if interested my guy, I will hop on vc and shit

please shut up dude, you really have 0 self awareness and it's obvious.

A girl makes a comment about his trousers and you want this idiot to just ask her out on a date straight away? You've watched too many PUA videos

im good, I already know what I need to do: stop being a bitch and be more agressive, I've gotten better in the past 5 years, In the beginning of highschool I was too nervous to even talk, So I ended up being silent the whole year. Now I can hold an autistic conversation

 

[Deleted member 15674]

im good, I already know what I need to do: stop being a bitch and be more agressive, I've gotten better in the past 5 years, In the beginning of highschool I was too nervous to even talk, So I ended up being silent the whole year. Now I can hold an autistic conversation

there is a skill to holding conversations dude, most guys - even NT people, just go full interview mode with girls.

 

[Deleted member 17525]

go watch some more pua videos idiot.

I will, as soon as I'm done with your bitch mother

 

[TITUS]

Yes, women will often start interactions with you because they are interested in you.

 

[isis_Bleach]

So I was rollerskating, and sat down at a water area to get some rest, and this women starts talking to me. she said "are you not hot wearing jeans in this weather"

Was she just being nice? or... Btw I won't say what My responses to her were, Just remembering how autistic It was makes me cage

Sometimes
Need more confirmation after that