Graham
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I'm currently trying to find a girlfriend for a serious relationship, but I'm constantly getting ghosted, I find it hard to open up to people so when we are talking and getting along, then she either leaves me on read or slowly stops messaging back it's really exhausting.
In the pictures I use I'm around a low / mid MTN, white and 188cm barefoot, and I'm almost completely reliant on JBW (very rarely I match with someone from my own country, and they are harder to talk to as they put in less effort). The app automatically adjusted my range settings, as there aren't many people where I live, so it's hard to meet up with some people in these further away cities.
I'm almost always the one to message first (after the initial first message on bumble), but it seems almost all loose interest really fast. I usually get lot of them from bumble to Instagram, but then a lot of them get annoyed that I'm talking to other girls (they expect me to be exclusive when they aren't and we've never met or been on a date). I'm in my mid 20s now, and sometimes if past relationship topic comes up they think it's weird that I've never had a girlfriend.
Does anyone have any experience / advice with this?
@Xangsane @forevermirin @SecularIslamist
In the pictures I use I'm around a low / mid MTN, white and 188cm barefoot, and I'm almost completely reliant on JBW (very rarely I match with someone from my own country, and they are harder to talk to as they put in less effort). The app automatically adjusted my range settings, as there aren't many people where I live, so it's hard to meet up with some people in these further away cities.
I'm almost always the one to message first (after the initial first message on bumble), but it seems almost all loose interest really fast. I usually get lot of them from bumble to Instagram, but then a lot of them get annoyed that I'm talking to other girls (they expect me to be exclusive when they aren't and we've never met or been on a date). I'm in my mid 20s now, and sometimes if past relationship topic comes up they think it's weird that I've never had a girlfriend.
Does anyone have any experience / advice with this?
@Xangsane @forevermirin @SecularIslamist